Friday, November 19, 2010

How can a guy play hard to get, yet still show interest in a girl?

This is mostly for when I deal with those girls who know that they're good-looking or think they're ';all that...'; you know what I mean.



How can I play hard to get, yet still show interest in her?How can a guy play hard to get, yet still show interest in a girl?
Ahh. The age old question. I love how games are always involved in dating. Well, here is what will be most successful:

Do not make yourself easily available. She doesn't need to know your every daily task. When she calls, don't always answer (but make sure you do call her back at some point!) When you do talk to her, say sweet things such as ';I've thought about you, what have you been up to?'; or ';I missed you, how have you been?'; Don't let on that your are falling head over, but seem interested when you do talk.



Remember, Desperate is never cute! And distance makes the heart grow fonder (but not too much!) Also, no one likes a bug-a-boo!How can a guy play hard to get, yet still show interest in a girl?
I think the best way to do that is to just casually talk to the girl. Don't try to come on to her or talk about getting with her. But make sure to ask questions about her, what she likes to do, her favorite band, etc. By asking her questions about herself and really taking the time to listen to what she has to say you will show her that you are interested, but there will still be a mysterious side to you because she won't really be able to read your mind. This means she will have to work the conversation also. Which she will do if she is interested.
Good luck
we ALWAYS expect for a guy that likes us to try to have sex with us. just give her a nice, strong hug and thats it. DO NOT try to have sex with her. if she asks u a question about sex, answer but dont explain unless she asks u to. dont try to kiss her either. if u do, on the cheek but not in the mouth.
You can't do both and seem like you want her.

It's either/or. Plus most girls really aren't into that whole playing games-thing.
In order for that to work, she has to like you. When you talk to girls like that, avoid all talk about relationships. Talking to them will show them interest but you're playing hard to get in that they have no idea whether you're seeing someone or how exactly you feel about them.
Just have confidence. Don't seem clingy, pushy, or desperate. Don't make it seem as if her opinion matters. Don't be snotty, but definitely don't be too sweet. Goodlooking girls always think theyre all that...if a guy doesn't give them the attention they want, the girl will be more attracted to them. Good luck

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