Sunday, November 21, 2010

How do play hard to get?

I wouldn't have a problem with anything else becuase i'm a sweet, nice but confident and have goals and i know for a fact women like that but the problem is the 1st step and that is getting the girl. Like I want to play hard to get so the girl can be more intrested to me bascially a challenge. But the rest of the stuff i wouldn't have a problem with. So i need advice/feedback. Serious answers to by the way.How do play hard to get?
1. Be flexible but not a pushover



2. Create distance without going anywhere



3. Give her what she wants but not in the way she expected



4. Don't compete, outlast the competition



5. Be totally open and upfront but keep raising questions in her mind and answering them: some right away, some later



6. Be easily accessible but “out of reach”



7. Stir the pot once in a while



8. Work the imagination and tease all of her senses



9. Initiate sexual contact when she least expects itHow do play hard to get?
Guys playing hard-to-get is the worst thing to do. Women like aggressive men who know what they want. That's how you ultimately win. If you go around playing games, you'll only end up with phonies and disrespectful women. There is a way to not give too much in the beginning, but certainly don't make it a game. Give her ';teasers'; if you will. Look into her eyes, compliment her good looks, then walk away for a few minutes. Depending on the setting, offer her a drink, help with her books, or ask her something interesting, but pretty random that might apply to her. Then from there, just continue being yourself. If it's right she's gonna like you game or no game. Games just force you to wait longer to get the girl you want--if you aren't too late by then.
even if you are interested...act like you arent interested....act like your busy when he wants to go out...if he really likes you hell like the challenge and youll keep him guessing...
get drunk
you shouldn't play hard to get, just don't be with anyone who just happens to walk by and finds you attractive.

you need to see what they look like on the outside ( if they respect themselves enough to dress well) and on the inside (for their personality).
ok if they are interested in u try to ignore them slightly if u r at a bar and a girl is next to u casually sit next to her but dont talk. and if she starts talking try like moans like hmm or yaa dont give a clear awnser then walk away for 10 mins or so and ask her some questions. dont expect this to work in 1 try though when ur persuing a chick it could take a coupple weeks just for her to want to date u



hope it helped
Girls really hate when guys play hard to get, but if you make yourself TOO availible, its like you are desperate. So, try to space out your dates. Dont hang out 3 days in a row... if you hung out with her one night, and the next night she calls and asks if you are doing anything, just tell her you have plans with your family or something... that will keep her interested and wanting you even more. But, dont be mean about it! If you ask for her number and she gives it to you, they always say dont call until a week later haha! DONT DO THAT! Just ask when it would be best to contact her and make a point to do so.. be dependable but not ALWAYS trying to talk to her

GOOD LUCK!! =]
When you play hard to get with a girl, she's going to lose interest. When a guy does that to me, I am like, screw it, I don't like playing games.



Girls like guys that express what they want and they go for it.



Don't play hard to get or you'll just end up loosing the girl. Trust me...

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