How do I figure out a male Gemini?

I'm Sag and I like this gemini guy, but he keeps sending mixed signals. Some days he hardly acknowloges my existence, other times he listens and we have deep long conversations.



Its so frusterating, how do I deal with this?

Also, do gemini's like girls playing hard to get, or strait forward?How do I figure out a male Gemini?
Geminis are the twins, and the one hand definitely does not know what the other is up to. They are quite mercurial, like quicksilver. As soon as you think you've got one figured out they change and move on. The only thing that's consistent with them is they like intellectual stimulation and they like a lot of variety. Sag is fire, and Gem is air. Air makes fire burn. He will enjoy playing with you, and seeing the effect he has on you. But gemini is a gentle spring breeze, and a little heat can send him off in a puff into thin air, too. They can be manipulated somewhat easily if you challenge their huge egos, but they will also be outta there if they suspect that someone is trying to control them. The dynamics between Sag and Gem are always complicated. For amusement, step back and watch the way he deals with situations. He spends his days walking around setting traps and then falling into them himself. Gems are silly that way. Gems and Sags will always frustrate each other. It takes a lot of love to make that combo work well. The best thing they have going for them is a fabulous and dynamic social life. Watch out for flying elbows and punches in his sleep. Geminis are armed, but not always for cuddling. If you are playing (hard to get or straight forward) keep it light. Don't be too serious. Geminis are all about fun.How do I figure out a male Gemini?
I'm a gemini and we have twin personalities, we are romantic on most days and sometimes aloof,
Geminis are two-faced, so you will never be able to figure out what the hell they want,they usually dont even know.

I stay the hell away from them!
we are hard to figure out....and straight forward is the way to go
you simply cant... gemini people are the most mysterious, they dont evon know who they are... i understand your frustration my ex girlfriend was a gemini, they are very complicated people... and usually have double or more personalities..
I'm a gemini female and I'm all over the place too my sister always asks me questions on what I would do because her boyfriend is a gemini too I tell her leave him alone because one day we'll love you the next day we'll hate you and we can't explain ourselves. We don't know what we want so if you can't deal with that move on now. Gemini's need people who are go with the flow and don't take things personally.
I'm a male Sag and have dated two Geminis.



Male gems are especially difficult to deal with. He will appreciate you being straight forward because his own ambitions and direction in life is so ambiguous already. If you are vague (';hard to get';), that will only contribute to his lack of direction.



Just be straight with him. That's always the best way.



I'm saying straight, though - not full-blown excess of romanticism
I had to deal with the same thing, they just change a lot get use to it, and don't try and figure him out he will only change.
Stay away from Gemini's. All they do is hurt you, although they don't mean to.
Go straightforward...If the guy doesn't know you like him,don't bother sending signals to show that,they most likely won't pick them up.You have to tell him straight in the face and you can't expect an answer straight away either.I'm a Gemini male and I got confessed once and I actually had to think for a while before I answered back.Wasn't that pretty either lol...Now that I think about it I'm actually pretty dense cause I already decided on a goal in life and was too focused on it to figure anything else.



Just a sneak peek into a mind of a Gemini.
The Gemini is a very complicated person. You are getting mixed signals because it depends on which twin you are dealing with at that particular time. Gems tend to be emotionally detached and extremely fickle and it can be hard to hold their attention. They can put you up so high on a pedestal one day, and the next day they can walk right past you as if you don't exist..... again.... it depends on which twin you are dealing with that day. Gems don't like commitments so move VERY slowly. Act uninterested most of the time and they will come around. They don't like to be ignored. They want a challenge and if you are too easy to get, they will move on. Be his friend first and get to know him because he is not an easy person to get to know. He doesn't want you to see his true self and he will put up walls so you can't get through. If you are his friend, he will slowly let these walls down and that is how you will get to know him. If you are his friend at first, with time, he will let you in and you will know him deeply, otherwise the relationship will be superficial. Be careful, Gems will tell you what you want to hear, that's why the ladies can't stay away from him. The number 1 thing to remember about the Gemini, is they need LOTS of space, so don't be calling him or following him around all of the time. They get smothered very easily. Hang in there!
horoscopes are lies, if you like the guy just give him a couple clues that you like him, just dont come off as slutty. If he likes you back youll probably end up going out