Okay,theres this guy at my school,I really like him, but he told me he doesnt do relationships.Well, I wanna break that,and be the girl he goes out with.I think i made a big mistake by kissing him already.But,i still need some advice.plz and thnxHow do u play hard to get?
Hard to get will be pretty hard to do if you kissed the guy.How do u play hard to get?
hahah. umm yeah . yur so hard to get that ima kiss yu. pshh. blew yur cover thur. i mean when guys say they arent good at relationships then i wud listen. trust me ik. ima guy. usually its because they are actually trying to keep yu from getting hurt. cuss hes prob a hump em and dump em dude. which is f*cked up. butt whatt yaa gunnaa dooo. talk to him. get deeperr into whyy he doesnt do relationships. see what ya get.
umm dont. dont play hard to get. dont try to change him. dont concern yourself with him if hes not interested.
you cant play hard to get if you already kissed him
Easy. Don't give him attention when he obviously wants it. Don't act snobby, but act like you're busy with other things so that you can't give him all your attention
how can you play hard to get when you are going to try to convince him to date you???
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Hard working director of a failing cast up for drama exam next week. what should i do?
We're five girls performing a diminutive adaptation of Spring Awakening for our semester exam on Feb 23. We're college juniors (3rd yr univ) for Performing Arts major. If this sounds familiar, I did ask this question last week but now there are new developments.
The exam is next week. I'm doing all the work like writing and rewriting scripts, training, editing music, and gathering the props. I'm playing Wendla (the lead character) and directing. The girl playing Anna is the only one who shows up at practice, but she doesn't work well when the cast isn't complete. The girl playing Martha went home interstate for Chinese New Year because it's the only time of the year she gets to see her parents. The girl playing Ilse has IBS (irritable bowel syndrome) and often misses practices due to sickness; but she never misses work teaching ballet classes. The girl playing Frau Bergmann is working for her mother in law's business, has marriage and financial problems, and is simply not in shape for performing the exam.
Recently I dismissed Frau Bergmann from the team for her uncooperative behaviour and rewrote the script. She protested, said that I wasn't being fair for firing her instead of Martha, who is away. I told Frau that's because Martha had permission and we have planned to work around that; whereas Frau wasn't picking up nor returning phone calls, doesn't text unless she needs to vent out her personal problems, and she doesn't practice in her own time.
I was supposed to talk to Frau privately today to make sure that we're kicking her out not grudgingly but to lift some weight off her and free her to deal with her personal problems first. To avoid misunderstanding, I didn't want to do it by phone or email so the earliest I could see her in person was today. However, Ilse already told Frau over the weekend that I no longer like her and want her out, so Frau wouldn't listen to any explanations from me and called Anna in front of me to ask her what I had told her. Frau also managed to talk to the lecturer before I did, so the lecturer ordered me to not kick her out.
Now I want to kick out Ilse for not respecting my prerogative for communicating decisions, and this has messed up what little harmony was left in the group. Ilse has been missing practice as much as Frau has, but the only reason why I saved her was because she turned up last Friday when I issued her the final warning. Frau did not come but sent me 10 text messages with all her excuses, so she's dismissed, no questions asked. I gave Ilse another chance and she blew it.
I need to communicate this to Ilse now because time is running out, but she is not picking up the phone. Today the doctor ordered total bed rest for her.
Martha and Anna are waiting for the new, 4 actor version of the script to be e-mailed. However, since Ilse is no longer part of the team (none of these girls know yet), I think I should be modifying the script again to a 3 actor version. Should I email the 4 actor version anyway and apologise for additional modifications once we get to 3 actors? Or should I just email the 3 actor version and explain everything later?
How do I make sure there's no hard feelings? All four girls, including Ilse and Frau are very good friends of mine, but I have to be fair with the teamwork. We're very tight knit; I just don't want this decision to create a rift in our friendship because this is like me pushing them off the cliff to fail the semester and re-enroll next year. Also, I don't want Martha and Anna to be intimidated by me and hate me for doing this to two of our best friends. Sure, I can explain to Anna in person tomorrow, but I won't be able to explain to Martha until she comes back on D-Day!
And finally, how do I convince the lecturer to accept my decision? She's insisting that I should keep Ilse and Frau because in the real world I will work with difficult people, and the unity of the team is part of the tests will have to pass. This exam is no exception. But I disagree, because if actors in Broadway treat rehearsals the way Ilse or Frau do, I'm sure they'd be fired right away and the director would either replace them with new actors or write out their characters altogether; because it is the director's job to ensure that the show goes on no matter what.
Please help. Thanks in advance.Hard working director of a failing cast up for drama exam next week. what should i do?
ahh, it's always difficult to work with an uncooperative team. what i do is get the whole group together, if you're friends, not to work, but just to meet, maybe at a coffee shop or something to talk, and hang out. just to show that you are all friends. and then maybe you can ask them to listen to speaking, and explain to them how you've been working really hard, and you feel that it is not fair that they are all dropping out on you, it is alot of work to keep adapting a script, and you would love if you all could work together. then say, however since this is an exam, and it is importnat, you did what you did for a reason, and explain the reasons in such a way that it seems like you were thinking about them like with Frau, how its best she figure out things for herself, and IIse to take care of her health.. like you are thinking about it for them, as opposed to doing this for you.
if you coudl talk to all of them, and get them allll on the same page, and then say that you will go talk to the lecturer, and explain the situation.
yes, i think you are absolutley right if this was any other director they would have fired them, i know the director of my school play surely would have, you get kicked out for missing 3 rehearsals maximum without valid reason..so don't forgot to explain to them this career path is a commitment, and that its a cooperative thing.
if they cant all get together and meet. then email them and explain to them, so that everybody reads it, and maybe even CC it to the lecturer. its less personal, but then they'll have time to read %26amp; reflect.. or even give them letters (weird but it worked for me once!) so that thtye just understand whats happenin..
as for emailing the script. if you are sure that it is a 3 people script. then email that out, you dont want to leave the option open, explain later, you are the director after-all, it is your call, and as far as i see it, it is a valid call.
good luck :) i hope this helped even a little.. (:hair care products vb
The exam is next week. I'm doing all the work like writing and rewriting scripts, training, editing music, and gathering the props. I'm playing Wendla (the lead character) and directing. The girl playing Anna is the only one who shows up at practice, but she doesn't work well when the cast isn't complete. The girl playing Martha went home interstate for Chinese New Year because it's the only time of the year she gets to see her parents. The girl playing Ilse has IBS (irritable bowel syndrome) and often misses practices due to sickness; but she never misses work teaching ballet classes. The girl playing Frau Bergmann is working for her mother in law's business, has marriage and financial problems, and is simply not in shape for performing the exam.
Recently I dismissed Frau Bergmann from the team for her uncooperative behaviour and rewrote the script. She protested, said that I wasn't being fair for firing her instead of Martha, who is away. I told Frau that's because Martha had permission and we have planned to work around that; whereas Frau wasn't picking up nor returning phone calls, doesn't text unless she needs to vent out her personal problems, and she doesn't practice in her own time.
I was supposed to talk to Frau privately today to make sure that we're kicking her out not grudgingly but to lift some weight off her and free her to deal with her personal problems first. To avoid misunderstanding, I didn't want to do it by phone or email so the earliest I could see her in person was today. However, Ilse already told Frau over the weekend that I no longer like her and want her out, so Frau wouldn't listen to any explanations from me and called Anna in front of me to ask her what I had told her. Frau also managed to talk to the lecturer before I did, so the lecturer ordered me to not kick her out.
Now I want to kick out Ilse for not respecting my prerogative for communicating decisions, and this has messed up what little harmony was left in the group. Ilse has been missing practice as much as Frau has, but the only reason why I saved her was because she turned up last Friday when I issued her the final warning. Frau did not come but sent me 10 text messages with all her excuses, so she's dismissed, no questions asked. I gave Ilse another chance and she blew it.
I need to communicate this to Ilse now because time is running out, but she is not picking up the phone. Today the doctor ordered total bed rest for her.
Martha and Anna are waiting for the new, 4 actor version of the script to be e-mailed. However, since Ilse is no longer part of the team (none of these girls know yet), I think I should be modifying the script again to a 3 actor version. Should I email the 4 actor version anyway and apologise for additional modifications once we get to 3 actors? Or should I just email the 3 actor version and explain everything later?
How do I make sure there's no hard feelings? All four girls, including Ilse and Frau are very good friends of mine, but I have to be fair with the teamwork. We're very tight knit; I just don't want this decision to create a rift in our friendship because this is like me pushing them off the cliff to fail the semester and re-enroll next year. Also, I don't want Martha and Anna to be intimidated by me and hate me for doing this to two of our best friends. Sure, I can explain to Anna in person tomorrow, but I won't be able to explain to Martha until she comes back on D-Day!
And finally, how do I convince the lecturer to accept my decision? She's insisting that I should keep Ilse and Frau because in the real world I will work with difficult people, and the unity of the team is part of the tests will have to pass. This exam is no exception. But I disagree, because if actors in Broadway treat rehearsals the way Ilse or Frau do, I'm sure they'd be fired right away and the director would either replace them with new actors or write out their characters altogether; because it is the director's job to ensure that the show goes on no matter what.
Please help. Thanks in advance.Hard working director of a failing cast up for drama exam next week. what should i do?
ahh, it's always difficult to work with an uncooperative team. what i do is get the whole group together, if you're friends, not to work, but just to meet, maybe at a coffee shop or something to talk, and hang out. just to show that you are all friends. and then maybe you can ask them to listen to speaking, and explain to them how you've been working really hard, and you feel that it is not fair that they are all dropping out on you, it is alot of work to keep adapting a script, and you would love if you all could work together. then say, however since this is an exam, and it is importnat, you did what you did for a reason, and explain the reasons in such a way that it seems like you were thinking about them like with Frau, how its best she figure out things for herself, and IIse to take care of her health.. like you are thinking about it for them, as opposed to doing this for you.
if you coudl talk to all of them, and get them allll on the same page, and then say that you will go talk to the lecturer, and explain the situation.
yes, i think you are absolutley right if this was any other director they would have fired them, i know the director of my school play surely would have, you get kicked out for missing 3 rehearsals maximum without valid reason..so don't forgot to explain to them this career path is a commitment, and that its a cooperative thing.
if they cant all get together and meet. then email them and explain to them, so that everybody reads it, and maybe even CC it to the lecturer. its less personal, but then they'll have time to read %26amp; reflect.. or even give them letters (weird but it worked for me once!) so that thtye just understand whats happenin..
as for emailing the script. if you are sure that it is a 3 people script. then email that out, you dont want to leave the option open, explain later, you are the director after-all, it is your call, and as far as i see it, it is a valid call.
good luck :) i hope this helped even a little.. (:
How can I tell if a girl is uninterested, shy, or playing hard to get after a first date?
Went out with a girl on Sunday for the first time. We decided to meet at 3:00 at the nearby coffee shop (she arrived just before I did). We had a good ';getting to know you'; conversation. She was kind of quiet, didn't ask too many questions, but for the most part her body language was good (maintained eye contact, smile, playing with her hair). The date ended about an hour later when she said she had to get going. We walk outside and she asked for a hug, which I gave her. I told her I'd like to see her again, and she answered ';you have my number.'; I called Wed. night...it rang twice, and then went to voicemail. Left msg. asking her to call back. No call back yet (it's friday now). Before the first date, she was quick to respond to e-mail/text msg. She seems kind of shy, and I THINK she is playing hard to get. If this is the case, how can I call her out on this? Also should I call, email, or text? Thank you everyone in advance for some good answers.How can I tell if a girl is uninterested, shy, or playing hard to get after a first date?
Don't play games, if you really liked her, just try calling her again. Sometimes, miscommunication can mess up a good thing. I wouldn't text or email her, that's too much, especially if you've only been on 1 date. If she doesn't call you back again, then get the hint.How can I tell if a girl is uninterested, shy, or playing hard to get after a first date?
play hard to get back dont call her again if she doesnt call you back after a week then ring her but if she still doesnt pick up or return the call then you know shes not interested
go for it. she likes you.
Hmmm . . . I would call her one more time and then give up.
don't contact her again...you've got to get her to think about you. No more contact till she calls, when she does, make her wait a couple of days before you call her back
Don't play games, if you really liked her, just try calling her again. Sometimes, miscommunication can mess up a good thing. I wouldn't text or email her, that's too much, especially if you've only been on 1 date. If she doesn't call you back again, then get the hint.How can I tell if a girl is uninterested, shy, or playing hard to get after a first date?
play hard to get back dont call her again if she doesnt call you back after a week then ring her but if she still doesnt pick up or return the call then you know shes not interested
go for it. she likes you.
Hmmm . . . I would call her one more time and then give up.
don't contact her again...you've got to get her to think about you. No more contact till she calls, when she does, make her wait a couple of days before you call her back
How to tell if a girl likes you, but is playing hard to get?
This girl I know, and like seems to be driving up my street a lot, prank calling me using *67, but the thing is, she wants to insist Im stalking her, but she's the only one doing any pursuing.
This girl knows I like her, and I did try to hook up with her back last fall, but she wouldnt go anywhere. I didnt see this girl for months because she was at college, but she showed back up as soon as the summer hit and she was back in town.
She wont admit to liking be, and insist that she doesnt, but she acts immature when around me.
What are the signs of playing hard to get?How to tell if a girl likes you, but is playing hard to get?
If a person is really that into you, he or she will move a mountain if that is what is standing between them and a phone. I have had perfect strangers borrow my cell phone to call and let someone know that they can鈥檛 call or talk as they鈥檇 promised.
So how do you tell common ';playing hard to get'; behaviours from 鈥渘ot interested'; behaviours. These are just five major differences in behaviours:
1. The person 鈥減laying hard to get'; often has many other men or women interested in him or her but while it hard for you to get him or her, it even harder for your competition. You get a clear message that he or she likes you more and is willing to be 鈥渃aught';. With the person 鈥渘ot interested'; on the other hand, you are not even sure they like you.
2. While a person 鈥減laying hard to get'; will continue to be very open and approachable and available he or she will be hard to nail down. The person 鈥渘ot interested'; on the other hand though he or she may have been very open and approachable and available initially will suddenly seem distant and unreachable.
3. A person playing hard to get will call when or she says they will call mainly because they care about how you feel and are careful not to hurt your feelings and consequently drive you away. The one 鈥渘ot interested'; just thinks of him or herself. Period.
4. A person 鈥減laying hard to get'; will cancel a date and usually has plausible reasons. S/he also makes sure to reschedule and already has a date, place and time in mind. The person 鈥渘ot interested'; if s/he calls at all will leave you unsure when you will next speak or see him or her.
5. A person 鈥減laying hard to get'; makes a real effort to get to know you as a person: asks personal questions about you, your work, your family or your day. He or she remembers things you say and let you know that they do. A person 鈥渘ot interested'; may keep in contact but asks no personal questions about you and avoids any personal questions about themselves. If he or she is lonely and just enjoying the attention, you find yourself in the role of adviser, counsellor, coach or purely social support. Once they find someone else to lean on, they move on without any guilt or shame about using you.
This girl knows I like her, and I did try to hook up with her back last fall, but she wouldnt go anywhere. I didnt see this girl for months because she was at college, but she showed back up as soon as the summer hit and she was back in town.
She wont admit to liking be, and insist that she doesnt, but she acts immature when around me.
What are the signs of playing hard to get?How to tell if a girl likes you, but is playing hard to get?
If a person is really that into you, he or she will move a mountain if that is what is standing between them and a phone. I have had perfect strangers borrow my cell phone to call and let someone know that they can鈥檛 call or talk as they鈥檇 promised.
So how do you tell common ';playing hard to get'; behaviours from 鈥渘ot interested'; behaviours. These are just five major differences in behaviours:
1. The person 鈥減laying hard to get'; often has many other men or women interested in him or her but while it hard for you to get him or her, it even harder for your competition. You get a clear message that he or she likes you more and is willing to be 鈥渃aught';. With the person 鈥渘ot interested'; on the other hand, you are not even sure they like you.
2. While a person 鈥減laying hard to get'; will continue to be very open and approachable and available he or she will be hard to nail down. The person 鈥渘ot interested'; on the other hand though he or she may have been very open and approachable and available initially will suddenly seem distant and unreachable.
3. A person playing hard to get will call when or she says they will call mainly because they care about how you feel and are careful not to hurt your feelings and consequently drive you away. The one 鈥渘ot interested'; just thinks of him or herself. Period.
4. A person 鈥減laying hard to get'; will cancel a date and usually has plausible reasons. S/he also makes sure to reschedule and already has a date, place and time in mind. The person 鈥渘ot interested'; if s/he calls at all will leave you unsure when you will next speak or see him or her.
5. A person 鈥減laying hard to get'; makes a real effort to get to know you as a person: asks personal questions about you, your work, your family or your day. He or she remembers things you say and let you know that they do. A person 鈥渘ot interested'; may keep in contact but asks no personal questions about you and avoids any personal questions about themselves. If he or she is lonely and just enjoying the attention, you find yourself in the role of adviser, counsellor, coach or purely social support. Once they find someone else to lean on, they move on without any guilt or shame about using you.
How do you get a date with a girl that thinks she is God, plays hard to get, and is conceited and flaky?
You don't bother with girls like that. They will never feel you, no matter how much you want them to. Didn't I tell you once about not stalking this girl?How do you get a date with a girl that thinks she is God, plays hard to get, and is conceited and flaky?
leave her alone.How do you get a date with a girl that thinks she is God, plays hard to get, and is conceited and flaky?
if a girl is not into you and she is not, no matter how many thing you done,you just messing up am i right ? the time will come,try being cool ~~this will help,but go of it!!!!!! you will get her ~
If you really want her then don't give up! Tell her how you feel and if it's meant to be it will be and you will be happy. If she's too uppity then it's not worth it. Move on.
don't be annoying, girls HATE it when you oconstantly hint to them that you like them and you don't see that they aren't interested. you shouldn't even go for someone like that anyway? do you really want to be in a relationship that's about ONE person instead of two?move on.. or ignore her for a couple weeks and ask her to a party so she thinks its as friends and she's kind of forced to see the fun side of you.
Why the hell would you want to date a girl like that? She will berate you, ditch you, and make you feel like you owe her something. If you really mean ';How do you bang a hot, stuck-up *****';, then just play to her ego and be slave-like.
Don't waste your time. If you know these things about her now it will only end badly. Stop thinking with your d*ck man!
I wouldn't even bother. I know that's not the answer you wanted to hear but... you could do so much better. Just keep trying and be her friend first then go from there.
if she likes you shell like you for who you are a conceited person is even like that!
I would break her... in another way
That kind of people really annoy me
Don't waste your time.
If she REALLY does mean that much to you, you can only keep doing what your doing to win her over mate.
leave her alone.How do you get a date with a girl that thinks she is God, plays hard to get, and is conceited and flaky?
if a girl is not into you and she is not, no matter how many thing you done,you just messing up am i right ? the time will come,try being cool ~~this will help,but go of it!!!!!! you will get her ~
If you really want her then don't give up! Tell her how you feel and if it's meant to be it will be and you will be happy. If she's too uppity then it's not worth it. Move on.
don't be annoying, girls HATE it when you oconstantly hint to them that you like them and you don't see that they aren't interested. you shouldn't even go for someone like that anyway? do you really want to be in a relationship that's about ONE person instead of two?move on.. or ignore her for a couple weeks and ask her to a party so she thinks its as friends and she's kind of forced to see the fun side of you.
Why the hell would you want to date a girl like that? She will berate you, ditch you, and make you feel like you owe her something. If you really mean ';How do you bang a hot, stuck-up *****';, then just play to her ego and be slave-like.
Don't waste your time. If you know these things about her now it will only end badly. Stop thinking with your d*ck man!
I wouldn't even bother. I know that's not the answer you wanted to hear but... you could do so much better. Just keep trying and be her friend first then go from there.
if she likes you shell like you for who you are a conceited person is even like that!
I would break her... in another way
That kind of people really annoy me
Don't waste your time.
If she REALLY does mean that much to you, you can only keep doing what your doing to win her over mate.
Help! I have major girl problems!?
The situation I've gotten myself into is a peculiar one, and I feel absolutely horrible about it. There are 3 girls that currently have feelings for me, and I have feelings for each of these three girls, but I am not dating either one of them. I want to, however, date one of these girls, but I am not sure which one as of yet. Girl A is my ex, who recently dumped me for her ex, but wants to get back together with me after seeing how her ex treated her. Girl B is one of my close friends. I have the strongest feelings for this girl, but she is 14 whereas I am 18, her parents would strongly disapprove, and it would be very very hard to see her. Girl C is my close friends best friend, and I like her very much. She is the furthest away, however, but she is the one that I would pick if I had to pick right now because she has a mix of both of the two previous girls and brings an extra niceness along with her. If it helps any, Girl A and Girl B know about Girl C, Girl B knows about Girl A, Girl C doesn't know about GIrl A or Girl B, and Girl A doesn't know about Girl B. Help please? I promise also I am not trying to play these girls, and if I am, it isn't on purpose!Help! I have major girl problems!?
be with the one you want to be with. (sounds like girl c to me) and if she likes you back, no need to tell her about the others. as long as she's the one you want.Help! I have major girl problems!?
don't ask any of them! Find some other girl that has no relationship to the other girls!
Have sex with all 3 at once
flip a coin or eenie meenie myni moe
whichever girl your hoping it is, is the one you should date
give C a try
I think you know the answer. Leave your ex an ex, your friends friends and look for someone completely new and exciting.
Girl A and Girl B know about Girl C, Girl B knows about Girl A, Girl C doesn't know about GIrl A or Girl B, and Girl A doesn't know about Girl B.
hahahaha do what? I think that you just need to pick one...I would go with ';girl C'; because she seems like the one that you know in your gut that you want to be with. Keep the other ones in mind, and if C doesn't work out, go from there. You might be playing them but not like seriously. It is fine :)
Well. It's good that you didn't consider all three as an option. Go you!
Girl B I think is a bit inappropriate. Girl A sounds dangerous and untrustworthy. Makes you sound like a rebound. Therefore, I would go with Girl C. She really seems the best out of them.
Hope I helped. :D
Choose girl C!!!
For sure get Girl A out of the picture. She's your ex, and she's the one who dumped you...? And she's just going back to you like you're a sidedish.
And if you have the strongest feelings for Girl B, then I think you should go fo her =) and for Girl C... just stay friends with her because, long distance relationships never work out... really.
Hope I helped, haha.
Pick girl C
A has already burned you once
B is illegal
go with girl C because its nto like u can really have the choice of dating girl B and girl A already had a chance. its whats best
i know this is probably hard to do, but dont date either of them i say this because sooner or later the other girl would find out that your dating the other girl and be mad. by dating one of them your going to get yourself tied up in a big knot and it'll be very hard to untangle yourself.
It sound like you like girl B the most, and I know there is a big age difference, but if shes the one you have the most feelings for I would go with her.
Maybe talk to her parents and tell them that you understand that the age difference concerns them, and that you realize they only want to protect her, but you really like who she is as a person. Tell them that you are willing to date by their rules, and if they want you guys to have at home dates, like watching movies or something you completely understand. You should be able to do whatever to be with the one you love.
no one has time to read such a stupid long question
Pick Girl C, you shouldn't go out with girls on the rebound, and you shouldn't go out with girls wayy younger than you.
whao buddy your nutz!!!
wow man u are in there deep. try to go for girl B or C. Girl A already dumped u so way get back together with her if she dumped u. U probably knew she would come crawling back to u though righ. lol
Wow, this is really confusing. Well, the way i see it, u should date Girl B. U said so that u have the strongest feelings for her. U know, in relationship, nothing matters beside two people loving each other. She's only 4 years younger than u! So what? i'm 14 too! Aren't u 18? Aren't u supposed to make ur own decision? Age difference doesn't matter that much.
dude thats alot of A's B's and C's....the ex i wouldnt go for, she already had her chance.. B yea your 18 and shes 14, thats not that bad of an age difference..youd have to convince her parents that you care alot about her, and if they like you they shouldnt mind too much, and girl C, shes girl B's close friend? bad idea, if you choose C over B then you would pronbobly loose B as a friend..so if i was you it would e girl B...
i think you should go with the one you have most feelings for like who would you save if they were falling down a bridge and you were on a bunji cord you could only save one
ok well the 14 year old is not mature enough to make decisions about dating which is why her parents dont approve so that leaves her out for 3 to 5 years
If a is your x that dumped you to go back with her x then is going to dump her x again (making him her xx) to go with her other x again (u) then she is wack and you probably dont want her around
so i guess that leaves c
ur a pedophile get someone ur own age
pick one!!
choose girl c whatevss
I would chose girl C seeing that your ex dumped you and now wants to get back with you and girl B is kind of young for you and its king of illegal :) Hope this helps
Hmm... It sort of seems that you should probably just forget about Girl A, because as far as I've heard, she seems like a little bitchy if she thinks she can dump you for her ex and then come crawling back to you. About Girl B, I know she's younger, but if you do have the strongest feelings for her, but she might not be mature enough to be in a relationship. Taking chances based on what you feel is right usually turns out okay. Since Girl C does not know about them then try giving Girl B a try, give Girl C a chance. That way you wiont have to deal with drama between Girl B And A. But if you do, make sure you are completely honest with Girl C
well i think girl C because she sounds like what you really want( from what you wrote :)) and the first one dumped you for another guy who was her ex which is just a ***** move. and now she wants you back? i wouldnt trust her. Girl B is just trouble lol( just because of the age difference....but hey if youre really into her, go for it). I think go for C and if that doesnt work out, wait a while and then you can go for B haha.
I think girl C, comfort her from the way her ex treated her, girl B is a total no! Girl C seems nice but she's too far away, no homo but i'd go with girl A.
Hey you sound like a nice guy, and coming from a girls perspective I think you should chose who makes you happiest and it will work out.. I wouldn't chose girl A because obviously she has feelings for other guys and thats a bad thing in a relationship. (TRUST ME it wont work) Girl B may be a good friend and she might be mature but if your 18 it could get you in legal trouble (Statitory Rape), especially if her rents dont like you they could file a complaint . As for girl C long distance relationships are hard but it can work depending on how far away you are from her. If i was you i'd go for GIRL C! Its sounds like you already like her alot so it should be a ood relationship! Good luck! :)
well i sure wish i had as many choices as you. the only two girls i ever tried asking out treated me like ****, and i never even got to asked them out. And any girls that have asked me out weren't very attractive. So i would pick the nicest girl out of them. You would probably get the most success from them.
be with the one you want to be with. (sounds like girl c to me) and if she likes you back, no need to tell her about the others. as long as she's the one you want.Help! I have major girl problems!?
don't ask any of them! Find some other girl that has no relationship to the other girls!
Have sex with all 3 at once
flip a coin or eenie meenie myni moe
whichever girl your hoping it is, is the one you should date
give C a try
I think you know the answer. Leave your ex an ex, your friends friends and look for someone completely new and exciting.
Girl A and Girl B know about Girl C, Girl B knows about Girl A, Girl C doesn't know about GIrl A or Girl B, and Girl A doesn't know about Girl B.
hahahaha do what? I think that you just need to pick one...I would go with ';girl C'; because she seems like the one that you know in your gut that you want to be with. Keep the other ones in mind, and if C doesn't work out, go from there. You might be playing them but not like seriously. It is fine :)
Well. It's good that you didn't consider all three as an option. Go you!
Girl B I think is a bit inappropriate. Girl A sounds dangerous and untrustworthy. Makes you sound like a rebound. Therefore, I would go with Girl C. She really seems the best out of them.
Hope I helped. :D
Choose girl C!!!
For sure get Girl A out of the picture. She's your ex, and she's the one who dumped you...? And she's just going back to you like you're a sidedish.
And if you have the strongest feelings for Girl B, then I think you should go fo her =) and for Girl C... just stay friends with her because, long distance relationships never work out... really.
Hope I helped, haha.
Pick girl C
A has already burned you once
B is illegal
go with girl C because its nto like u can really have the choice of dating girl B and girl A already had a chance. its whats best
i know this is probably hard to do, but dont date either of them i say this because sooner or later the other girl would find out that your dating the other girl and be mad. by dating one of them your going to get yourself tied up in a big knot and it'll be very hard to untangle yourself.
It sound like you like girl B the most, and I know there is a big age difference, but if shes the one you have the most feelings for I would go with her.
Maybe talk to her parents and tell them that you understand that the age difference concerns them, and that you realize they only want to protect her, but you really like who she is as a person. Tell them that you are willing to date by their rules, and if they want you guys to have at home dates, like watching movies or something you completely understand. You should be able to do whatever to be with the one you love.
no one has time to read such a stupid long question
Pick Girl C, you shouldn't go out with girls on the rebound, and you shouldn't go out with girls wayy younger than you.
whao buddy your nutz!!!
wow man u are in there deep. try to go for girl B or C. Girl A already dumped u so way get back together with her if she dumped u. U probably knew she would come crawling back to u though righ. lol
Wow, this is really confusing. Well, the way i see it, u should date Girl B. U said so that u have the strongest feelings for her. U know, in relationship, nothing matters beside two people loving each other. She's only 4 years younger than u! So what? i'm 14 too! Aren't u 18? Aren't u supposed to make ur own decision? Age difference doesn't matter that much.
dude thats alot of A's B's and C's....the ex i wouldnt go for, she already had her chance.. B yea your 18 and shes 14, thats not that bad of an age difference..youd have to convince her parents that you care alot about her, and if they like you they shouldnt mind too much, and girl C, shes girl B's close friend? bad idea, if you choose C over B then you would pronbobly loose B as a friend..so if i was you it would e girl B...
i think you should go with the one you have most feelings for like who would you save if they were falling down a bridge and you were on a bunji cord you could only save one
ok well the 14 year old is not mature enough to make decisions about dating which is why her parents dont approve so that leaves her out for 3 to 5 years
If a is your x that dumped you to go back with her x then is going to dump her x again (making him her xx) to go with her other x again (u) then she is wack and you probably dont want her around
so i guess that leaves c
ur a pedophile get someone ur own age
pick one!!
choose girl c whatevss
I would chose girl C seeing that your ex dumped you and now wants to get back with you and girl B is kind of young for you and its king of illegal :) Hope this helps
Hmm... It sort of seems that you should probably just forget about Girl A, because as far as I've heard, she seems like a little bitchy if she thinks she can dump you for her ex and then come crawling back to you. About Girl B, I know she's younger, but if you do have the strongest feelings for her, but she might not be mature enough to be in a relationship. Taking chances based on what you feel is right usually turns out okay. Since Girl C does not know about them then try giving Girl B a try, give Girl C a chance. That way you wiont have to deal with drama between Girl B And A. But if you do, make sure you are completely honest with Girl C
well i think girl C because she sounds like what you really want( from what you wrote :)) and the first one dumped you for another guy who was her ex which is just a ***** move. and now she wants you back? i wouldnt trust her. Girl B is just trouble lol( just because of the age difference....but hey if youre really into her, go for it). I think go for C and if that doesnt work out, wait a while and then you can go for B haha.
I think girl C, comfort her from the way her ex treated her, girl B is a total no! Girl C seems nice but she's too far away, no homo but i'd go with girl A.
Hey you sound like a nice guy, and coming from a girls perspective I think you should chose who makes you happiest and it will work out.. I wouldn't chose girl A because obviously she has feelings for other guys and thats a bad thing in a relationship. (TRUST ME it wont work) Girl B may be a good friend and she might be mature but if your 18 it could get you in legal trouble (Statitory Rape), especially if her rents dont like you they could file a complaint . As for girl C long distance relationships are hard but it can work depending on how far away you are from her. If i was you i'd go for GIRL C! Its sounds like you already like her alot so it should be a ood relationship! Good luck! :)
well i sure wish i had as many choices as you. the only two girls i ever tried asking out treated me like ****, and i never even got to asked them out. And any girls that have asked me out weren't very attractive. So i would pick the nicest girl out of them. You would probably get the most success from them.
How do you know someone has a problem with you?
I play girls basketball for a college team. I was a freshman and was the only girl who started a few games out of both freshmans + sophmores.
During practices last season, I always felt like one of the sophmore girls was extra agressive when playing defense with me. I thought it was all in my head, and just thought she was just a hard worker, but I always felt she was a little too agressive. (I dont know) (Also, she doesnt play much at all in the games, and I get a lot more playing time than she does as a freshman)
But then when the season was over, we had practices. When we had practice scrimages, I would score a lot of shots, and practice my moves and stuff. A couple of times I would score in her face. (I'm not trying to challenge her or anything, I'm just trying to get better)
But then one time when I drove to the basket, she kind of pushed me out of bounce, and I called a foul. And then she got angry saying you have to stop going the basket out of control, and stop calling fouls. Then I said, but you pushed me? And she said but you were out of control. (I didnt want to argue, because I hate arguing, and I'm not a dramaqueen type of girl). So i got a little angry so I played hard defense on her, then I slapped her (accidently) and she was like Uh FOUL!..and then walked away.
I felt awkward and didnt know what to do because I dont want problems. I dont want problems with her because I'm going to see her everyday, and like idk i dont want to deal with it!
Whats the deal with her, and why is she acting like this? Does she have a problem with me? Does she hate me? I rarely have problems with people because I'm not that much of a *****, and I'm more to myself type of girl.How do you know someone has a problem with you?
Some people are going to like me and some people are going to dislike me,'; he once said. ';I always live by the 50 percent rule 鈥?50 percent of the people are going to like you and 50 percent of the people aren't going to like you. Some people are going to dislike you because you're black; some people are going to dislike you because you're from the South; some people are going to dislike you because you play for the Suns or for the 76ers; some people are going to dislike you because you're Jewish. I mean, someone is always going to dislike you, but you can't concentrate on the negative stuff.';
by Charles BarkleyHow do you know someone has a problem with you?
She's A Rival!asian hair
During practices last season, I always felt like one of the sophmore girls was extra agressive when playing defense with me. I thought it was all in my head, and just thought she was just a hard worker, but I always felt she was a little too agressive. (I dont know) (Also, she doesnt play much at all in the games, and I get a lot more playing time than she does as a freshman)
But then when the season was over, we had practices. When we had practice scrimages, I would score a lot of shots, and practice my moves and stuff. A couple of times I would score in her face. (I'm not trying to challenge her or anything, I'm just trying to get better)
But then one time when I drove to the basket, she kind of pushed me out of bounce, and I called a foul. And then she got angry saying you have to stop going the basket out of control, and stop calling fouls. Then I said, but you pushed me? And she said but you were out of control. (I didnt want to argue, because I hate arguing, and I'm not a dramaqueen type of girl). So i got a little angry so I played hard defense on her, then I slapped her (accidently) and she was like Uh FOUL!..and then walked away.
I felt awkward and didnt know what to do because I dont want problems. I dont want problems with her because I'm going to see her everyday, and like idk i dont want to deal with it!
Whats the deal with her, and why is she acting like this? Does she have a problem with me? Does she hate me? I rarely have problems with people because I'm not that much of a *****, and I'm more to myself type of girl.How do you know someone has a problem with you?
Some people are going to like me and some people are going to dislike me,'; he once said. ';I always live by the 50 percent rule 鈥?50 percent of the people are going to like you and 50 percent of the people aren't going to like you. Some people are going to dislike you because you're black; some people are going to dislike you because you're from the South; some people are going to dislike you because you play for the Suns or for the 76ers; some people are going to dislike you because you're Jewish. I mean, someone is always going to dislike you, but you can't concentrate on the negative stuff.';
by Charles BarkleyHow do you know someone has a problem with you?
She's A Rival!
A question for guys who can play a girl? girls can answer too.?
i started talking to this guy online and on the phone that i knew thru a friend. he would call constantly and go online more than he ever did to talk to me. we spoke for hours at a time everyday. i thought he really liked me. when we finally went out we had a great time and he said how he liked me soo much and was doing things like kissing my forehead and holding my hand. we were getting along great and talked alot. by the end of the night he was kissing me and started touching and stuff but i kept moving his hand away. after that night he seemed distant and didnt wanna talk to me. he finally told me that he didnt want a relationship bc he had **** to deal with and he had no time for a girl. did he dump me bc i didnt go that far with him? if he was a real player, wouldnt he have tried a little harder to get into my pants? perhaps see me again and not blow me off the way he did? if he had no time why did he go out with me in the first place?A question for guys who can play a girl? girls can answer too.?
You know what, we don't know whether or not he was trying to get in your pants. We do know, because you told us, that you were discouraging whatever it was that he was trying to do. That is a game not many men want to waste their time playing. He didn't dump you, you made what ever he thought you might be too difficult to attain. He did not get the feedback from you that would make whatever relationship he was looking for worthwhile. It is ok for you to set rules for touching, but just shoving his hand away or ';playing'; hard to get without also letting him know where you stand--i.e. that you do have an interest in him, will lead him to conclude that a relationship with you will always be a struggle to have a relationship. I don't think he dumped you because you didn't go as far as he wanted, I think he dumped you because you sent mixed messages that were too damn hard to figure out. No man wants to work hard when he feels rejection is in the works.A question for guys who can play a girl? girls can answer too.?
He just cant stand the fact you rejected his advances.
A true player(like myself for instance) knows when to advance and when to hold back....trust me on this one...the stallion knows this all too well:) The guy is pissed off and this happened for a reason. Move on and dont worry about it
he might have been embarrassed or something...
or it could have been that he thought you were easy and then wasnt interested when you were more than that...
the best way to know would be to ask him..
best of luck
If he isn't as pretty as you he was probably shocked and thought no way I would ever get this chic in real life. So he tried to charm and see if he could get the goods. When he failed it affirmed his suspicions. He'll move on and find someone else to play.
He's a player alright . . . a quicktime player. He knows he's not all that . . . in person. He's able to wax philosophical through the safety of his keyboard, but when it comes to one on one he's lost, or worse only has one thing on his mind. If he doesn't get what he want quick and easy, he's movin on to the next. Playin the numbers game. sooner or later he'll get what he's after . . . . trust me . . . he will
maybe youre ugly and werent worth wasting too much time with
Sadly, you found out that the only thing he wanted from you was sex. It wouldn't have mattered if you would have had sex with him or not, he would have been done with you and on to the next girl. Be happy you are done with him. This happens many times with internet relationships. Stick to dating guys that live in your city.
he tried to get in your pants and when he saw that u wrent having it he stoped , trust ,me he is a player , a real player views it like this i try u say no ,thats ur loss i will try wit someone else later no big deal,why put time in if u are not gonna get anywhere thats how its viewed , remember what u wont do someone else will mayb faster,sorry u had to get gased up by the guy, atleast u found out he was not what he tried to be.
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Many of your own questions you already knew the answers. You were lucky you were not humped and dumped like many girls before you. Sadly many people see all the signs, they just hope they are not seeing what they are seeing, or try to convince themselves it is something different. He has time to call you up ALL THE TIME, before the date, and even have time to take you out. Then when he gets no nookie, he all of a sudden has no time and don't want a relationship? He was playing you had. After you rebuffed him, he was trying to play like he really did not want you to make you feel as if YOU were being rejected as not good enough and beg for the chance to prove you are worthy(and hopefully by hopping on your back naked like many others) He did not put in more effort because there are a whole city of stupid gullible girls who would be on their back and out of their clothes if he said the 3 majic words; ';I love you'; What IS there to be cionfused over? He was just trying to make you that night's booty call.
sorry u got played. good for you though!!!
Yes he was just trying to get some. But it's cool. Better to find out now rather than in some other sleazy way.
You know what, we don't know whether or not he was trying to get in your pants. We do know, because you told us, that you were discouraging whatever it was that he was trying to do. That is a game not many men want to waste their time playing. He didn't dump you, you made what ever he thought you might be too difficult to attain. He did not get the feedback from you that would make whatever relationship he was looking for worthwhile. It is ok for you to set rules for touching, but just shoving his hand away or ';playing'; hard to get without also letting him know where you stand--i.e. that you do have an interest in him, will lead him to conclude that a relationship with you will always be a struggle to have a relationship. I don't think he dumped you because you didn't go as far as he wanted, I think he dumped you because you sent mixed messages that were too damn hard to figure out. No man wants to work hard when he feels rejection is in the works.A question for guys who can play a girl? girls can answer too.?
He just cant stand the fact you rejected his advances.
A true player(like myself for instance) knows when to advance and when to hold back....trust me on this one...the stallion knows this all too well:) The guy is pissed off and this happened for a reason. Move on and dont worry about it
he might have been embarrassed or something...
or it could have been that he thought you were easy and then wasnt interested when you were more than that...
the best way to know would be to ask him..
best of luck
If he isn't as pretty as you he was probably shocked and thought no way I would ever get this chic in real life. So he tried to charm and see if he could get the goods. When he failed it affirmed his suspicions. He'll move on and find someone else to play.
He's a player alright . . . a quicktime player. He knows he's not all that . . . in person. He's able to wax philosophical through the safety of his keyboard, but when it comes to one on one he's lost, or worse only has one thing on his mind. If he doesn't get what he want quick and easy, he's movin on to the next. Playin the numbers game. sooner or later he'll get what he's after . . . . trust me . . . he will
maybe youre ugly and werent worth wasting too much time with
Sadly, you found out that the only thing he wanted from you was sex. It wouldn't have mattered if you would have had sex with him or not, he would have been done with you and on to the next girl. Be happy you are done with him. This happens many times with internet relationships. Stick to dating guys that live in your city.
he tried to get in your pants and when he saw that u wrent having it he stoped , trust ,me he is a player , a real player views it like this i try u say no ,thats ur loss i will try wit someone else later no big deal,why put time in if u are not gonna get anywhere thats how its viewed , remember what u wont do someone else will mayb faster,sorry u had to get gased up by the guy, atleast u found out he was not what he tried to be.
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Many of your own questions you already knew the answers. You were lucky you were not humped and dumped like many girls before you. Sadly many people see all the signs, they just hope they are not seeing what they are seeing, or try to convince themselves it is something different. He has time to call you up ALL THE TIME, before the date, and even have time to take you out. Then when he gets no nookie, he all of a sudden has no time and don't want a relationship? He was playing you had. After you rebuffed him, he was trying to play like he really did not want you to make you feel as if YOU were being rejected as not good enough and beg for the chance to prove you are worthy(and hopefully by hopping on your back naked like many others) He did not put in more effort because there are a whole city of stupid gullible girls who would be on their back and out of their clothes if he said the 3 majic words; ';I love you'; What IS there to be cionfused over? He was just trying to make you that night's booty call.
sorry u got played. good for you though!!!
Yes he was just trying to get some. But it's cool. Better to find out now rather than in some other sleazy way.
Have you girls or guys ever had someone play really hard to get?
Anyone can answer this question!
Alright have you ever had someone play hard to get and not know how to play it properly? I mean, you know they are interested, they show signs of it but they play the hard to get card none-the-less. I.E. They toss you a bone like kissing you then they say they don't want to get with you.(and I mean kissing kissing, not the 'oh how cute' kiss. The make-out type of kiss) You know they are interested when you get with someone else and then they say 'darn it I should've asked you sooner'. So on and so forth. I can go throw a lot of these. You see, there's this guy that played hard to get with me, played it like this... His 'card' for playing hard to get was 'I need to get over (insert someone's name here)'. I give him time to get over them and he starts dating another girl while I am not in contact with him due to me temporarily giving up, dating another person... so on and so forth. In other words, this guy likes to use the 'I'm trying to get over someone' hard to get card. But anyways, it doesn't matter the hard to get card they play, just the question of. 'Have you had someone play hard to get and obviously not know how to play it right?'Have you girls or guys ever had someone play really hard to get?
You know how girls mess with guys even though they'd never ever ever be interested, they just do it because it's fun? Well, guys do it too, guys can be jerks too. Do you really want to be with a guy that can't express his feelings? If all he's going to do it play the hard to get card, just walk away from the table.Have you girls or guys ever had someone play really hard to get?
answer my question for me, the question and explaination may just answer your question for you.....
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I loved a girl and she got married in front of my eyes.. could anything worse than this????
Alright have you ever had someone play hard to get and not know how to play it properly? I mean, you know they are interested, they show signs of it but they play the hard to get card none-the-less. I.E. They toss you a bone like kissing you then they say they don't want to get with you.(and I mean kissing kissing, not the 'oh how cute' kiss. The make-out type of kiss) You know they are interested when you get with someone else and then they say 'darn it I should've asked you sooner'. So on and so forth. I can go throw a lot of these. You see, there's this guy that played hard to get with me, played it like this... His 'card' for playing hard to get was 'I need to get over (insert someone's name here)'. I give him time to get over them and he starts dating another girl while I am not in contact with him due to me temporarily giving up, dating another person... so on and so forth. In other words, this guy likes to use the 'I'm trying to get over someone' hard to get card. But anyways, it doesn't matter the hard to get card they play, just the question of. 'Have you had someone play hard to get and obviously not know how to play it right?'Have you girls or guys ever had someone play really hard to get?
You know how girls mess with guys even though they'd never ever ever be interested, they just do it because it's fun? Well, guys do it too, guys can be jerks too. Do you really want to be with a guy that can't express his feelings? If all he's going to do it play the hard to get card, just walk away from the table.Have you girls or guys ever had someone play really hard to get?
answer my question for me, the question and explaination may just answer your question for you.....
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
I loved a girl and she got married in front of my eyes.. could anything worse than this????
How to play hard to get?
I like this girl... and apparently like me. A friend of both of ours told me to be with her more because she needs to realize that she likes me and misses me when i dont talk to her. So, how do i play hard to get? just enough to entice her to talk to me first???
Thanks!How to play hard to get?
sorry.. girls don't dig guys who are hard to get. we're supposed to play that part :)
LOL.if a guy is acting hard to get we get the impression that he doesn't feel the same towards us or he's just another jerk..
make the move because your the guy, or if you don't like that then just stay at the background but trust me she'l misinterpret it..:)How to play hard to get?
Oh please. Grow up and stop with the stupid headgames. If you want to talk to her, then talk to her. If she likes you, then she likes you. If she doesn't like you, then she doesn't like you and both of you can move on to finding someone who DOES like you without needing to resort to stupid headgames.
thats dumb if you like her just talk to her.
patience
Just flirt a little with other girls and stick to small talk with her and seem kind of uninterested.
Playing ';hard to get'; is exactly that...playing.
Either quit or get serious!
Why don't you talk to her first, girls like that. Don't play hard to get, that's just dumb.
that's dumb. you'll make her think you're uninterested and she'll move on.
sit down next to her when you get a break between algebra and social studies (that's a crack on you sounding like your 12 btw) and whip your 4 inch wiener out and rub it against her leg...
your plan is brilliant if you want her to move right past you.
Say Hi and be like ';I'd really like to talk, but I have a lot going on, maybe next week we can chat.'; Suck it in and wait a few days. Try to get her to call you.
don't playy hard to gettt!! =O
im a girl who hates it
when boys do it to me
i end up thinking there not interested
and to get over them end up flirting and stuff with other guys
believe me if you just talk to her normally and stuff shell like you
just use this method
talk to her on 1 day
and the next day let her talk to you
or talk to her for about 2 days and wait for her to talk to you
shes probably playing hard to get back
cause i don't usually talk to guys first unless i really have to
help me pls give me a boys opinion
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10x
Thanks!How to play hard to get?
sorry.. girls don't dig guys who are hard to get. we're supposed to play that part :)
LOL.if a guy is acting hard to get we get the impression that he doesn't feel the same towards us or he's just another jerk..
make the move because your the guy, or if you don't like that then just stay at the background but trust me she'l misinterpret it..:)How to play hard to get?
Oh please. Grow up and stop with the stupid headgames. If you want to talk to her, then talk to her. If she likes you, then she likes you. If she doesn't like you, then she doesn't like you and both of you can move on to finding someone who DOES like you without needing to resort to stupid headgames.
thats dumb if you like her just talk to her.
patience
Just flirt a little with other girls and stick to small talk with her and seem kind of uninterested.
Playing ';hard to get'; is exactly that...playing.
Either quit or get serious!
Why don't you talk to her first, girls like that. Don't play hard to get, that's just dumb.
that's dumb. you'll make her think you're uninterested and she'll move on.
sit down next to her when you get a break between algebra and social studies (that's a crack on you sounding like your 12 btw) and whip your 4 inch wiener out and rub it against her leg...
your plan is brilliant if you want her to move right past you.
Say Hi and be like ';I'd really like to talk, but I have a lot going on, maybe next week we can chat.'; Suck it in and wait a few days. Try to get her to call you.
don't playy hard to gettt!! =O
im a girl who hates it
when boys do it to me
i end up thinking there not interested
and to get over them end up flirting and stuff with other guys
believe me if you just talk to her normally and stuff shell like you
just use this method
talk to her on 1 day
and the next day let her talk to you
or talk to her for about 2 days and wait for her to talk to you
shes probably playing hard to get back
cause i don't usually talk to guys first unless i really have to
help me pls give me a boys opinion
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
10x
How can I tell if a woman is playing hard-to-get (Ladies 18+, I could use your help)?
I think this girl I like now is playing hard to get with me. What are some characteristics that are shown when a woman is playing hard to get? I know these things might not be the same for all women, but I'm just looking for a general idea. I can work with that. Thanks for your help in advance. How can I tell if a woman is playing hard-to-get (Ladies 18+, I could use your help)?
Here's the real test ... ignore her. If she's playing hard to get, she's doing it because she likes you. If you ignore her, it turns the tables on her and puts her in the position of pursuit. Women will yell and scream at me for revealing the truth but there it is. Don't call her ... don't ask her about herself ... by all means, don't do ';friend'; things with her.
One of three things is going on here: 1. She likes you and wants you to pursue her, and she thinks playing hard to get will draw you in; 2. She's not into you and is just playing with you; and 3. You are imagining the whole thing.
Whichever of these is true, the only defense an informed man has, if he's really into the woman, is to ignore her. Feign disinterest. It drives women crazy. They can't stand it. Ultimately, if she really likes you and isn't just playing with you, she will find a way to make it obvious. Women think they are so stealthy, but women get stupid when guys ignore them.
The big concern here is, you stand at the brink of the friend zone. If you two haven't made a connection in the next two weeks, you're going down the tubes ... eject before you get consumed by the flames. How can I tell if a woman is playing hard-to-get (Ladies 18+, I could use your help)?
if she makes eye contact with you and laughs at some things you say... she's interested in you as a friend or even more. if she doesnt seem like she wants your attention then leave her alone. if she's playing hard to get then she'll wonder why you dont want her attention anymore and try to get yours!! try it... it works. if she just thinks your a creap and doesnt want your attention then she just wont talk to you. its that simple.
I think you should be able to tell. If she is friendly and flirts but holds back sometimes, let's you see her with other guys or flirting with others, ';disappears'; without explanation, avoids you at times, or is busy when you ask her out without much notice...then she may be playing hard to get.
it is called cat and mouse. If she gets you to a cetain point and then pulls back, or tells you that she is not one to go on any base unless there is a ring on her finger. Those gals tend to bee a little anal ret. btw wtf do i know about playing hard to get.lol. hugs
Depends on what the lady is doing to play hard to get, maybe she is old fashioned and wants you to make the first move. I think you should ask her what she likes from a man, and take it from there, maybe you are reading to much into it.
Try ignoring her and flirting with other girls instead (right in front of her), and see what happens.
they are all playing hard to get , unless they are deprate...
were all trying to play hard-to-get we really just want lovin' trust me i would know!
Well like you said, every female's different so it would be kinda hard to know where her head's at, so I'll just speak from my experience.
There was a lot of body language going on. It's like I would flaunt myself in such a way that it wasn't too much, but not too little either: be it the way I walked (I didn't walk like I was about to throw my hip outta socket, but graceful w/ a slight twist to it, talked (I wasn't loud and valleygirl or ghetto, but a little soft and easy to the ear), laughed (I wasn't falling out the seat, rolling on the floor, laughing at everything, but a quiet laugh with tears or a girly giggle), smiled (I wasn't getting koolaid, though it may have been big, I showed no teeth - I figured if I'd shown my teeth then he'd thought he would have had me, so I had to reverse it), played with my hair or pushed it behind my ears (showed I was interested and wanted to hear more), looked at the lips instead of the eyes when he was speaking (lead him to believe that I found them very inviting) and I even took glances when I thought he wasn't looking (thinking in my mind like this person is actually cool and ';I wonder...). I would give a light slap on the arm if I thought something was funny or dumb ( that was my way of getting free body contact).
When I felt like he was becoming interested I would ease up a little bit and focus my attention else where either on something or someone.I mean it's kinda out there, but that's what happened. Don't know if that'll help any.
Here's the real test ... ignore her. If she's playing hard to get, she's doing it because she likes you. If you ignore her, it turns the tables on her and puts her in the position of pursuit. Women will yell and scream at me for revealing the truth but there it is. Don't call her ... don't ask her about herself ... by all means, don't do ';friend'; things with her.
One of three things is going on here: 1. She likes you and wants you to pursue her, and she thinks playing hard to get will draw you in; 2. She's not into you and is just playing with you; and 3. You are imagining the whole thing.
Whichever of these is true, the only defense an informed man has, if he's really into the woman, is to ignore her. Feign disinterest. It drives women crazy. They can't stand it. Ultimately, if she really likes you and isn't just playing with you, she will find a way to make it obvious. Women think they are so stealthy, but women get stupid when guys ignore them.
The big concern here is, you stand at the brink of the friend zone. If you two haven't made a connection in the next two weeks, you're going down the tubes ... eject before you get consumed by the flames. How can I tell if a woman is playing hard-to-get (Ladies 18+, I could use your help)?
if she makes eye contact with you and laughs at some things you say... she's interested in you as a friend or even more. if she doesnt seem like she wants your attention then leave her alone. if she's playing hard to get then she'll wonder why you dont want her attention anymore and try to get yours!! try it... it works. if she just thinks your a creap and doesnt want your attention then she just wont talk to you. its that simple.
I think you should be able to tell. If she is friendly and flirts but holds back sometimes, let's you see her with other guys or flirting with others, ';disappears'; without explanation, avoids you at times, or is busy when you ask her out without much notice...then she may be playing hard to get.
it is called cat and mouse. If she gets you to a cetain point and then pulls back, or tells you that she is not one to go on any base unless there is a ring on her finger. Those gals tend to bee a little anal ret. btw wtf do i know about playing hard to get.lol. hugs
Depends on what the lady is doing to play hard to get, maybe she is old fashioned and wants you to make the first move. I think you should ask her what she likes from a man, and take it from there, maybe you are reading to much into it.
Try ignoring her and flirting with other girls instead (right in front of her), and see what happens.
they are all playing hard to get , unless they are deprate...
were all trying to play hard-to-get we really just want lovin' trust me i would know!
Well like you said, every female's different so it would be kinda hard to know where her head's at, so I'll just speak from my experience.
There was a lot of body language going on. It's like I would flaunt myself in such a way that it wasn't too much, but not too little either: be it the way I walked (I didn't walk like I was about to throw my hip outta socket, but graceful w/ a slight twist to it, talked (I wasn't loud and valleygirl or ghetto, but a little soft and easy to the ear), laughed (I wasn't falling out the seat, rolling on the floor, laughing at everything, but a quiet laugh with tears or a girly giggle), smiled (I wasn't getting koolaid, though it may have been big, I showed no teeth - I figured if I'd shown my teeth then he'd thought he would have had me, so I had to reverse it), played with my hair or pushed it behind my ears (showed I was interested and wanted to hear more), looked at the lips instead of the eyes when he was speaking (lead him to believe that I found them very inviting) and I even took glances when I thought he wasn't looking (thinking in my mind like this person is actually cool and ';I wonder...). I would give a light slap on the arm if I thought something was funny or dumb ( that was my way of getting free body contact).
When I felt like he was becoming interested I would ease up a little bit and focus my attention else where either on something or someone.I mean it's kinda out there, but that's what happened. Don't know if that'll help any.
How to play hard to get after you messed up?
well.. there's this guy i like !!
he's so hot, and he's used to get any girl and go out with any girl he wants !!
well, i played a little hard to get when we first talked !
( we knew each other through facebook)
we started talking about different topics , and whenever he want to talk dirty to me i turn him off and change the topic )
i was supposed to leave for good so i told him.. and he wanted to meet me to say goodbye !
well.. the worst nightmare was that i didn't leave... the plans were changed ! and i had to stay in my country!
so we started talking again and everything went fine.. but he started talking about how sexy i am and how sexy my body is :S
i started responding,( i let him to keep talking about it :S )
anyways.. i asked him to take me in a drive once but he told me that he'll come under one condition only ( which is kissing him) :S
i didn't accept that..! he started talking about my body again...
anyways.. he talks to me on msn whenever he wants .. he doesn't answer sometimes or reply me bk !
I WANT TO PLAY HARD TO GET !!
I REALLY DO LIKE HIM .. AND I WANT HIM TO CHASE AFTER ME !!
PLEASE HELP!How to play hard to get after you messed up?
He sounds dangerous.He'll break your heart big time.He most likely has a string of girls he strings along.He only wants one thing...%26amp; it's not conversation.Walk away before you're in too deep or in a situation alone with him where you may be hurt.How to play hard to get after you messed up?
What are you ...13 ?
you play too hard to get and he'll move on to the next piece of booty.. he'll still have you on the radar but don't expect any roses.. you're sexy, he's a guy.. c'mon.. don't be naive..
you just have to act like your not interested in him. it's worked for me everytime. i don't know why, but guys always want what they can't have. don't be a bi**h, but just show him he is not all you think about and you have a life outside of chatting with him. at least that has always worked for me!!! good luck!
sometimes it isnt always the best to play hard to get and you need to try different things. now you should get close and ge to no him :P good luck
Grow up. If you want a date with him ask him out. If you carry on the way you are you'll get a reputation for being a p-tease, and that is not a good one to have. If you want to just be friends then that is fine too, but don't keep leading men on, you'll get a bad reputation.
Well you are playing hard to get right now and i dont think your doing anythign wrong. If the guy really likes you he will chase you under any circumstance because its called ';the chase'; for a reason. Let him talk about your body, let him dream about it more however just deny him from actually fulfilling his fantasy. Play hard to get usually works very well if you play your cards right, Love is like a game of poker, you must know when to bluff and call their bluff. Everyone has different strategies so you must figure out your own strategy. But you must know a girl can play hard to get for only so long because a guy can only chase one girl for so long until they feel they're fighting a losing war.
Hi Lilly, Your first problem is the relationship started on Facebook.
Facebook cannot provide the full emotional portrayal in which to you seem evident. ( ie he may receive the wrong message :P) And this can be seen in your problem. Playing 'Hard to get' for a guy is not always the best way to communicate how you feel. Don't be afraid to talk to him about it, if he really likes you he will understand. And if he doesn't is he really worth it? Im sure ull find someone else that you don't have to 'sell yourself' in order for him to like you. hope this helps . xget with your boyfriend what is the difference
he's so hot, and he's used to get any girl and go out with any girl he wants !!
well, i played a little hard to get when we first talked !
( we knew each other through facebook)
we started talking about different topics , and whenever he want to talk dirty to me i turn him off and change the topic )
i was supposed to leave for good so i told him.. and he wanted to meet me to say goodbye !
well.. the worst nightmare was that i didn't leave... the plans were changed ! and i had to stay in my country!
so we started talking again and everything went fine.. but he started talking about how sexy i am and how sexy my body is :S
i started responding,( i let him to keep talking about it :S )
anyways.. i asked him to take me in a drive once but he told me that he'll come under one condition only ( which is kissing him) :S
i didn't accept that..! he started talking about my body again...
anyways.. he talks to me on msn whenever he wants .. he doesn't answer sometimes or reply me bk !
I WANT TO PLAY HARD TO GET !!
I REALLY DO LIKE HIM .. AND I WANT HIM TO CHASE AFTER ME !!
PLEASE HELP!How to play hard to get after you messed up?
He sounds dangerous.He'll break your heart big time.He most likely has a string of girls he strings along.He only wants one thing...%26amp; it's not conversation.Walk away before you're in too deep or in a situation alone with him where you may be hurt.How to play hard to get after you messed up?
What are you ...13 ?
you play too hard to get and he'll move on to the next piece of booty.. he'll still have you on the radar but don't expect any roses.. you're sexy, he's a guy.. c'mon.. don't be naive..
you just have to act like your not interested in him. it's worked for me everytime. i don't know why, but guys always want what they can't have. don't be a bi**h, but just show him he is not all you think about and you have a life outside of chatting with him. at least that has always worked for me!!! good luck!
sometimes it isnt always the best to play hard to get and you need to try different things. now you should get close and ge to no him :P good luck
Grow up. If you want a date with him ask him out. If you carry on the way you are you'll get a reputation for being a p-tease, and that is not a good one to have. If you want to just be friends then that is fine too, but don't keep leading men on, you'll get a bad reputation.
Well you are playing hard to get right now and i dont think your doing anythign wrong. If the guy really likes you he will chase you under any circumstance because its called ';the chase'; for a reason. Let him talk about your body, let him dream about it more however just deny him from actually fulfilling his fantasy. Play hard to get usually works very well if you play your cards right, Love is like a game of poker, you must know when to bluff and call their bluff. Everyone has different strategies so you must figure out your own strategy. But you must know a girl can play hard to get for only so long because a guy can only chase one girl for so long until they feel they're fighting a losing war.
Hi Lilly, Your first problem is the relationship started on Facebook.
Facebook cannot provide the full emotional portrayal in which to you seem evident. ( ie he may receive the wrong message :P) And this can be seen in your problem. Playing 'Hard to get' for a guy is not always the best way to communicate how you feel. Don't be afraid to talk to him about it, if he really likes you he will understand. And if he doesn't is he really worth it? Im sure ull find someone else that you don't have to 'sell yourself' in order for him to like you. hope this helps . x
How can I tell if a woman is playing hard-to-get (Ladies 18+, I could use your help)?
I think this girl I like now is playing hard to get with me. What are some characteristics that are shown when a woman is playing hard to get? I know these things might not be the same for all women, but I'm just looking for a general idea. I can work with that. Thanks for your help in advance. How can I tell if a woman is playing hard-to-get (Ladies 18+, I could use your help)?
Here's the real test ... ignore her. If she's playing hard to get, she's doing it because she likes you. If you ignore her, it turns the tables on her and puts her in the position of pursuit. Women will yell and scream at me for revealing the truth but there it is. Don't call her ... don't ask her about herself ... by all means, don't do ';friend'; things with her.
One of three things is going on here: 1. She likes you and wants you to pursue her, and she thinks playing hard to get will draw you in; 2. She's not into you and is just playing with you; and 3. You are imagining the whole thing.
Whichever of these is true, the only defense an informed man has, if he's really into the woman, is to ignore her. Feign disinterest. It drives women crazy. They can't stand it. Ultimately, if she really likes you and isn't just playing with you, she will find a way to make it obvious. Women think they are so stealthy, but women get stupid when guys ignore them.
The big concern here is, you stand at the brink of the friend zone. If you two haven't made a connection in the next two weeks, you're going down the tubes ... eject before you get consumed by the flames. How can I tell if a woman is playing hard-to-get (Ladies 18+, I could use your help)?
if she makes eye contact with you and laughs at some things you say... she's interested in you as a friend or even more. if she doesnt seem like she wants your attention then leave her alone. if she's playing hard to get then she'll wonder why you dont want her attention anymore and try to get yours!! try it... it works. if she just thinks your a creap and doesnt want your attention then she just wont talk to you. its that simple.
I think you should be able to tell. If she is friendly and flirts but holds back sometimes, let's you see her with other guys or flirting with others, ';disappears'; without explanation, avoids you at times, or is busy when you ask her out without much notice...then she may be playing hard to get.
it is called cat and mouse. If she gets you to a cetain point and then pulls back, or tells you that she is not one to go on any base unless there is a ring on her finger. Those gals tend to bee a little anal ret. btw wtf do i know about playing hard to get.lol. hugs
Depends on what the lady is doing to play hard to get, maybe she is old fashioned and wants you to make the first move. I think you should ask her what she likes from a man, and take it from there, maybe you are reading to much into it.
Try ignoring her and flirting with other girls instead (right in front of her), and see what happens.
they are all playing hard to get , unless they are deprate...
were all trying to play hard-to-get we really just want lovin' trust me i would know!
Well like you said, every female's different so it would be kinda hard to know where her head's at, so I'll just speak from my experience.
There was a lot of body language going on. It's like I would flaunt myself in such a way that it wasn't too much, but not too little either: be it the way I walked (I didn't walk like I was about to throw my hip outta socket, but graceful w/ a slight twist to it, talked (I wasn't loud and valleygirl or ghetto, but a little soft and easy to the ear), laughed (I wasn't falling out the seat, rolling on the floor, laughing at everything, but a quiet laugh with tears or a girly giggle), smiled (I wasn't getting koolaid, though it may have been big, I showed no teeth - I figured if I'd shown my teeth then he'd thought he would have had me, so I had to reverse it), played with my hair or pushed it behind my ears (showed I was interested and wanted to hear more), looked at the lips instead of the eyes when he was speaking (lead him to believe that I found them very inviting) and I even took glances when I thought he wasn't looking (thinking in my mind like this person is actually cool and ';I wonder...). I would give a light slap on the arm if I thought something was funny or dumb ( that was my way of getting free body contact).
When I felt like he was becoming interested I would ease up a little bit and focus my attention else where either on something or someone.I mean it's kinda out there, but that's what happened. Don't know if that'll help any.
Here's the real test ... ignore her. If she's playing hard to get, she's doing it because she likes you. If you ignore her, it turns the tables on her and puts her in the position of pursuit. Women will yell and scream at me for revealing the truth but there it is. Don't call her ... don't ask her about herself ... by all means, don't do ';friend'; things with her.
One of three things is going on here: 1. She likes you and wants you to pursue her, and she thinks playing hard to get will draw you in; 2. She's not into you and is just playing with you; and 3. You are imagining the whole thing.
Whichever of these is true, the only defense an informed man has, if he's really into the woman, is to ignore her. Feign disinterest. It drives women crazy. They can't stand it. Ultimately, if she really likes you and isn't just playing with you, she will find a way to make it obvious. Women think they are so stealthy, but women get stupid when guys ignore them.
The big concern here is, you stand at the brink of the friend zone. If you two haven't made a connection in the next two weeks, you're going down the tubes ... eject before you get consumed by the flames. How can I tell if a woman is playing hard-to-get (Ladies 18+, I could use your help)?
if she makes eye contact with you and laughs at some things you say... she's interested in you as a friend or even more. if she doesnt seem like she wants your attention then leave her alone. if she's playing hard to get then she'll wonder why you dont want her attention anymore and try to get yours!! try it... it works. if she just thinks your a creap and doesnt want your attention then she just wont talk to you. its that simple.
I think you should be able to tell. If she is friendly and flirts but holds back sometimes, let's you see her with other guys or flirting with others, ';disappears'; without explanation, avoids you at times, or is busy when you ask her out without much notice...then she may be playing hard to get.
it is called cat and mouse. If she gets you to a cetain point and then pulls back, or tells you that she is not one to go on any base unless there is a ring on her finger. Those gals tend to bee a little anal ret. btw wtf do i know about playing hard to get.lol. hugs
Depends on what the lady is doing to play hard to get, maybe she is old fashioned and wants you to make the first move. I think you should ask her what she likes from a man, and take it from there, maybe you are reading to much into it.
Try ignoring her and flirting with other girls instead (right in front of her), and see what happens.
they are all playing hard to get , unless they are deprate...
were all trying to play hard-to-get we really just want lovin' trust me i would know!
Well like you said, every female's different so it would be kinda hard to know where her head's at, so I'll just speak from my experience.
There was a lot of body language going on. It's like I would flaunt myself in such a way that it wasn't too much, but not too little either: be it the way I walked (I didn't walk like I was about to throw my hip outta socket, but graceful w/ a slight twist to it, talked (I wasn't loud and valleygirl or ghetto, but a little soft and easy to the ear), laughed (I wasn't falling out the seat, rolling on the floor, laughing at everything, but a quiet laugh with tears or a girly giggle), smiled (I wasn't getting koolaid, though it may have been big, I showed no teeth - I figured if I'd shown my teeth then he'd thought he would have had me, so I had to reverse it), played with my hair or pushed it behind my ears (showed I was interested and wanted to hear more), looked at the lips instead of the eyes when he was speaking (lead him to believe that I found them very inviting) and I even took glances when I thought he wasn't looking (thinking in my mind like this person is actually cool and ';I wonder...). I would give a light slap on the arm if I thought something was funny or dumb ( that was my way of getting free body contact).
When I felt like he was becoming interested I would ease up a little bit and focus my attention else where either on something or someone.I mean it's kinda out there, but that's what happened. Don't know if that'll help any.
How to play hard to get after you messed up?
well.. there's this guy i like !!
he's so hot, and he's used to get any girl and go out with any girl he wants !!
well, i played a little hard to get when we first talked !
( we knew each other through facebook)
we started talking about different topics , and whenever he want to talk dirty to me i turn him off and change the topic )
i was supposed to leave for good so i told him.. and he wanted to meet me to say goodbye !
well.. the worst nightmare was that i didn't leave... the plans were changed ! and i had to stay in my country!
so we started talking again and everything went fine.. but he started talking about how sexy i am and how sexy my body is :S
i started responding,( i let him to keep talking about it :S )
anyways.. i asked him to take me in a drive once but he told me that he'll come under one condition only ( which is kissing him) :S
i didn't accept that..! he started talking about my body again...
anyways.. he talks to me on msn whenever he wants .. he doesn't answer sometimes or reply me bk !
I WANT TO PLAY HARD TO GET !!
I REALLY DO LIKE HIM .. AND I WANT HIM TO CHASE AFTER ME !!
PLEASE HELP!How to play hard to get after you messed up?
He sounds dangerous.He'll break your heart big time.He most likely has a string of girls he strings along.He only wants one thing...%26amp; it's not conversation.Walk away before you're in too deep or in a situation alone with him where you may be hurt.How to play hard to get after you messed up?
What are you ...13 ?
you play too hard to get and he'll move on to the next piece of booty.. he'll still have you on the radar but don't expect any roses.. you're sexy, he's a guy.. c'mon.. don't be naive..
you just have to act like your not interested in him. it's worked for me everytime. i don't know why, but guys always want what they can't have. don't be a bi**h, but just show him he is not all you think about and you have a life outside of chatting with him. at least that has always worked for me!!! good luck!
sometimes it isnt always the best to play hard to get and you need to try different things. now you should get close and ge to no him :P good luck
Grow up. If you want a date with him ask him out. If you carry on the way you are you'll get a reputation for being a p-tease, and that is not a good one to have. If you want to just be friends then that is fine too, but don't keep leading men on, you'll get a bad reputation.
Well you are playing hard to get right now and i dont think your doing anythign wrong. If the guy really likes you he will chase you under any circumstance because its called ';the chase'; for a reason. Let him talk about your body, let him dream about it more however just deny him from actually fulfilling his fantasy. Play hard to get usually works very well if you play your cards right, Love is like a game of poker, you must know when to bluff and call their bluff. Everyone has different strategies so you must figure out your own strategy. But you must know a girl can play hard to get for only so long because a guy can only chase one girl for so long until they feel they're fighting a losing war.
Hi Lilly, Your first problem is the relationship started on Facebook.
Facebook cannot provide the full emotional portrayal in which to you seem evident. ( ie he may receive the wrong message :P) And this can be seen in your problem. Playing 'Hard to get' for a guy is not always the best way to communicate how you feel. Don't be afraid to talk to him about it, if he really likes you he will understand. And if he doesn't is he really worth it? Im sure ull find someone else that you don't have to 'sell yourself' in order for him to like you. hope this helps . x
he's so hot, and he's used to get any girl and go out with any girl he wants !!
well, i played a little hard to get when we first talked !
( we knew each other through facebook)
we started talking about different topics , and whenever he want to talk dirty to me i turn him off and change the topic )
i was supposed to leave for good so i told him.. and he wanted to meet me to say goodbye !
well.. the worst nightmare was that i didn't leave... the plans were changed ! and i had to stay in my country!
so we started talking again and everything went fine.. but he started talking about how sexy i am and how sexy my body is :S
i started responding,( i let him to keep talking about it :S )
anyways.. i asked him to take me in a drive once but he told me that he'll come under one condition only ( which is kissing him) :S
i didn't accept that..! he started talking about my body again...
anyways.. he talks to me on msn whenever he wants .. he doesn't answer sometimes or reply me bk !
I WANT TO PLAY HARD TO GET !!
I REALLY DO LIKE HIM .. AND I WANT HIM TO CHASE AFTER ME !!
PLEASE HELP!How to play hard to get after you messed up?
He sounds dangerous.He'll break your heart big time.He most likely has a string of girls he strings along.He only wants one thing...%26amp; it's not conversation.Walk away before you're in too deep or in a situation alone with him where you may be hurt.How to play hard to get after you messed up?
What are you ...13 ?
you play too hard to get and he'll move on to the next piece of booty.. he'll still have you on the radar but don't expect any roses.. you're sexy, he's a guy.. c'mon.. don't be naive..
you just have to act like your not interested in him. it's worked for me everytime. i don't know why, but guys always want what they can't have. don't be a bi**h, but just show him he is not all you think about and you have a life outside of chatting with him. at least that has always worked for me!!! good luck!
sometimes it isnt always the best to play hard to get and you need to try different things. now you should get close and ge to no him :P good luck
Grow up. If you want a date with him ask him out. If you carry on the way you are you'll get a reputation for being a p-tease, and that is not a good one to have. If you want to just be friends then that is fine too, but don't keep leading men on, you'll get a bad reputation.
Well you are playing hard to get right now and i dont think your doing anythign wrong. If the guy really likes you he will chase you under any circumstance because its called ';the chase'; for a reason. Let him talk about your body, let him dream about it more however just deny him from actually fulfilling his fantasy. Play hard to get usually works very well if you play your cards right, Love is like a game of poker, you must know when to bluff and call their bluff. Everyone has different strategies so you must figure out your own strategy. But you must know a girl can play hard to get for only so long because a guy can only chase one girl for so long until they feel they're fighting a losing war.
Hi Lilly, Your first problem is the relationship started on Facebook.
Facebook cannot provide the full emotional portrayal in which to you seem evident. ( ie he may receive the wrong message :P) And this can be seen in your problem. Playing 'Hard to get' for a guy is not always the best way to communicate how you feel. Don't be afraid to talk to him about it, if he really likes you he will understand. And if he doesn't is he really worth it? Im sure ull find someone else that you don't have to 'sell yourself' in order for him to like you. hope this helps . x
Quick advice needed re online dating w/ Chinese girl?
For the past few months I've been talking with a girl from China online, and on Skype. We seem to hit it off and would chat or talk pretty much every day, some days for a number of hours. On the days when one of us wouldn't be on for some reason, there would always be an email.
Over the past 2 weeks she's become somewhat distant, not being online nearly as much, and not really saying much when she is. And even when we talk she'll do things like.. well I kind of feel silly mentioning this, but you know those little emoticons of flowers and things in msn, she used to put a couple of them up before saying goodnight, and now there's nothing, just a ';goodnight, talk later';. I know that sounds petty but when combined with the being distant, it's something I've noticed.
I've asked her if she's started seeing someone, and she said no. I know we've just been talking but I really felt like we had made a connection and we had even discussed me coming over to visit her in a couple months' time, and she seemed receptive, even suggesting places we could visit.
I've read things online about how Chinese girls sometimes play ';hard to get'; to see if a guy is really interested in her, but I don't know if that's real or just a stereotype. She seems to be more toward the modern end of the traditional-modern spectrum.
My question is: has something similar happened to others, and if so, what was the outcome? Or if there are any Chinese girls reading this, do you have any advice? I really thought we had hit it off but then it seemed to take a downturn. Would I be rude to ask her outright why she's being distant? She did say she wasn't seeing anyone, but..
I'm a little frustrated :( Thanks for any advice.Quick advice needed re online dating w/ Chinese girl?
Wow, all girls can play 'hard to get'. Not just Chinese girls. But it's possible that she's just not interested. That she had fun talking to you and stuff.. but, things changed? Or, it's something you did. You might of offended her or something. Maybe did something that put her off? It's up in the air. Talk to her about it and see.
Over the past 2 weeks she's become somewhat distant, not being online nearly as much, and not really saying much when she is. And even when we talk she'll do things like.. well I kind of feel silly mentioning this, but you know those little emoticons of flowers and things in msn, she used to put a couple of them up before saying goodnight, and now there's nothing, just a ';goodnight, talk later';. I know that sounds petty but when combined with the being distant, it's something I've noticed.
I've asked her if she's started seeing someone, and she said no. I know we've just been talking but I really felt like we had made a connection and we had even discussed me coming over to visit her in a couple months' time, and she seemed receptive, even suggesting places we could visit.
I've read things online about how Chinese girls sometimes play ';hard to get'; to see if a guy is really interested in her, but I don't know if that's real or just a stereotype. She seems to be more toward the modern end of the traditional-modern spectrum.
My question is: has something similar happened to others, and if so, what was the outcome? Or if there are any Chinese girls reading this, do you have any advice? I really thought we had hit it off but then it seemed to take a downturn. Would I be rude to ask her outright why she's being distant? She did say she wasn't seeing anyone, but..
I'm a little frustrated :( Thanks for any advice.Quick advice needed re online dating w/ Chinese girl?
Wow, all girls can play 'hard to get'. Not just Chinese girls. But it's possible that she's just not interested. That she had fun talking to you and stuff.. but, things changed? Or, it's something you did. You might of offended her or something. Maybe did something that put her off? It's up in the air. Talk to her about it and see.
Is he falling in love with me? PLZ ANSWERRR!!!!!?
Ok so i'm 15 and he's 18. in school we don't see each much but hwne we do we talk, but not enough. so a couple weeks ago we were chatting on facebook and he told me that he likes me and that he wants to go out with me but he'll ask me at the right time. his frnd also told me that he said that he wasn't sure if it was going to work out cuz he's going to college soon, but i think he's changing his mind. ever since tht nite, well tht nite we talked for like an hour and he was like ';i wanna knw more about you'; and ';i've never felt this open to you before'; he asked me if i had boyfriends before. he asked me if he went out with me if he would get a kiss because indian girls play hard to get and he doesn't like tht LOL. then in the end he told me tht now tht we talked for such a long time, he was really starting to like me.
we had a few more convos and everytime it was for like nearly an hour. a couple days later i told him how sometimes school can be a drag and how i wanted to skip sumtimes but my frnds weren't up to it. so he offered tht we go to his house and watch movies (he was planning to skipping the entire day with me) then he realized his mom would be home, so he asked if we could go to my house instead. but i told him i couldn't cuz i had a lab for honors chem. so then he said we could just skip first hour, and skip the whole day another day. so we decided on getting some breakfast from McDonald's and doing other stuff. so we made tht plan, and in the end he was like ';u want ur first kiss tom.?'; and i teased him saying that he wouldn't be my first and he said ';no i meant our first kiss'; and i was like awww. n then he was like i'm really excited LOL. unfortunately the plan didn't work out because his friends decided to tag along. i got mad at first because i thought it was just going to be us two, but his frnds were coming all along and he didn't tell me. but later on we talked again on fb, and he asked if i wanted to skip with him again in the morning, and i said i didn't want to come in between him and the guys and he said he wasn't going to b skipping with them,and that they weren't supposed to be there the other day either but they just came. so i told him i couldn't skip in the morning because i had an economics test.
finally i talked to him about 3 days ago and we were talking he told me he had to go to subway fro dinner and asked if i could wait for he would be only an hour or so, so i agreed. he came back half an hour later and we started talking. then he asked me how long i was going to be online i asked him y and he said he had to go out with his frnds soon. and i said ok, thinking he was leaving. then he asked ';so how long u online cuz i wanna talk to you'; so i was like awww and i told him i was on till like 12 so he said he'd talk to me later tht nite. so he left and came back a couple hours later and again talked for like an hour (we could've talked longer but his internet got disconnected) and he asked me again when we were gonna skip to my house LOL
so i wanna knw, is he falling in love with me? cuz he wants to spend all this time with me....wht do u guys think? o and btw i'm not a badass cuz i skip ima straight A student LOL. plz plz plz tell me wht u all think!!!! thanks!Is he falling in love with me? PLZ ANSWERRR!!!!!?
OK just a friendly tip: it's most likely to get answers here if you try to make your questions more concise.
Of course he likes you!!!! But, falling in love is an ambigous term... If we're strict with the definition of love, he can't love you yet. Love, in its original meaning, not the meaning people use today, is when you want what's good for that person, like the love you have for your close relatives.
You're getting something nice with this guy. I hope you continue seeing each other. Just remember not to let any guy disrespect you or touch you were he shouldn't, and you'll be really happy. Good luck!
Hope this helps!
we had a few more convos and everytime it was for like nearly an hour. a couple days later i told him how sometimes school can be a drag and how i wanted to skip sumtimes but my frnds weren't up to it. so he offered tht we go to his house and watch movies (he was planning to skipping the entire day with me) then he realized his mom would be home, so he asked if we could go to my house instead. but i told him i couldn't cuz i had a lab for honors chem. so then he said we could just skip first hour, and skip the whole day another day. so we decided on getting some breakfast from McDonald's and doing other stuff. so we made tht plan, and in the end he was like ';u want ur first kiss tom.?'; and i teased him saying that he wouldn't be my first and he said ';no i meant our first kiss'; and i was like awww. n then he was like i'm really excited LOL. unfortunately the plan didn't work out because his friends decided to tag along. i got mad at first because i thought it was just going to be us two, but his frnds were coming all along and he didn't tell me. but later on we talked again on fb, and he asked if i wanted to skip with him again in the morning, and i said i didn't want to come in between him and the guys and he said he wasn't going to b skipping with them,and that they weren't supposed to be there the other day either but they just came. so i told him i couldn't skip in the morning because i had an economics test.
finally i talked to him about 3 days ago and we were talking he told me he had to go to subway fro dinner and asked if i could wait for he would be only an hour or so, so i agreed. he came back half an hour later and we started talking. then he asked me how long i was going to be online i asked him y and he said he had to go out with his frnds soon. and i said ok, thinking he was leaving. then he asked ';so how long u online cuz i wanna talk to you'; so i was like awww and i told him i was on till like 12 so he said he'd talk to me later tht nite. so he left and came back a couple hours later and again talked for like an hour (we could've talked longer but his internet got disconnected) and he asked me again when we were gonna skip to my house LOL
so i wanna knw, is he falling in love with me? cuz he wants to spend all this time with me....wht do u guys think? o and btw i'm not a badass cuz i skip ima straight A student LOL. plz plz plz tell me wht u all think!!!! thanks!Is he falling in love with me? PLZ ANSWERRR!!!!!?
OK just a friendly tip: it's most likely to get answers here if you try to make your questions more concise.
Of course he likes you!!!! But, falling in love is an ambigous term... If we're strict with the definition of love, he can't love you yet. Love, in its original meaning, not the meaning people use today, is when you want what's good for that person, like the love you have for your close relatives.
You're getting something nice with this guy. I hope you continue seeing each other. Just remember not to let any guy disrespect you or touch you were he shouldn't, and you'll be really happy. Good luck!
Hope this helps!
I want more than just sex. Help!!?
I've been having sex with this guy for over a year now and in October he was even cheating on his girlfriend with me. They are broken up now but I really like him and I know he's a player but I still want more than just sex. I played hard to get one time but he just kept trying to have sex and it ended up being just that. I don't want himnto think he can just get it when he wants and I heard guys like it when a girl plays hard to get and they usually go out. Is it too late for me to stop giving it up and maybe he'll realize how good we are together? I don't know what to do. Any help is appreciated!!!I want more than just sex. Help!!?
You said it yourself he is a player.He will keep using you because that is who he is stop thinking he is a basically good guy.He is fun handsome easy to get along with and all kind of other great things that is why he is a successful player.You are just a thing to him to be used untill you no longer hold any interest.Please stop fooling yourself.I want more than just sex. Help!!?
it's not cool to make urself available to a guy who already has a girlfriend
reciprocity is a beotch %26amp; i do hope u get urs being a victim of cheating myself
u need to cut your losses and run
next time, the foundation of your relationship should be built on honesty %26amp; friendship %26amp; not sex--if ur foundation is built on shaky ground...it will never last
';Guys like standards, get some'; I read this in a book. Guys will treat you the way you let them. You have to stop being afraid that he is going to leave you if you lay down the law...but that is exactly what you have to do! Tell him that you want to be in a serious committed relationship or just friends but no in between. If he really likes you he will stick around, if not well then he was no good anyways.
This book is great and gives a lot of great advice on telling the different between being a plaything and a keeper. I suggest you read it.
You're screwed. It's your fault you like an idiot. Why do girls go for stupid guys, then complain all guys are jerks? He obviously cheats on girls, as he did his girlfriend with you, so why date someone like that? Jeez.
the only way you can get him to snap..... is??? dont give it to him maybe he will snap out of his trip!!!! but remember once a cheater always a cheater... so chances are he will cheat on you if you end up being in a relationship with him... I say drop him and find someone else that wont play ghames with your heart... girl you can get DICK ANYWHERE good luck
This is not a good situation. How health do you think you are? You have to think about what is it about you that wants to be with a guy you claim ';in October he was even cheating on his girlfriend with me.';
We women like to think we are special, that what he did to her he won't do to us. This is only the case on very rare occasions and this doesn't sound like one of those occasions.
I have learned that if someone wants you they will be with you. If they don't then there is no convincing them. Even if you were to start something, are you willing to put yourself a relationship with someone who thinks its okay to cheat. Did he cheat due to some extenuating circumstances? If not, then he's just a cheat and he won't respect you because you're the one he cheated with. He won't respect you and claim that you have no standards. And lets face it, why would you have sex with someone you know is in a relationship. Would you like for someone to do this to you. I know you wouldn't, it would hurt you. What ever is done, is done. Be kind to yourself and move on, he is no good for you.
wow. well first let me tell you that having sex with a guy already in a relationship is dirty. I mean how would you like it if You were the other girl? you gotta always think of it that way and put urself in the other persons shoes...and the fact that they ended breaking up doesnt make it any better... sorry i dont mean to judge you but i just iv'e been the ';girl on the other side'; who is getting cheated on many times before so it really annoys me..
but to answer you're question, you've already made you self ';avaliable'; to him sexually so you cant go back now. its done. you're in it and he's going to expect it. I'll let you how my ex's (the ones im refering to are the players btw) say that if they've already gotten what they ';wanted'; from a girl and multiple times at that, theres no use in trying to make her you're girlfriend...
Hun, you DONT want to be the OTHER GIRL, you want to be the ';wifey'; whos in his feelings and you started off alllll wrong.
he's basically using you and you should just move on, be smart and call it quits.
It's too late for a relationship. He has already gotten the goods, why buy into a relationship now? Let this be a lesson to you.excel
You said it yourself he is a player.He will keep using you because that is who he is stop thinking he is a basically good guy.He is fun handsome easy to get along with and all kind of other great things that is why he is a successful player.You are just a thing to him to be used untill you no longer hold any interest.Please stop fooling yourself.I want more than just sex. Help!!?
it's not cool to make urself available to a guy who already has a girlfriend
reciprocity is a beotch %26amp; i do hope u get urs being a victim of cheating myself
u need to cut your losses and run
next time, the foundation of your relationship should be built on honesty %26amp; friendship %26amp; not sex--if ur foundation is built on shaky ground...it will never last
';Guys like standards, get some'; I read this in a book. Guys will treat you the way you let them. You have to stop being afraid that he is going to leave you if you lay down the law...but that is exactly what you have to do! Tell him that you want to be in a serious committed relationship or just friends but no in between. If he really likes you he will stick around, if not well then he was no good anyways.
This book is great and gives a lot of great advice on telling the different between being a plaything and a keeper. I suggest you read it.
You're screwed. It's your fault you like an idiot. Why do girls go for stupid guys, then complain all guys are jerks? He obviously cheats on girls, as he did his girlfriend with you, so why date someone like that? Jeez.
the only way you can get him to snap..... is??? dont give it to him maybe he will snap out of his trip!!!! but remember once a cheater always a cheater... so chances are he will cheat on you if you end up being in a relationship with him... I say drop him and find someone else that wont play ghames with your heart... girl you can get DICK ANYWHERE good luck
This is not a good situation. How health do you think you are? You have to think about what is it about you that wants to be with a guy you claim ';in October he was even cheating on his girlfriend with me.';
We women like to think we are special, that what he did to her he won't do to us. This is only the case on very rare occasions and this doesn't sound like one of those occasions.
I have learned that if someone wants you they will be with you. If they don't then there is no convincing them. Even if you were to start something, are you willing to put yourself a relationship with someone who thinks its okay to cheat. Did he cheat due to some extenuating circumstances? If not, then he's just a cheat and he won't respect you because you're the one he cheated with. He won't respect you and claim that you have no standards. And lets face it, why would you have sex with someone you know is in a relationship. Would you like for someone to do this to you. I know you wouldn't, it would hurt you. What ever is done, is done. Be kind to yourself and move on, he is no good for you.
wow. well first let me tell you that having sex with a guy already in a relationship is dirty. I mean how would you like it if You were the other girl? you gotta always think of it that way and put urself in the other persons shoes...and the fact that they ended breaking up doesnt make it any better... sorry i dont mean to judge you but i just iv'e been the ';girl on the other side'; who is getting cheated on many times before so it really annoys me..
but to answer you're question, you've already made you self ';avaliable'; to him sexually so you cant go back now. its done. you're in it and he's going to expect it. I'll let you how my ex's (the ones im refering to are the players btw) say that if they've already gotten what they ';wanted'; from a girl and multiple times at that, theres no use in trying to make her you're girlfriend...
Hun, you DONT want to be the OTHER GIRL, you want to be the ';wifey'; whos in his feelings and you started off alllll wrong.
he's basically using you and you should just move on, be smart and call it quits.
It's too late for a relationship. He has already gotten the goods, why buy into a relationship now? Let this be a lesson to you.
There's this girl, and she's playing really hard to get?
So I went on a date with this girl at my school, and when we did we barely knew each other. But now we are so much closer but she says Im not her type sorta. And she told me what her ideal guy is and she doesnt realize it fits exactly me, how do i convince her?There's this girl, and she's playing really hard to get?
You can't. She doesn't see who you are, and you will never change her mind. Move on. Sorry.There's this girl, and she's playing really hard to get?
don't bother.
maybe shes just a pms-ing ***** leev her alone
show those characteristics to her then she will figure it out!
I think she's not worth your time and effort. Look for someone else.
So many girls to waste your time on ones that aren't intrested.
if your sure she's playing hard to get then tell her to cut the crap and do whats she wants which is to take control, grap her and kiss her. its annoying but thats what she wants
Well if u r the guy that she tells u is her type, then it should be easy for u to BE the guy that she is talking about.
Just make urself seem more of the person she is talking about.
If not, then BEEP! move on.
I guess she just doesn't want to be got! Move on.
id take those things she mentioned and show how they apply to you without making it too obvious you know?
and then maybe shell see that your really a cool guy
u already lost, liek get over it
Think of a clever way to approach her and ask her to go on another date with you. This time, make the date show what kind of person you are- don't just go to the movies or a dinner out.
Like do something that says you all over it.
My guy and I would go paintballing on a date cause we're active, playful, and different.
She's making her judgements too soon, prove her wrong on a second date, goodluck :)
show her yourself to her
You can't. She doesn't see who you are, and you will never change her mind. Move on. Sorry.There's this girl, and she's playing really hard to get?
don't bother.
maybe shes just a pms-ing ***** leev her alone
show those characteristics to her then she will figure it out!
I think she's not worth your time and effort. Look for someone else.
So many girls to waste your time on ones that aren't intrested.
if your sure she's playing hard to get then tell her to cut the crap and do whats she wants which is to take control, grap her and kiss her. its annoying but thats what she wants
Well if u r the guy that she tells u is her type, then it should be easy for u to BE the guy that she is talking about.
Just make urself seem more of the person she is talking about.
If not, then BEEP! move on.
I guess she just doesn't want to be got! Move on.
id take those things she mentioned and show how they apply to you without making it too obvious you know?
and then maybe shell see that your really a cool guy
u already lost, liek get over it
Think of a clever way to approach her and ask her to go on another date with you. This time, make the date show what kind of person you are- don't just go to the movies or a dinner out.
Like do something that says you all over it.
My guy and I would go paintballing on a date cause we're active, playful, and different.
She's making her judgements too soon, prove her wrong on a second date, goodluck :)
show her yourself to her
Update - Interesting Dating question?
I know I've already asked this.
OK, so there's this VERY attractive girl I work with that I really like, and she acts like (at least in public) she likes me back. She's not talking seriously to any other guys.
After only two days of working on the job, she sends me a Facebook friend invite (the equivalent of a phonecall, except online, if you will...) She and I talk and laugh regularly at work.
I recently asked for her phone #. She interrupted me and gave hers first, then I gave her mine. And I asked her out to Starbucks; she said ';yes'; without hesitation.
I've tried calling her twice this weekend. No pickup.
I spoke to her on Mon. and just asked her how she's doing. She was polite, but didn't want to talk. She looked mad! I sent her an e-mail simply telling her I hope she has a better day Tues. No response. And, as it turns out, Starbucks fell through.
Where have I gone right, or wrong? Is the girl playing hard to get or just isn't interested?Update - Interesting Dating question?
i think u got played for a latteUpdate - Interesting Dating question?
Holly crap, for a second thee I thought I was in Family and Relationships.........this has to be an error. No worries, I'll report it. Hopefully it wont happen again
OK, so there's this VERY attractive girl I work with that I really like, and she acts like (at least in public) she likes me back. She's not talking seriously to any other guys.
After only two days of working on the job, she sends me a Facebook friend invite (the equivalent of a phonecall, except online, if you will...) She and I talk and laugh regularly at work.
I recently asked for her phone #. She interrupted me and gave hers first, then I gave her mine. And I asked her out to Starbucks; she said ';yes'; without hesitation.
I've tried calling her twice this weekend. No pickup.
I spoke to her on Mon. and just asked her how she's doing. She was polite, but didn't want to talk. She looked mad! I sent her an e-mail simply telling her I hope she has a better day Tues. No response. And, as it turns out, Starbucks fell through.
Where have I gone right, or wrong? Is the girl playing hard to get or just isn't interested?Update - Interesting Dating question?
i think u got played for a latteUpdate - Interesting Dating question?
Holly crap, for a second thee I thought I was in Family and Relationships.........this has to be an error. No worries, I'll report it. Hopefully it wont happen again
How to play hard to get...??
im a girl and i want ta play a little hard to get with my bf...any tips???How to play hard to get...??
when he goes to kiss you, like turn away, or pretend ur going to kiss him and be like nahhhh this used to drive my man crazy :P lol gudluck, but dont play it too much, they can get annoyedHow to play hard to get...??
Have one of your friends wall you up
masturbate in front of him
if you do it naturally, like really being difficult for instance keeping yourself busy with work, school, life,,,, and taking one step front and 10 back, then may be he'll run after you. But if you show you are doing this to hurt his feelings of desperate love, then he'll be off and not bother. Men are a bit strange, just try to be yourself, if he deserves it, he'll come. If he doesn't, believe me, there are lots of fish in the sea. Someone someday will appreciate who you are. good luck
Hi there, I have a website that deals with relationships it has some tips and advice there, some good links too.
http://www.dream-life-coaching.com/relat鈥?/a>
Good luck with your boyfriend
Don't play games. They might well backfire on you!
Honest and sincere work every time in any relationship!
http://www.overcomelonelinessnow.com
Stop playing games!!!!!! don't be an emotional game player, just get to know the guy and build a long friendship and respond to your feelings promptly without playing games, if you love him them love him and if he loves you then he loves you......stop playing stupid dumb games
If the guy is already your bf I wouldnt play too hard to get. It could send mixed messages and make him think you dont want to be with him.
Maybe, if he asks you to go somewhere and he already assumes the answer is yes, say you'll have to see what youre doing. Or if he wants to know an answer about yourself seem mysterious and indirect. Always seem confident. Guys like that.
Good luck and I hope I helped
just hangout with guys alot, he'll feel jelouse, but dont like flirt with them or anything or he'll think ur cheating. and try not starting a convo, let him start talking to you first.
Playing hard to get just means you withold certain priveleges but if you don't start a relationship by playing hard to get, it just sends mixed messages to the other person. Playing hard to get can be acting shy or bashful when it comes to physical contact like hugging or kissing, but it usually includes being unavailable to make the person want to see you more. Not returning phonecalls or being too busy to see someone is playing hard to get if you're doing it on purpose or pretending to be too busy. Shying away from sexual activity too, or not doing as much as you used to. Its a fine line though and a lot of guys don't like playing that game so be careful. If you and your boyfriend were really close before and you start playing hard to get, he can get irritated. Good luck!
i probly wouldnt, iv had girls play hard to get and it just pisses you off so much, if you want him to actually hate you then go ahead but if ur just tryin to wind him up but still want him then seriously dont bother as it'll back fire and he'll just leave you.
when he goes to kiss you, like turn away, or pretend ur going to kiss him and be like nahhhh this used to drive my man crazy :P lol gudluck, but dont play it too much, they can get annoyedHow to play hard to get...??
Have one of your friends wall you up
masturbate in front of him
if you do it naturally, like really being difficult for instance keeping yourself busy with work, school, life,,,, and taking one step front and 10 back, then may be he'll run after you. But if you show you are doing this to hurt his feelings of desperate love, then he'll be off and not bother. Men are a bit strange, just try to be yourself, if he deserves it, he'll come. If he doesn't, believe me, there are lots of fish in the sea. Someone someday will appreciate who you are. good luck
Hi there, I have a website that deals with relationships it has some tips and advice there, some good links too.
http://www.dream-life-coaching.com/relat鈥?/a>
Good luck with your boyfriend
Don't play games. They might well backfire on you!
Honest and sincere work every time in any relationship!
http://www.overcomelonelinessnow.com
Stop playing games!!!!!! don't be an emotional game player, just get to know the guy and build a long friendship and respond to your feelings promptly without playing games, if you love him them love him and if he loves you then he loves you......stop playing stupid dumb games
If the guy is already your bf I wouldnt play too hard to get. It could send mixed messages and make him think you dont want to be with him.
Maybe, if he asks you to go somewhere and he already assumes the answer is yes, say you'll have to see what youre doing. Or if he wants to know an answer about yourself seem mysterious and indirect. Always seem confident. Guys like that.
Good luck and I hope I helped
just hangout with guys alot, he'll feel jelouse, but dont like flirt with them or anything or he'll think ur cheating. and try not starting a convo, let him start talking to you first.
Playing hard to get just means you withold certain priveleges but if you don't start a relationship by playing hard to get, it just sends mixed messages to the other person. Playing hard to get can be acting shy or bashful when it comes to physical contact like hugging or kissing, but it usually includes being unavailable to make the person want to see you more. Not returning phonecalls or being too busy to see someone is playing hard to get if you're doing it on purpose or pretending to be too busy. Shying away from sexual activity too, or not doing as much as you used to. Its a fine line though and a lot of guys don't like playing that game so be careful. If you and your boyfriend were really close before and you start playing hard to get, he can get irritated. Good luck!
i probly wouldnt, iv had girls play hard to get and it just pisses you off so much, if you want him to actually hate you then go ahead but if ur just tryin to wind him up but still want him then seriously dont bother as it'll back fire and he'll just leave you.
Girls: Is she playing hard to get?
I liked a girl and I was convinced she liked me back. she constantly asked to hangout with me, gave me compliments, and even gave me a fish. then she started to show signs of not being interested, like we used to hangout just the two of us then she would start to say lets hangout with people. so I asked her what was up and she said lets just be friends. So I started talk to her less frequently. This was all a month ago.
we talk 2 or 3 times a week, she laughs at things I say that aren't funny, smiles, waves to me, but maybe that's what friends do. The other day I asked her if she would like to play guitar together sometime and she said yes that would be fun and she didn't mention playing with other people
im fine with being just friends but I'm still the one always starting the conversations. but I can see how it would be hard for her to start them because I see her once a day and my class is way behind hers and I catch up to her when we get out.
what should I do? set a time to actually play guitar together? is she playing hard to get?
thanksGirls: Is she playing hard to get?
Go 4 itGirls: Is she playing hard to get?
I wouldn't do it, she probably sucks at guitar
Just give her sometime. Set a time to play the guitar. Maybe she has had a bad relationship before. Maybe she wants to stay as friends because she appreciates the friendship and wants it to last. But you go for it and if she accepts you show you care
Watch for her body language next time that you two have more than a 30-second conversation. Does she hold eye contact? Does she turn her shoulders and torso away from you? Are her answers short and obligatory? Does she seem distracted? The more that she aligns herself towards you, the more she's interested.
If you're trying to get her to open up a bit, then try to get her to talk about herself. Ask her anything that warrants more than a 10-second response. By showing her that you want to get to know more about her, she might open herself back up to you a little bit.
By what you're telling me, I can see two possible reasons for her behavior. One is that she's thinking you're taking too long to ask her out, and that she might have been interested but you didn't take the cue. By re-initiating personal conversations with her, then you might re-spark her interest. And a long date such as playing guitar together will give you more than enough opportunity to talk to each other. Just don't be shy, have some self-confidence, and be honest.
Good luck!
Sounds like you should talk to her about it.
And the playing the guitar thing actually sounds like fun!
Goodluck!
Can you answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100504204204AA1TIzR%26amp;r=w
we talk 2 or 3 times a week, she laughs at things I say that aren't funny, smiles, waves to me, but maybe that's what friends do. The other day I asked her if she would like to play guitar together sometime and she said yes that would be fun and she didn't mention playing with other people
im fine with being just friends but I'm still the one always starting the conversations. but I can see how it would be hard for her to start them because I see her once a day and my class is way behind hers and I catch up to her when we get out.
what should I do? set a time to actually play guitar together? is she playing hard to get?
thanksGirls: Is she playing hard to get?
Go 4 itGirls: Is she playing hard to get?
I wouldn't do it, she probably sucks at guitar
Just give her sometime. Set a time to play the guitar. Maybe she has had a bad relationship before. Maybe she wants to stay as friends because she appreciates the friendship and wants it to last. But you go for it and if she accepts you show you care
Watch for her body language next time that you two have more than a 30-second conversation. Does she hold eye contact? Does she turn her shoulders and torso away from you? Are her answers short and obligatory? Does she seem distracted? The more that she aligns herself towards you, the more she's interested.
If you're trying to get her to open up a bit, then try to get her to talk about herself. Ask her anything that warrants more than a 10-second response. By showing her that you want to get to know more about her, she might open herself back up to you a little bit.
By what you're telling me, I can see two possible reasons for her behavior. One is that she's thinking you're taking too long to ask her out, and that she might have been interested but you didn't take the cue. By re-initiating personal conversations with her, then you might re-spark her interest. And a long date such as playing guitar together will give you more than enough opportunity to talk to each other. Just don't be shy, have some self-confidence, and be honest.
Good luck!
Sounds like you should talk to her about it.
And the playing the guitar thing actually sounds like fun!
Goodluck!
Can you answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100504204204AA1TIzR%26amp;r=w
How can I play hard to get without him forgetting about me and ending up with someone else?
I met this guy that goes to a different school than I do at my friends party. I hung out with him once after that and I really really like him. My friend that knows him says that she is pretty sure that he likes me too cause he always talks about how adorable I am.
He gave me his phone number and I've called him a few times, but actually talked to him only three times (the phone's off sometimes). I really want to talk to him, but I don't want to come off as desperate when he sees the missed calls from me come up on his phone (he doesn't call back all the time). I know that people say to play ';hard to get';, but I rarely see him (we don't go to the same school or live close to eachother).
so how can I not act desperate (the missed calls on the phone) and play ';hard to get';, and not let him forget about me in a situation like this? Also add in the fact that there are other girls that are trying to get him for themselves that see him more often than I do.How can I play hard to get without him forgetting about me and ending up with someone else?
Don't play hard to get. Just be good friends first, then see where it goes from there. The best boyfriends start out as friends. Games aren't good, they can end up disastrous.How can I play hard to get without him forgetting about me and ending up with someone else?
Don't play games, just be natural.
i see no advantages to playing games, just be yourself, you dont gain anything by playing hard to get.
don't play hard to get, it's a waste of time, just ask him out
u don't have to play any game and if that guy likes u he will call u and if he don't he wasn't meant for you and you have to move on until u find the right one.
If you like him ask him out!!!!
If he really likes you he won't end up with someone else.
First, you shouldn't play head games like that. You'll end up losing and not understanding why. Just let him know you like him. If he is a player, then walk away, nobody will win. Especially if you like him as much as you think you do. Don't be easy and falling all over him. You can't MAKE someone want to be with you. Just smile, and be happy, and be confident. I hope that's helpful. Good luck.
You already called him now the ball's in his court. Don't make a pest of yourself by continuing the calls or you will appear desperate. If he is really interested, he will call you back.
Honestly got to tell you it;s a stupid foolish idea. Don't, you will lose him to someone else. Girls have the wrong idea it's funny and cute. We guys think you are not interested and are playing rejecting us.
Unless he's a long term bf you've been with for a while, it will fail. Only the @$$hole guys will keep coming after you even when you said no a million times.
Just lyk most girls, im guilty of playing hard 2 get. After playing hard to get 4 d longest time i realized that u dont wanna seem desperate but pllllllzz dont mess wit d guys heart! Dey have feelings 2 even though dey dont lyk 2 show it! Wen my current b/f %26amp; i didnt go out yet i used 2 play all kinds of games. One day he told me how he felt @ d time %26amp; i realized dat guys r just lyk grls! Dey dont wanna grl dats hecka easy to get but dey dont wanna grl dat plays 2 much games either.
Ok leave like three miss calls and DON'T get back to him in a long time. Then when he calls you back pick up the phone he'll probaly ask how your doing just keep the conversation SHORT and say ok I gotta go
could YOU call me back . don't get back to him to at least three days (enough to get him to think about you alot) Then STOP playing afta that
Playing hard to get is a waste of time. and doesn't work. makes you seem uninterested.. Keep calling but not all in a row. try different times, or get your parents or a friend to drive you over to his house and hang out over there.. and if he really likes you he wont care about the other girls that are trying to get him..
dont play hard to get it pisses us off. and we will forget you when we have other options
maybe let him call you for once; but don't play mind games or he might think that your not interested anymore.
I don't get it , why play such silly games? if you like him just go for it.
dont play hard to get,
whats the point.
are you tryin to prove something now?
Start hanging out with the same circle of friends that he does and get yourself noticed.
dont play games just be yourself!
playing games %26amp; playing ';hard to get'; would just make things more confusing %26amp; chaotic. just be urself %26amp; act natural.cat how to value
He gave me his phone number and I've called him a few times, but actually talked to him only three times (the phone's off sometimes). I really want to talk to him, but I don't want to come off as desperate when he sees the missed calls from me come up on his phone (he doesn't call back all the time). I know that people say to play ';hard to get';, but I rarely see him (we don't go to the same school or live close to eachother).
so how can I not act desperate (the missed calls on the phone) and play ';hard to get';, and not let him forget about me in a situation like this? Also add in the fact that there are other girls that are trying to get him for themselves that see him more often than I do.How can I play hard to get without him forgetting about me and ending up with someone else?
Don't play hard to get. Just be good friends first, then see where it goes from there. The best boyfriends start out as friends. Games aren't good, they can end up disastrous.How can I play hard to get without him forgetting about me and ending up with someone else?
Don't play games, just be natural.
i see no advantages to playing games, just be yourself, you dont gain anything by playing hard to get.
don't play hard to get, it's a waste of time, just ask him out
u don't have to play any game and if that guy likes u he will call u and if he don't he wasn't meant for you and you have to move on until u find the right one.
If you like him ask him out!!!!
If he really likes you he won't end up with someone else.
First, you shouldn't play head games like that. You'll end up losing and not understanding why. Just let him know you like him. If he is a player, then walk away, nobody will win. Especially if you like him as much as you think you do. Don't be easy and falling all over him. You can't MAKE someone want to be with you. Just smile, and be happy, and be confident. I hope that's helpful. Good luck.
You already called him now the ball's in his court. Don't make a pest of yourself by continuing the calls or you will appear desperate. If he is really interested, he will call you back.
Honestly got to tell you it;s a stupid foolish idea. Don't, you will lose him to someone else. Girls have the wrong idea it's funny and cute. We guys think you are not interested and are playing rejecting us.
Unless he's a long term bf you've been with for a while, it will fail. Only the @$$hole guys will keep coming after you even when you said no a million times.
Just lyk most girls, im guilty of playing hard 2 get. After playing hard to get 4 d longest time i realized that u dont wanna seem desperate but pllllllzz dont mess wit d guys heart! Dey have feelings 2 even though dey dont lyk 2 show it! Wen my current b/f %26amp; i didnt go out yet i used 2 play all kinds of games. One day he told me how he felt @ d time %26amp; i realized dat guys r just lyk grls! Dey dont wanna grl dats hecka easy to get but dey dont wanna grl dat plays 2 much games either.
Ok leave like three miss calls and DON'T get back to him in a long time. Then when he calls you back pick up the phone he'll probaly ask how your doing just keep the conversation SHORT and say ok I gotta go
could YOU call me back . don't get back to him to at least three days (enough to get him to think about you alot) Then STOP playing afta that
Playing hard to get is a waste of time. and doesn't work. makes you seem uninterested.. Keep calling but not all in a row. try different times, or get your parents or a friend to drive you over to his house and hang out over there.. and if he really likes you he wont care about the other girls that are trying to get him..
dont play hard to get it pisses us off. and we will forget you when we have other options
maybe let him call you for once; but don't play mind games or he might think that your not interested anymore.
I don't get it , why play such silly games? if you like him just go for it.
dont play hard to get,
whats the point.
are you tryin to prove something now?
Start hanging out with the same circle of friends that he does and get yourself noticed.
dont play games just be yourself!
playing games %26amp; playing ';hard to get'; would just make things more confusing %26amp; chaotic. just be urself %26amp; act natural.
25 year old guy with a 18 year old girl? Dating help and advice? playing Hard to get 10 points to best answer.?
There is a guy who is very interested in me and wants to date me. He is 25 and i am 18. I don't have a problem with the age gap and neither does he. We talk everyday through texting. He randomally texts me. What do you think he really thinks about my age? He knows that i am not going to have sex with him and that i am a virgin. What do you think he really thinks about all of this?
when we text sometimes he responds right away, or 20 mins later and sometimes it takes him 2 hours. Why do you think that is? Is he playing hard to get at that age? how should i respond and do you think i should wait a while before i text him back not to come off as despearate? Should i play hard to get?
THANKS25 year old guy with a 18 year old girl? Dating help and advice? playing Hard to get 10 points to best answer.?
aight, guys r confusing jus like girls
sometimes we'll want to get into a good deep conversation with u
other times were jus takin it easy or jus busy
idk bout him but i respect girls that dnt jus give it up to guys
an hopefully that shows him that ur mature enough
im the same age as u r an its hard to find someone thats mature enough
u can play a lil hard to get to make it fun
guys like a challenge!!
good luck!25 year old guy with a 18 year old girl? Dating help and advice? playing Hard to get 10 points to best answer.?
First things first, don't worry about how long it takes for him to reply to texts. He has a life, which means he doesn't always have time to reply to your texts right away. This game playing stuff is also something younger girls like you play, and is one of the reasons guys his age aren't always game to dating 18 year old girls. Yes, 25 year old girls play games too. But they are different types of games, 18 year olds also over think things and obsess more. These are all things you need to watch out for, don't get caught up in this stuff or else he'll get turned off and remember your age. You need to be a little more mature here, so that way he'll forget you're younger.
when we text sometimes he responds right away, or 20 mins later and sometimes it takes him 2 hours. Why do you think that is? Is he playing hard to get at that age? how should i respond and do you think i should wait a while before i text him back not to come off as despearate? Should i play hard to get?
THANKS25 year old guy with a 18 year old girl? Dating help and advice? playing Hard to get 10 points to best answer.?
aight, guys r confusing jus like girls
sometimes we'll want to get into a good deep conversation with u
other times were jus takin it easy or jus busy
idk bout him but i respect girls that dnt jus give it up to guys
an hopefully that shows him that ur mature enough
im the same age as u r an its hard to find someone thats mature enough
u can play a lil hard to get to make it fun
guys like a challenge!!
good luck!25 year old guy with a 18 year old girl? Dating help and advice? playing Hard to get 10 points to best answer.?
First things first, don't worry about how long it takes for him to reply to texts. He has a life, which means he doesn't always have time to reply to your texts right away. This game playing stuff is also something younger girls like you play, and is one of the reasons guys his age aren't always game to dating 18 year old girls. Yes, 25 year old girls play games too. But they are different types of games, 18 year olds also over think things and obsess more. These are all things you need to watch out for, don't get caught up in this stuff or else he'll get turned off and remember your age. You need to be a little more mature here, so that way he'll forget you're younger.
What should I do with this female ?
Can I still get this girl back(playing games with me)?
How likely is this girl to dump her boyfriend and go out with me?
Is this girl playing with me?
She caught me looking at her butt and she smile! She seems to like me looking at her butt, she jumped in front of the door of a classroom and wiggle her a s s, it was obvious!
She is always flirting with other less attractive guys when I am around!!!
I have ignored her now she is mean to me and when other girls talk to me, she gives me a mean look!
Do you think she still likes me???????
Why would she be mean to me though???
Once, when I talked to a guy across the room, She just said his
name really loud!!! What does it mean!
Do you think I still have a chance with this girl???
She is compeletely ignoring me now so I don't know what to do!
She sometimes still smiles when we make eye contact!
She ignored my friend request on FACEBOOK so does it mean that she is not interested or is she getting back at me for ignoring her?
The Facebook part is ?
1. payback
2. playing hard to get
3. not interested!
________________
Now school started and I found out that she still stares at me and looks away!
Is this girl playing hard to get or what???
I got her jealous and now she wants me even more! Is this girl not worth it or what?
__________
I found out that recently she got a bf so from the above is she doing this to make me jealous!?? What can I do to get back!!! Get a girlfriend or flirt with girls in front of her?What should I do with this female ?
She sounds like she has no idea what she wants... I wouldn't touch her if I were you...What should I do with this female ?
OMG
Don't use other girls to make her mad.
Cuz you prolly will die...
just saying
How likely is this girl to dump her boyfriend and go out with me?
Is this girl playing with me?
She caught me looking at her butt and she smile! She seems to like me looking at her butt, she jumped in front of the door of a classroom and wiggle her a s s, it was obvious!
She is always flirting with other less attractive guys when I am around!!!
I have ignored her now she is mean to me and when other girls talk to me, she gives me a mean look!
Do you think she still likes me???????
Why would she be mean to me though???
Once, when I talked to a guy across the room, She just said his
name really loud!!! What does it mean!
Do you think I still have a chance with this girl???
She is compeletely ignoring me now so I don't know what to do!
She sometimes still smiles when we make eye contact!
She ignored my friend request on FACEBOOK so does it mean that she is not interested or is she getting back at me for ignoring her?
The Facebook part is ?
1. payback
2. playing hard to get
3. not interested!
________________
Now school started and I found out that she still stares at me and looks away!
Is this girl playing hard to get or what???
I got her jealous and now she wants me even more! Is this girl not worth it or what?
__________
I found out that recently she got a bf so from the above is she doing this to make me jealous!?? What can I do to get back!!! Get a girlfriend or flirt with girls in front of her?What should I do with this female ?
She sounds like she has no idea what she wants... I wouldn't touch her if I were you...What should I do with this female ?
OMG
Don't use other girls to make her mad.
Cuz you prolly will die...
just saying
Do guys really like to chase girls when flirting? How unavailable should she be?
Should a girl show interest %26amp; play hard to get at the same time? and what makes a guy lose interest whilst flirting with a girl? If she is too available %26amp; what is 'too available'?Do guys really like to chase girls when flirting? How unavailable should she be?
Yes because when you show interest you motivate the guy to pursue you, then thats when you play hard to get. But dont play too hard because he might give up. But i guy loses interest in you when a girl acts like shes all that and the best thing in the world, and the guy can take that as being concieted and not like you anymore. Too avilable is like in his face all the time, if he has your number and you have his you keep callin/textin and when you do talk to him you have nothing to really talk about but you called just call, basically being clingyDo guys really like to chase girls when flirting? How unavailable should she be?
She should not play games. She should be herself and see how things go.
Hmm it's different for every age, but a little bit of flirt is appriciated in every guy, I suppose. Playing hard to get should be around 19yrs - 24yrs??
For me, being too available means being seen too much. You have to make them miss you sometimes!
just be yourself! he will be after you 4 who u are and not what you can be
Well if she's playing hard to get you have to seem interested but not show pure availability.
Im going to say flirt ALLOT and when she's hanging out in big groups, the girl should go see the guy once in a while and then go back to her friends. So it's like she's showing interest but not fully, which makes the guy want more.
But like the girl cant like lead him on like get him all horny and than just walk away... the more the girl does that, the more likely the guy's just going to move on.
the purpose of ';hard to get'; is to not come off as being desperate. As long as you can do that you don't have to play games. Honestly nothing's more of a turnoff than desperation.
I chased this one girl, who was actually interested in me. She was playing very hard to get, but in the end I didn't want to bother playing any game so I just like forget about you shoot, lol.
Makes me think if she still think about me, hmmmmmmmm,....LOL!!
Oh yeah btw I still like the girl...
When you offer yourself on a plate.
I met my guy ( I live in the UK) and we exchanged numbers as he lived in another country, he was from the UK originally but I never returned his calls/texts-wasn't playing hard to get, just wasn't interested at the time. Wasn't until everybody who knew him said he is a really nice person etc etc and had asked people about me that I dropped him a text. Arranged to meet two months later for a drink on his next visit and had planned to tell him I wasn't looking for a relationship, had only been divorced a year and bam!! It was like electricity and the lust was unreal but still waited a while because of the distance between us. He then moved back here and have been together 5 yrs now. He still teases me saying I played hard to get but would never have given up on me. Sweet.
Yes because when you show interest you motivate the guy to pursue you, then thats when you play hard to get. But dont play too hard because he might give up. But i guy loses interest in you when a girl acts like shes all that and the best thing in the world, and the guy can take that as being concieted and not like you anymore. Too avilable is like in his face all the time, if he has your number and you have his you keep callin/textin and when you do talk to him you have nothing to really talk about but you called just call, basically being clingyDo guys really like to chase girls when flirting? How unavailable should she be?
She should not play games. She should be herself and see how things go.
Hmm it's different for every age, but a little bit of flirt is appriciated in every guy, I suppose. Playing hard to get should be around 19yrs - 24yrs??
For me, being too available means being seen too much. You have to make them miss you sometimes!
just be yourself! he will be after you 4 who u are and not what you can be
Well if she's playing hard to get you have to seem interested but not show pure availability.
Im going to say flirt ALLOT and when she's hanging out in big groups, the girl should go see the guy once in a while and then go back to her friends. So it's like she's showing interest but not fully, which makes the guy want more.
But like the girl cant like lead him on like get him all horny and than just walk away... the more the girl does that, the more likely the guy's just going to move on.
the purpose of ';hard to get'; is to not come off as being desperate. As long as you can do that you don't have to play games. Honestly nothing's more of a turnoff than desperation.
I chased this one girl, who was actually interested in me. She was playing very hard to get, but in the end I didn't want to bother playing any game so I just like forget about you shoot, lol.
Makes me think if she still think about me, hmmmmmmmm,....LOL!!
Oh yeah btw I still like the girl...
When you offer yourself on a plate.
I met my guy ( I live in the UK) and we exchanged numbers as he lived in another country, he was from the UK originally but I never returned his calls/texts-wasn't playing hard to get, just wasn't interested at the time. Wasn't until everybody who knew him said he is a really nice person etc etc and had asked people about me that I dropped him a text. Arranged to meet two months later for a drink on his next visit and had planned to tell him I wasn't looking for a relationship, had only been divorced a year and bam!! It was like electricity and the lust was unreal but still waited a while because of the distance between us. He then moved back here and have been together 5 yrs now. He still teases me saying I played hard to get but would never have given up on me. Sweet.
How long can you play hard to get for?
i haven't seen this guy who i use to go to school with in 3 years. we recently met up and had lunch. he invited me to his house parties and then he was really flirty and wanted to hookup. apparently in high school he dated all the popular girls in my grade and hookup with a lot of girls. he told me yesterday that he doesnt like to play games and that i was playing games. how long can you play hard to get for? and what can i do to be more discreet?How long can you play hard to get for?
You shouldn't play hard to get at all; it's confusing, it's mean, and it ruins your chances with people.
You shouldn't play hard to get at all; it's confusing, it's mean, and it ruins your chances with people.
Im playing hard to get with a girl im chasing is it working?
I dont want to haress em so i leave em alone sometimes, and even if they walk right past me i wont always say hi to em. But im going to her lunch table and the first couple times she was resitant and really guarded cause we werent more than aqquaintences, and then she was really happy and flirted with her, (but i havent been able to c her, since she opened up i was going to start approaching her more, little by little, so its not too sudden), and then today she wasnt as happy. But me and her had real conversations, i think she may of figured out i like her( which was kinda the idea, to get on her radar), and she laughed at things i did (the first time i went to her table she was kinda critical, and she giggled a few random times),
today she would look at me peroildlcy even if i wasnt saying anything to her at the moment, and she fiddled with her hair a whole lot, which ive never seen her do before.
And think i felt something touching me for the second time in a row, but i wasnt sure. I dont have any clases with her except an extra-curricler, were we used to have at random times, fun and interesting conversations, which is why i kinda like her now. I slowly got to know her, and her friends think im cool. So do u think she likes me or what. Tommorow i got to make sure i run into her, so i can say hi, if shes confused whether i like her or not. Lol. Playing hard to get may of backfired, i figured it was the only way to get her attention. What do u think?
P.S I liked this other girl once and we dated for a short while, but how i got her, was i took advantage of time i had on my hands, and i know how to talk with everyone i meet, and i got her in 3 days. (I had kwown her for awhile, but we hadnt talked in awhile) Does suprsing the girl work better, or doing it the ';sneaky'; way. I found the suprising the girl doesnt last very long, i want a relationship that will last.
The goal is to get her to achieve the mindset ';I am the prize';
And lastly im in high school XDIm playing hard to get with a girl im chasing is it working?
yes sounds like you messed it all upparenting message board
today she would look at me peroildlcy even if i wasnt saying anything to her at the moment, and she fiddled with her hair a whole lot, which ive never seen her do before.
And think i felt something touching me for the second time in a row, but i wasnt sure. I dont have any clases with her except an extra-curricler, were we used to have at random times, fun and interesting conversations, which is why i kinda like her now. I slowly got to know her, and her friends think im cool. So do u think she likes me or what. Tommorow i got to make sure i run into her, so i can say hi, if shes confused whether i like her or not. Lol. Playing hard to get may of backfired, i figured it was the only way to get her attention. What do u think?
P.S I liked this other girl once and we dated for a short while, but how i got her, was i took advantage of time i had on my hands, and i know how to talk with everyone i meet, and i got her in 3 days. (I had kwown her for awhile, but we hadnt talked in awhile) Does suprsing the girl work better, or doing it the ';sneaky'; way. I found the suprising the girl doesnt last very long, i want a relationship that will last.
The goal is to get her to achieve the mindset ';I am the prize';
And lastly im in high school XDIm playing hard to get with a girl im chasing is it working?
yes sounds like you messed it all up
Guys who make bets to see if they can get with a particular girl.?
Have any of you done this?
Have any of the girls actually PLAYED you instead?
How do you feel when you lose and/or the girl disses you really badly...
Has it ever been a long duration of time where you try hard to get the girl?Guys who make bets to see if they can get with a particular girl.?
I have been played by females in my younger years, when I was testosterone driven and filled with anticipation. But any female I went after I really liked, and learned not to late that most females were gamers and not really worth the trouble they wanted me to go through. After taking a more nuanced, passive approach to dating, my life took off like a rocket and has remained better ever since.
Most young fellows will one day do the same, in one shape or form, and women like you will be left picking your noses.Guys who make bets to see if they can get with a particular girl.?
Don't make bets like that.
It's like spiting to the sky...
You know what is worse? Hearing the bet or hearing guys egg on another guy to approach you! Ugh!
No, never done that.
I am not sure. They might have. I would be flattered if they did.
I would feel really bad if any girl dissed me really bad.
Well I was in love with a girl for a long time, yet she did not want me. I can't say I was trying hard to get her. I wasn't trying at all. I just really wanted her to know how I felt about her.
Nope, not even when I was an immature teenager. I don't compete with my friends for scarce resources.
Besides, we all have different tastes in women. Why go after something you don't really want?
But we HAVE debated the chances of whether or not a friend's advances on a particular female target will be successful (usually without his prior knowledge).
Great point. Thise male a$$holes are always looking to mess us womyn up. Well said, sister!
were you the target of one of those ';ugly girl'; contests?
Those are mean-spirited, to say the least.
Have any of the girls actually PLAYED you instead?
How do you feel when you lose and/or the girl disses you really badly...
Has it ever been a long duration of time where you try hard to get the girl?Guys who make bets to see if they can get with a particular girl.?
I have been played by females in my younger years, when I was testosterone driven and filled with anticipation. But any female I went after I really liked, and learned not to late that most females were gamers and not really worth the trouble they wanted me to go through. After taking a more nuanced, passive approach to dating, my life took off like a rocket and has remained better ever since.
Most young fellows will one day do the same, in one shape or form, and women like you will be left picking your noses.Guys who make bets to see if they can get with a particular girl.?
Don't make bets like that.
It's like spiting to the sky...
You know what is worse? Hearing the bet or hearing guys egg on another guy to approach you! Ugh!
No, never done that.
I am not sure. They might have. I would be flattered if they did.
I would feel really bad if any girl dissed me really bad.
Well I was in love with a girl for a long time, yet she did not want me. I can't say I was trying hard to get her. I wasn't trying at all. I just really wanted her to know how I felt about her.
Nope, not even when I was an immature teenager. I don't compete with my friends for scarce resources.
Besides, we all have different tastes in women. Why go after something you don't really want?
But we HAVE debated the chances of whether or not a friend's advances on a particular female target will be successful (usually without his prior knowledge).
Great point. Thise male a$$holes are always looking to mess us womyn up. Well said, sister!
were you the target of one of those ';ugly girl'; contests?
Those are mean-spirited, to say the least.
Ive posted this question 4 times and still no body is showing any help?
when a girl starts playing hard to get...how can i deal with it?how should i know if she likes me?
its really annoying.Ive posted this question 4 times and still no body is showing any help?
post it 5 times
its really annoying.Ive posted this question 4 times and still no body is showing any help?
post it 5 times
Do guys play hard to get to?He stopped texting me all of a sudden.Girl much!lol?
Alright so im going to try to make this short.Ive been dating this dude couple of weeks,he texted me everyday,we tried to both text eachother daily and it was fine,and we barely see eachother to begin with because were both always working we try to meet up twice a week.So all of a sudden he goes a day without texting me,and its cool i figured hes busy and im busy not a big deal,then i get a msg the next morning asking how i am and then asks ';Do u think its weird i didnt text you';..I was like no?You were busy i was busy its all good....So the next day i go hang out at his shop (hes a tattooist) Hes real busy im trying to sit and have a conv with him just isnt happening,and im figuring maybe hes losing interest.So im like ima go dude,And he ran after me leaving his client there waiting and says Lets go out after 2mr,After im done with the shop,and im thinking whats this dude want seriously is he confused,then i told him about the msg,Asking if he thought it was weird why do it..And then he looks to the side and smiled and was like i was busy,,It looked like a bigass lie.And now he doesnt text me at ALL..But then wants to see me again Tomorrow?If hes not interested he just should have let me walk out the shop and not even say anything to me at all..Whats his problem what does he want?Do guys play hard to get to?He stopped texting me all of a sudden.Girl much!lol?
Hey he is trying to find out whether u really like him or just playing with him. I have read this in one me a site, to find out whether o girl lover u or not. The site said:
text a girl for about 15 days regularly and stop texting on the 16th. He the girl likes u she will definately ask u why he didnt texed.
So if u like dat boy ask him %26amp; he not than leave him.Do guys play hard to get to?He stopped texting me all of a sudden.Girl much!lol?
Hi Babe u might Bored at this time.... His new Gal fren has sme more extra ordinary than ur's so try to get his desire go for it ///... or else wait patient untill he comes.. or get some other Guy who fits for u
He feels confused about if he likes you or not, make yourself a LITTLE hard to get also and confront him when you see him next, don't overwhelm him and never make him feel small and insignificant. Men like the power.
Hey he is trying to find out whether u really like him or just playing with him. I have read this in one me a site, to find out whether o girl lover u or not. The site said:
text a girl for about 15 days regularly and stop texting on the 16th. He the girl likes u she will definately ask u why he didnt texed.
So if u like dat boy ask him %26amp; he not than leave him.Do guys play hard to get to?He stopped texting me all of a sudden.Girl much!lol?
Hi Babe u might Bored at this time.... His new Gal fren has sme more extra ordinary than ur's so try to get his desire go for it ///... or else wait patient untill he comes.. or get some other Guy who fits for u
He feels confused about if he likes you or not, make yourself a LITTLE hard to get also and confront him when you see him next, don't overwhelm him and never make him feel small and insignificant. Men like the power.
How to play hard to get?
There's a guy who seems to flirt with me, he likes hard to get girls, i got some idea's any good ways of playing hard to get?How to play hard to get?
flirt with other people, and make sure you always look hot when you see him!How to play hard to get?
yeah...ignore him.
yeah play hard to get and watch him get sick of trying and move onto another =/
flirt with other people, and make sure you always look hot when you see him!How to play hard to get?
yeah...ignore him.
yeah play hard to get and watch him get sick of trying and move onto another =/
Do leo men like girls to chase them?
So I am going to visit my guy friend who is a leo and we already kissed each other in the summer. I kinda like him and I told him I wanted to see him and he told me to come and visit him at his college and that I could spend the night since I live 2 hrs away. But I dunno If spending the night is a good idea, we are close but I just don't want to mess things up with him. Should I kiss him if he wants to kiss me or do leo men like it when the girl plays hard to get? should I even spend the night? how can I get him to chase me?Do leo men like girls to chase them?
Generally, Leo's crave attention and flattery. They're upbeat, entertaining, fun-loving and ';in the moment'; kind of people. It is never wise to manipulate them, smother them or corner them with your own doubts and insecurities. If you have doubts about what to do ... in my opinion you also have your answer.Do leo men like girls to chase them?
All men like women chasing them.
Leo men like the thrill of the hunt. Do not spend the night with him. Make the drive up, spend some time with him, and then make the drive back. Normally I would tell you not to drive to him at all...he should do the leg work if he wants to see you badly enough. Kiss and cuddle, but don't take it any further than that. Leave him wanting more.
YES!
You already won him......You thrive on physical passion and so does he! You are an explosion of fire when you come together! Kiss him and follow your heart's desire!!!!!!!!!!!!! Leo is Sag's soulmate.....
:)
You couldn't get a better answer as Marina's I really hope you take her advice and you'll notice it's the best thing to do.
No they rather do the chasing themselves. Leo needs to be the boss.
Leo men do like to be chased. Yes, you can get him to chase you: make him fall for you after chasing him a little, then keep talking but make him work for it.What comes in a duvet set ireland
Generally, Leo's crave attention and flattery. They're upbeat, entertaining, fun-loving and ';in the moment'; kind of people. It is never wise to manipulate them, smother them or corner them with your own doubts and insecurities. If you have doubts about what to do ... in my opinion you also have your answer.Do leo men like girls to chase them?
All men like women chasing them.
Leo men like the thrill of the hunt. Do not spend the night with him. Make the drive up, spend some time with him, and then make the drive back. Normally I would tell you not to drive to him at all...he should do the leg work if he wants to see you badly enough. Kiss and cuddle, but don't take it any further than that. Leave him wanting more.
YES!
You already won him......You thrive on physical passion and so does he! You are an explosion of fire when you come together! Kiss him and follow your heart's desire!!!!!!!!!!!!! Leo is Sag's soulmate.....
:)
You couldn't get a better answer as Marina's I really hope you take her advice and you'll notice it's the best thing to do.
No they rather do the chasing themselves. Leo needs to be the boss.
Leo men do like to be chased. Yes, you can get him to chase you: make him fall for you after chasing him a little, then keep talking but make him work for it.
How do you get the attention of the girl you have a crush on and is playing hard to get. ?
She never realizes that i am there. Every time i wanna talk to talk to her i start freaking out and i never do talk to her. Then when i do talk to her she always has something to do. I see her at the neighborhood pool she says hi and she leaves every time. How do i get her attention and tell her that i am in love with herHow do you get the attention of the girl you have a crush on and is playing hard to get. ?
BE BRAVE AND SHOW UR FEELINGS! girl love it when guys tell them there true feelings! now i am the the judge to tell u to break it to her slowly or just quickly say it but i wish all of luck with ur crush
BE BRAVE AND SHOW UR FEELINGS! girl love it when guys tell them there true feelings! now i am the the judge to tell u to break it to her slowly or just quickly say it but i wish all of luck with ur crush
How do you play hard to get?
im a girl and i would like to know how to play hard to get with a guy so he doesnt lose interest.How do you play hard to get?
Playing hard to get is what makes us lose interest. :-/How do you play hard to get?
If he asks you to do something sometime kind of say ive got plans when you dont.
it depends if you two talk or if you like it from afar but the way I play hard to get is I don't respond to texts until about an hour later, leave it to him to make plans and don't always be available.
if you have to play games, you aren't worth any guys time.
You have got it all wrong.Playing hard to get makes guys lose interest.Being up front and honest is the obvious answer
You don't play games or believe me he will lose interest and find someone else
Here's a suggestion. Don't be a ***** and play hard to get. Give him a chance and then once he realizes he isn't just trying for no reason, make him work to keep you.
Playing hard to get is what makes us lose interest. :-/How do you play hard to get?
If he asks you to do something sometime kind of say ive got plans when you dont.
it depends if you two talk or if you like it from afar but the way I play hard to get is I don't respond to texts until about an hour later, leave it to him to make plans and don't always be available.
if you have to play games, you aren't worth any guys time.
You have got it all wrong.Playing hard to get makes guys lose interest.Being up front and honest is the obvious answer
You don't play games or believe me he will lose interest and find someone else
Here's a suggestion. Don't be a ***** and play hard to get. Give him a chance and then once he realizes he isn't just trying for no reason, make him work to keep you.
Do you think these girls like me (added details)?
I think that these girls dig me, but I just want to see what you, the consensus, thinks.
This girl plays hard to get, or is rather aggressive towards me at least. There have been a lot of signs, but here are the two that appealed to me the most:
1. She asked me if I was going to the prom during an off period we both have after I said something that related to the prom. I said probably. She then asked if I had a date, to which I said no. She then began to talk about how she did not have a date either with what I felt as a pause after the remark. She then went on about how she was not going to go because she did have a date etc etc etc. Here's the part that I found odd: after she got a date, she asked me to go with her younger sister, who according to her looks exactly like her.
2. She jokingly said she used to have a crush on me before I became rude (this involves me messing up her back after a botched massage, sort of).
Girl 2 laughs profusely at my jokes, and I think has (more)Do you think these girls like me (added details)?
Yeah, I agree that they both like you but, I would probably go with girl 2 since girl 1 didn't wait for you to ask her to prom.Do you think these girls like me (added details)?
gurl one is just trying to hook you up with her sister, but gurl two there is a possiblity i think she does flirt with her a lil and see what happens =)
They are just playing around and not looking for anything serious to get involved with. If nothing has happened yet, it's not gonna. They consider you as just a friend and nothing more. If you are looking for someone, choose someone besides girl 1 or 2. It also sounds like they both are not sure of anything. You shouldn't think too deeply into these thoughts, it'll be easy to find out if you ask them straight out, then you can move on knowing facts and reality and not just imaginations and thoughts alone.
Nope.
You're in the Friend Zone.
They're just trying to make sure you know what you'll never have.
Sounds like they both are interested.
Girl 1: Likes you. It seems she was waiting for you to ask her to the prom. and giving lots of hints. She might have accepted the date with someone else because she didn't think you would ask her and didn't want to go alone. The reason she wants you to take her sister is so she can keep you close to her. That way it is like you are going to the prom together.
Girl 2: she seems to like you but perhaps for more just physical reasons. By what you stated she seems to be attracted to you but her desire for you might end there. She basically does have a crush on you. Though a crush is somewhat 2 dimensional and she might not want to pursue any type of real relationship.
Girl 1: wants to date you. maybe be your girlfriend
Girl 2: wants to @#$% you, or just fool around. She might not want anything other than that.
Choose based on what you are looking for.
This girl plays hard to get, or is rather aggressive towards me at least. There have been a lot of signs, but here are the two that appealed to me the most:
1. She asked me if I was going to the prom during an off period we both have after I said something that related to the prom. I said probably. She then asked if I had a date, to which I said no. She then began to talk about how she did not have a date either with what I felt as a pause after the remark. She then went on about how she was not going to go because she did have a date etc etc etc. Here's the part that I found odd: after she got a date, she asked me to go with her younger sister, who according to her looks exactly like her.
2. She jokingly said she used to have a crush on me before I became rude (this involves me messing up her back after a botched massage, sort of).
Girl 2 laughs profusely at my jokes, and I think has (more)Do you think these girls like me (added details)?
Yeah, I agree that they both like you but, I would probably go with girl 2 since girl 1 didn't wait for you to ask her to prom.Do you think these girls like me (added details)?
gurl one is just trying to hook you up with her sister, but gurl two there is a possiblity i think she does flirt with her a lil and see what happens =)
They are just playing around and not looking for anything serious to get involved with. If nothing has happened yet, it's not gonna. They consider you as just a friend and nothing more. If you are looking for someone, choose someone besides girl 1 or 2. It also sounds like they both are not sure of anything. You shouldn't think too deeply into these thoughts, it'll be easy to find out if you ask them straight out, then you can move on knowing facts and reality and not just imaginations and thoughts alone.
Nope.
You're in the Friend Zone.
They're just trying to make sure you know what you'll never have.
Sounds like they both are interested.
Girl 1: Likes you. It seems she was waiting for you to ask her to the prom. and giving lots of hints. She might have accepted the date with someone else because she didn't think you would ask her and didn't want to go alone. The reason she wants you to take her sister is so she can keep you close to her. That way it is like you are going to the prom together.
Girl 2: she seems to like you but perhaps for more just physical reasons. By what you stated she seems to be attracted to you but her desire for you might end there. She basically does have a crush on you. Though a crush is somewhat 2 dimensional and she might not want to pursue any type of real relationship.
Girl 1: wants to date you. maybe be your girlfriend
Girl 2: wants to @#$% you, or just fool around. She might not want anything other than that.
Choose based on what you are looking for.
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