Friday, November 19, 2010

How am I supposed to play hard to get?

Kay long story short: i'm a high school junior and me n this guy like each other but he's spending a semester across the country but we plan to try going out when he gets back. We've been texting a lot and he mentioned something about how he likes a challenge and like girls that ';hard to get';.. pretty much hinting that i should play it that way! How am i supposed to do that in text messages with out making him lose interest and what am i supposed to do for the 5 months when he's not here?How am I supposed to play hard to get?
This just means dont always answer his calls, dont always chose him. Prove that you have a life, guys like it because it shows independence and that you can have a life outside of them so you wont always be depending on them. Also the chase is kind of fun. So got out with him looking hot and then dont spend all your time with him. Just be slightly out of reach. If your not in a relationship try flirting with other guys he probably wants to see that the girl is wanted so that when he gets her he wins. It's kind of primordial and hormone driven in it's need to say look i won but if you want the guy so what?How am I supposed to play hard to get?
neveeer text him first. Or facebook w/e

Always wait for him

he may feel like your losing interest and if he really likes you he will chase you harder.

It's hard to do but works everyy time.

and if he doesn't text you in say two days...you can probably get away with texting but fight the urge!
usually im 100% against hard-to-get bc guys get easily bored and easily distracted and move on but since he hinted it, the only way to do that over text is that wait for him to text you and when he does dont respond right away. wait about 5 or 10 minutes. then when he asks you what took so long or what your doing just say ';im just doin stuff'; and then hell ask ';what kinda stuff'; and you say ';oh, just random stuff.'; then hell be curios and wonder what ur doing.



i agree with KM
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