Sunday, November 21, 2010

(For the Ladies) When you're playing ';hard to get';?

In an attempt to understand this frustrating game that girls play I've made this list of questions:



Part 1: How do you want the guy to respond?

a. Subtle flirting

b. More obvious flirting

c. Come right and tell you he likes you/wants to date you

d. Play hard to get back



Part 2: If he responds by doing either a, b, or c (above) how are you MOST LIKELY to respond?

a. flat out tell him you aren't interested

b. act totally uninterested

c. act uninterested but throw some subtle hints to the contrary (leave the door slightly open)

d. show that you are interested



If you answered a, b, or c, how long will you go before you crack and show interest?



Part 3: If the guy plays hard to get back, how are you MOST LIKELY to respond?

a. lose interest

b. get confused and/or sad and therefore stop pursuing

c. want him more and therefore show interest

d. continue playing hard to get as usual



Also, if the guy starts flirting with other girls (or they start flirting with him) how will you respond?(For the Ladies) When you're playing ';hard to get';?
1. a %26amp; d.

but a lot of guys dont notice subtle flirting so you have to make it a bit more obvious sometimes



2. d.



3. b.



if its clear the 2 of you like each other, then flirting with other girls is a no.

but if your playing the field then flirt away(For the Ladies) When you're playing ';hard to get';?
1. d

2. c

3. c



I would think they are a playa and not waste my time.
1. A

2. C

3. C



I would probably make sure he doesnt see my watching him and then when he tries to flirt with me i would just be like oh i see your not flirting with those other girls, and then i would just openly flirt with him!
1:c

2:c or d

3:b and c

if he starts flirting with other girls ill probably be sad but id still like him cuz im a teenager and we flirt
you put effort in it so i will answer:

part 1:B

part 2:c? i guess..

part3:ummm.....ugh makes me thinks! why many questions?
Part 1: b.

Part 2: c.

I would show interest if i see him for the 4th time not in the same day!

Part 3: b.



If a guy starts to flirt with other girls, then i would probably stop pursuing and probably think his a player!!!!

How to crack a girl???

hey, well i need advice. im a good looking guy and have my way with ladies. but this one girl. she just not biting . playing very hard to get and i need to crack her case. its just very hard because i dated one of her friends and then me and her friend broke up. thats how we met. i met her through my ex girlfriend.. i need to get past this girls ';playing hard to get'; and hook up with her. but she says ';i ahve rules...u cant date ur friends ex's) she says this even though we flirt like crazy.. i just needa ADVICE on how to wow her.? any help?How to crack a girl???
Perhaps this is 'one' you cannot have....



Sounds like she knows what she wants and you are not it.How to crack a girl???
Sheesh, you need a spelling lesson along with the need for you to complete 8th grade.

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She could just be a flirt a lot of girls are. That doesn't mean she wants to get with you though. And she's not going to go out with you if you broke up with her friend and then are tryin to get with her. That's not the way friendship works.
maybe playing hard to get back at her will work

if she starts warming to you then you'll know shes at least interested, if she stays away then maybe she really wants to stick with her rules

some girls just flirt with zero intention of follow through, maybe her rule thing is her excuse to flirt with you all she wants then never have to act on it



i think if you start to show interest elsewhere maybe she'll realize what shes missing out on

good luck!
lol wow i like this girl.......... well if she say's that she has rules then she does maybe she is has a close relationship with ur ex and doesnt want to loss her.... but if u really like her and want a ';real relationship with her'; get her to notice that u are only intersted in her and nobody else...if she knows that u are gong around flirting with other girl she wont pay attention to you and wont take u serious. Confess ur feelings for her make her feel special....WOW HER%26gt;%26gt;

Aquarius girl/woman and LEO boy/guy trouble?

this is a minor long TRUE story between three young high school people and it is NOT a fiction. It reads like one but i really need advice and insight onto the status of how the leo feels for the Aquarius girl BECAUSE i am THE Aquarius girl.....





*Scott- Leo Boy



*Allison-Virgo Girl



';Main Star'; *Monique Aquarius



*name change for privacy



So Monique has class with a boy and he and she start to flirt but Monique doesn't want to like a boy at the time. So she plays dumb to all his advances. School dance pops up and Scott asks Allison to the dance since Monique PURPOSELY showed no interest when she really did like him



Monique and Scott start to hang out more and 5 days before the dance Monique goes spontaneously crazy and blurts her feelings to the Leo SCOTT. They feel the same way and they both learn they understand much of each others life after much talking.



The day b4 the dance they both work at the concession stand for the homecoming football game. they flirt a lot but Aquarius girl is playing hard to get and Leo plays along. The Leo knows the Aquarius VERY much needs to have her parents okay b4 she does any hugging ect. BUT Scott is very intent on hugging her.....(also monique did stupidly say that her hugs were rare because her boobs would touch his chest and she will hug him when she wants to SHE MADE IT VERY CLEAR and it was also very clear how much she likes him)



After working they stay for the Varsity game and Monique shuts down she doesnt talk or anything and LEO is being a ';kitten'; by trying to snuggle with her. Monique resists and tells him to wait until her parents okay them. later LEO embarrasses Monique by dancing on the bleachers he dances BADLY on top of the bleachers woth some other ppl.



Monique doesnt dance and runs away with her friends to calm her.

Monique looking back wanted Leo to come after her but Scott didn't.

the nite ends with Monique forces herself (from peer pressure) to give Leo a hug. But he grabs her so tight she felt like he was sqeezing oxygen from her which is what he did....and she pushes him away. then reaching the exit she tries to hug him again and he says ';I dont know what i am going to choose.'; Monique and friends believe that LEO meant Monique or Allison. so Monique infuriated, had a i knew this would happen thoughts, and feeling hurt. pushed LEO away and said fick du in German which means F U in english and hurried away.



Later on that night Monique gets a call from Scott. He says '; i want to make it clear that i meant i don't know if i want to choose to date you or stay friends with you.';



Monique smiles after she and he hangs up and send him a cute ecard on facebook. (yeah i know stupid but she thought she and him could make something)



The nite of the dance she goes over to her girlfreinds house they talk and laugh as they help each other with make up. monique is happy.

At the dance scott avoids her all together. He slow dances with alloson and monique is saddened still wishful he will be hers.



the night ends and he briefly says he wants to be friends only.



Now scott spends all his time with Allison. Monique is alone. Wishfully telling herself another one will come who wont disappoint.



Also in her want to not like anyone monique helped pay for allosons ticket to go with scott. ( yeah stupid)Aquarius girl/woman and LEO boy/guy trouble?
Aaaa T_T poor aqua girly

it sux yea !?

umm i dunno wt u want now Advice ... ppl listen ,,only writing ur sad story ..dunnoh

anyways if im in ur shoes girly i guess i'd play the idk as usual

umm MAYBE that would attract him or sumthin dunno coz guys are stupid they want what they dont have ,,let him regret it umm have a new style (haircut ,wear sumthin short jus wtever) to grab his attention and if it worked ignore him a lil then let him lose hope to have ya bk then give him some hints LET HIM HESSITATE weather u want him or not ... um i duuno im tired of thinkin

jus gd luckAquarius girl/woman and LEO boy/guy trouble?
u should never be with a guy who fail to understand u..let go.....ya it feels bad but trust me there will be better guy to come who will love u and understand u and accept u the way u are.........alwayz remember people who laugh now will cry letter.........

Aquarius girl/woman and LEO boy/guy trouble Insight help?

this is a minor long TRUE story between three young high school people and it is NOT a fiction. It reads like one but i really need advice and insight onto the status of how the leo feels for the Aquarius girl BECAUSE i am THE Aquarius girl.....





*Scott- Leo Boy



*Allison-Virgo Girl



';Main Star'; *Monique Aquarius



*name change for privacy



So Monique has class with a boy and he and she start to flirt but Monique doesn't want to like a boy at the time. So she plays dumb to all his advances. School dance pops up and Scott asks Allison to the dance since Monique PURPOSELY showed no interest when she really did like him



Monique and Scott start to hang out more and 5 days before the dance Monique goes spontaneously crazy and blurts her feelings to the Leo SCOTT. They feel the same way and they both learn they understand much of each others life after much talking.



The day b4 the dance they both work at the concession stand for the homecoming football game. they flirt a lot but Aquarius girl is playing hard to get and Leo plays along. The Leo knows the Aquarius VERY much needs to have her parents okay b4 she does any hugging ect. BUT Scott is very intent on hugging her.....(also monique did stupidly say that her hugs were rare because her boobs would touch his chest and she will hug him when she wants to SHE MADE IT VERY CLEAR and it was also very clear how much she likes him)



After working they stay for the Varsity game and Monique shuts down she doesnt talk or anything and LEO is being a ';kitten'; by trying to snuggle with her. Monique resists and tells him to wait until her parents okay them. later LEO embarrasses Monique by dancing on the bleachers he dances BADLY on top of the bleachers woth some other ppl.



Monique doesnt dance and runs away with her friends to calm her.

Monique looking back wanted Leo to come after her but Scott didn't.

the nite ends with Monique forces herself (from peer pressure) to give Leo a hug. But he grabs her so tight she felt like he was sqeezing oxygen from her which is what he did....and she pushes him away. then reaching the exit she tries to hug him again and he says ';I dont know what i am going to choose.'; Monique and friends believe that LEO meant Monique or Allison. so Monique infuriated, had a i knew this would happen thoughts, and feeling hurt. pushed LEO away and said fick du in German which means F U in english and hurried away.



Later on that night Monique gets a call from Scott. He says '; i want to make it clear that i meant i don't know if i want to choose to date you or stay friends with you.';



Monique smiles after she and he hangs up and send him a cute ecard on facebook. (yeah i know stupid but she thought she and him could make something)



The nite of the dance she goes over to her girlfreinds house they talk and laugh as they help each other with make up. monique is happy.

At the dance scott avoids her all together. He slow dances with alloson and monique is saddened still wishful he will be hers.



the night ends and he briefly says he wants to be friends only.



Now scott spends all his time with Allison. Monique is alone. Wishfully telling herself another one will come who wont disappoint.



Also in her want to not like anyone monique helped pay for allosons ticket to go with scott. ( yeah stupid)Aquarius girl/woman and LEO boy/guy trouble Insight help?
It's crap. Live life by your heart, not ';the stars';Aquarius girl/woman and LEO boy/guy trouble Insight help?
Hm. You know what? I used to believe in astrology, now it's a load of crap.



These characteristics of astro signs fit for most people! And plus, the sun signs aren't accurate anymore.

How to play hard to get?

there is a girl at work that is playing hard to get and trying to mess with my head. I want some tips on how to give it back to her.

p.s. the girl is actualy not a player or whore, she is nice just with a ';playful'; personality. I like herHow to play hard to get?
just be nice and be behaved..and someday out of nowhere,dress nicely and ask her out for a date..walk in a lake during the sunset..and then embrace her if you feel comfortable..



no kiss..

be serious and don't be clumsy..How to play hard to get?
Don't play games back...it's all going to get confusing and no one is going to win in the end. Just tell her you like her, and if she is smart enough she will just admit she likes you back instead of continuing with whatever it is that Cosmo has told her to do.
admit that you like her and then get with her, and if she makes games when your dating, dont worry, just play along.



Happy dating?
Just be upfront with her.
Umm .....ignore her or.. just do random things that will keep her wanting more.
basically

when a girl is playing hard to get she loves it when you try really hard to get her

i.e. when you know shes playing hard to get, just show her it doesnt bother you.

but it depends on how old you are?
don't play hard to get.....let her know that you like her!
honestly i don't think guys will ever be able to do that to a girl. best shot might be just asking her out on a date. plain and simple. break the ';hard to get'; stage. once you get her to start feeling you on a different level, she'll hopefully open up.
just ask her out n see what happens thats all i can give u
ignore her --- show her you are not interested --- the same as she is --- i would suggest she is NOT interested and not playing hard to get ---- if she is not interested then you should respect that and let her get on with her work ---- have fun
i think u think shes playing hard to get and i bet she is but check her eyes stare at them and she if she looks anywhere but yours if she does i bet she likes you then ask her out and if your playing hard to get cancel at the last moment and say you forgot but your going to a concert with a FRIEND like say your sis name but she will think its more than a friend
first bring her coffee in the morning like on Monday . Then talk to some other females workers for about 5 mins. After u give her coffee. Then go straight to ur work. At lunch ask her if she would like anything. After work walk her to her car or home. From there u can manage !
Take note of what she says and does and return it back to her in the same manner.



(This is not rocket science)
do wat she dose.. i mean if u want to play hard to get filrt wit her and put all these thoughts in her head then walk away, well ukno wat i mean just get her to beg for more XD
pretend u dont notice her

I can't tell if he likes me or if he's just playing with me?

Well a while ago i told my crush i liked him, but he never came out and straightforwardly said ';i like you too'; or ';i don't like you';. In fact, he kinda seemed more shocked by it more than anything. So he after i told him i liked him and basically spilled my guts, he tried to make a joke out of it, which pissed me off because i was totally embarrassed in the first place, and this was the most serious i'd ever been when it came to a guy. So after that, we got into the huge fight and it lasted about a week. All we did was scream and yell at each other. Finally we just sat down and came to the conclusion that with our circumstances and personal lives, it would be too hard to date.



Still, I like him. And something tells me he likes me too.



He kept telling me things like he wished i would've told him before, and he seemed really upset by it. But i told him that i didn't know how to tell him because i knew for months before that he was chasing after my friend, but she didn't like him.



So lately, he lingers near me a lot. He likes to play with my hair and play fight with me. And at our school dance a few days ago, he asked me to slow dance with him, and he kept pulling me extremely close to his chest and he had his arms like locked around me. So i just leaned my head on his shoulder, and he ended up laying his head on top of mine (he towers over me in height. I'm so tiny compared to him. haha) When the song was over, he said to me ';Damn it, why couldn't the song be a bit longer?';



Then my crush got really pissed when our friend Sam pushed this really annoying girl into him and forced him to dance with her instead of me. Then Sam started dancing with me and the whole time Sam was making faces at him while my crush flipped him the bird (which was hilarious, honestly)





anyway, i'm just wondering if you think he might actually like me or if he's just doing all this because i came out an told him my real feelings and he feels bad for me...I can't tell if he likes me or if he's just playing with me?
no he likes you....guys don't go out of there way to show that they have feeling unless maybe you are having sex with himI can't tell if he likes me or if he's just playing with me?
He's interested in you. Whether it's because he really likes you or because he knows he can easily play you because you like him will become clear only over time. Make sure you take it very slow with him to make sure he's not playing you.
from what i hear he likes you if he wished the song to be longer..and if he spends lots of time around you : )
I think he likes you too, even if he laughed at you he might have just been acting, but i think he really likes you,
he feels bad for you;
it's pretty clear he likes you and he's happier that YOU confessed first..confront him on HIS feelings now..
seems to me he likes you.

perhaps he tried to make a joke out of it b/c he was nervous or felt akward.

nevertheless him sayin that he had hoped he wouldve known earlier probably means he use to like you.

once you came out those feeling probably resurfaced.
well i would just come out and say ';do you want to be with me? i like you alot and it seems like you like me too. if you dont like me thats ok we can still be friends'; and if he doesnt feel the same i would just leave it alone for a while.

What should I do with a girl that's playing hard to get?

Well me and this girl are good friends and we have always make each other laugh and she is one of the few girls that i can be my self around. And just recently 3 months ago I have fallen in love with her and have made attempts to pursue her but she is just playing hard to get. She will reply to my messages late and its hard to ever get her somewhere outside of school.I have noticed her many attempts to make me jealous etc.Once I actually made an attempt to make her jealous t by getting up to talk to another girl and i noticed that her facial expression change. But My point is What should I do. I am Obsessing about this girl. I text her constantly and receive no messages and times . Once I asked her why she reply's late she said because She knows i hate it.

What should i do?

I was thinking of just confronting her and telling her how I feel?



BTW she is no ordinary girl.



HELPPPP EVERY DAY MY HEART grows weaker. I can sleep lol.What should I do with a girl that's playing hard to get?
i do agree wid Tania that sometimes emotional issues keep girls from opening up. women KNOW when someone likes them...so im guessin she knows...you need to demonstrate the willingness to walk away her attraction for you will grow n she will purse you.What should I do with a girl that's playing hard to get?
just play hard to get too



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since it been months, may be its a good idea to confront her on what's what.

you seem to be having a hard time in waiting for her. so to shorten that agony, just go ot her and straigten things up. but dont expect answers that would be pleasing to your heart and ears. its a risk that you'll be confronting her. so just get all that courage and clear things out with her.
I agree with Kevin. Quit trying. Go after some other girl. This girl is obviously playing with you, so your quitting with the pursuit will surprise her. Thinking she's failed, she'll come after you and you can scoop her into your waiting arms (metaphorically, of course). I hope she is the girl for you!
Playing hard to get or actually hard to get?



If she's playing she's just a tease. tell her you're interested, but not if she's not gonna participate.



some girls are just hard to get. mental or emotional issues prevent them from getting close to guys.
Kick her in the vaj.
TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!
you must change your strategy completely. Treat her the same way you would treat her if she'd just dumped you. It will work.
me too! i hate it but what i do is listen to hardcore punk like exploited or the varukers it takes my mind off of her and it makes me feel better. don't dwell over it just take your time don't act like ur losing interest but find that balance of texting and not texting her she'll come to her senses hope it helps
Keep going for a while but eventually she's gonna have to do something other than play hard to get. If she doesn't stop doing it, you're gonna have to just get over her because she's obviously not worth your time.



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ha, I've been where you've been at many of times, some people really like the chase, they enjoy someone pro suing them, so here's my advice don't text message her start calling her, and ask her out, really put the ball him her court, and see what she does with it, either way you will know how you stand with her



Good Luck
well it's good that you understand that talking to other girls/dating them is a good tool to keep her interested. that's a time-tested bulls-eye.



I think you need to go straight at her. and at the same time you need to lose the ';she is no ordinary girl'; thing. if she's hot she gets that kind of treatment all the time and you will be grouped with the losers. you can't be depending on it ';working out'; so your ';life will be perfect';. that doesn't exist. and if that's your attitude, just kiss your butt goodbye right now.



DO NOT tell her ';how you feel';. just SHOW her. ask her out - or go with her to neutral things, and then try to get her alone and make a bold move. by doing that you ARE telling you how you feel, but in HER LANGUAGE. not your logical teenage boy language (girls can't translate it). it's an excellent sign that she's trying to make you jealous. that means you have some serious play here.



and: DO NOT ';obsess'; over her. no offense, but there will be other girls. don't get in the habit of depending on one girl to be your whole world. they don't like it, AND they can smell it. and if they're hot you won't last long and it's doubtful it would get you anywhere in the first place.



also if you constantly text her, scale it back a little and she will notice and then realize she might have to do something to keep her around instead of just take you for a freely granted back-up plan.

This girl at school is playing hard to get, how do i break the ice?

I really like this girl from school, Mildred, and i think she likes me too but she is playing hard to get. I wrote her a love poem about a month ago, but she tore it up and handed it back to me. I then sang her a love song outside of her house, but she had her boyfriend hand me an as kicking i wouldn't soon forget. I know she really likes me, I'm just not sure why she goes to such extremes to hide it?? I figured if i could learn some of her interests i could possibly relate to her on a more positive level. So 2 weeks ago i started secretly following her around, just trying to get an idea of her day to day activities. Well the first week went great, i managed to discover she is into dancing, soccer, and enjoys frequenting a pizza parlor a few blocks from her house. But problems arose on day 9. I was hiding outside of her house behind some bushes. Through my binoculars i could see Mildred and her family were having corned beef hash for dinner. suddenly i was blindsided from behind, and landed face first in the bushes. It turned out to be Mildred's boyfriend. He dragged me from out of the bushes by my ankles, and told me if he ever sees me around Mildred again, he is going to back up over me with his Geo Tracker. The last thing i remember was his foot coming down on my face and tasting mud and leather. I awoke hours later in a puddle of my own piss and blood, and 4 of my teeth were stuck in my hair. I am honestly at a complete loss as what to do next??? How do i get her to come out of her shell?This girl at school is playing hard to get, how do i break the ice?
This would be funny if it weren't so long.This girl at school is playing hard to get, how do i break the ice?
If it isn't Mildred and the love poem.
Have you ever considered that she doesn't like you and she thinks you're a stalker?
... your not serious..?
dude, when she tears up ur love poem and uve awkon in a puddle of blood missing teeth, it's time to call it a day. and stalking her is just weird
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  • Yo, What is up with this girl?

    How can you tell if a girl is playing hard to get...or is straight up ignoring you? ...or maybe is really shy...?Yo, What is up with this girl?
    Try talking to her and say what's up.

    Make a conversation to see and if she walks away shes ignoring you.

    If you say hi at her and turns around to look at you and turn back she is shy.

    Try to see if she's a quiet person in class that mean she's quite shy.

    If she's an active talker than she could possibly ignore you.Yo, What is up with this girl?
    If I could answer that, there wouldn't be a need for a ';Singles %26amp; Dating'; section.
    Depends on the girl. Playing hard to get involves flirty smiles, Straight up ignoring girls generally tell you that they are ignoring you, and shy girls have a mix between uncomfortable and flirty facial expressions.
    trust me you play hard to get or keep real busy and they will come to you. hope this helps..and good luck.
    uhh some ppl may like u, but doesnt want to go out with u. also shy girls wont say yes in front of 10 billion other guys. they may smile at u in the hallways though. ignoring girls glare at u and look straight ahead. its plain obvious

    Okay girls How do you play hard to get (i guess guys can answer this too)?

    Okay so i like this guy but me and this other chick who he;s friends with find him to be a bit full of himself and loves attention from girls



    He's a sweet guy though and one of my friends we seem to get along really well he gives me hugs all the time and makes me laugh and smile but i also see him flirting with this other chick as well who also thinks he just likes the attention from girls



    I know i should probably walk away from this guy but he's a real sweet heart and a good friend who i would love to make more of a bf but how do i go about making him like me back



    One of my friends told me to just stop giving him hugs and pretend to ignore him for a while make him come to me



    another friend said talk about another guy infront of him make him think ur interested in some one else



    another friend said just give him a hug once in a blue moon but try not to spend much time with him



    But im horrible with this stuff like what do you do to get a guys attention when he's an attention whore and how do you make him like how do you play hard to get (Yes Im pathetic)Okay girls How do you play hard to get (i guess guys can answer this too)?
    no, don't do it, we hate that, just be honest with him, trust me that will get him faster than anything else.

    How do I deal with the ultimate hard-to-get girl?

    There's this girl I have been talking to for awhile. We kissed a few times but nothing serious. The problem is every time we talk or hang out she acts like I'm just another guy that likes her. Any advice? Personally I just want to know if I should continue to play gamesHow do I deal with the ultimate hard-to-get girl?
    give her a taste of her own treatmentHow do I deal with the ultimate hard-to-get girl?
    With those girls it's best to pretend you could care less if she existed.Become somewhat of a jerk.Or you could just quit wasting your time and find a girl who's into you.Which of course would then get the attention of this girl because you're now unavailable,you know how these things go.
    no. if this girl is not showing afections towards you she must not care at all

    How can I get with a girl who is trying to be 'hard to get'?

    So, I'm pretty sure this girl likes me, but I think she is playing 'hard to get.' Any suggestions on how to break this attitude a bit?How can I get with a girl who is trying to be 'hard to get'?
    play hard to get with her----pretend to not show interest in her, yet play with her---give her signals you like her, but try to ';hint'; at her that you can play her game too. It's hard for me to really explain it, but show her that you can play her game too. ---i also like that one poster's suggestion about also showing interest in other girls (pretending to), so that you're not just concentrating your attention on her.How can I get with a girl who is trying to be 'hard to get'?
    Yeah.... tell her to grow up and stop playing immature games........ What a turn off.........
    Tell her you like her.
    Dude, if she's playing hard to get you can either deal with it, not waste your time with her, or play hard to get back.
    Tell her you believe she is playing hard to get and that you are going to ask her just this once and that's it, she can take it or leave it! Good luck
    Stop showing an interest in her. If another female is around start looking at her. Females like this hate it when the male looses interest in them. They fight like cats to get their man back!

    Enjoy the fun you are about to have.
    then leave her alone for a bit then she will stop
    You really must like this girl and well if she's playing hard to get, you have to go along with it. Flirt with her make it stinking obvious lol. Then ask her out, when you flirt use your charm and she can't possibly say no.
    kiss her.... :-*
    This is very much like Horse training...give a little, then take it away.

    Play hard to get a little yourself. If a horse is not paying you the propper attention to train it, turn your back and ignore it...the horse cant resist being interested. We work the same way and dating can be a very cruel game.

    Is she playing hard to get?

    i met this girl once 8 months ago. 2 weeks ago i saw her again. she remembered my name and our entire conversation. we did some catching up. she told me how nice i look and she tried to kiss me twice. i pulled away due to a recent breakup. she asked when she could see me again. i told her i wasnt sure but i decided to see her the next day. she seemed interested so i asked her out. she said ill think about it. now she says she wants to be friends first and take it slow. is this girl playing games with me?Is she playing hard to get?
    Well if you two just recently met after a long time, she obviously just wnts to take things slow and not rush in ....and get to know you better.Is she playing hard to get?
    You denied her kiss TWICE, noob, what do you expect?
    She sounds like an idiot- I would pass on this if I were you-especially since there are thousands of others that are not



    Girls worth having relationships with do not attempt to kiss guys (twice) tht they do not really know
    not really leaning away you basicly said not intrested
    How is being friends and taking it slow playing games? It sounds like she knows you just broke up with someone you aren't completely over, and who knows if she is just getting over a relationship as well...or something. It is always a good idea to begin as friends and take it slow. Very intelligent people do that. The relationship works out better in the long run. Peace to you.
    yeah she is, just say ok and see where it goes from there
    No you dumbsh!.t. She thinks you are not interested!
    Yes definitely. Girls who play games are a stupid waste of time in my book though.
    seems you turned her down, so she will expect you to be her friend,looks like she is giving you a bit of your own treatment anyway it is the basis of a long lasting relationship always be friends before lovers good luck I hope it works out for you
    I think the fact that you pulled away twice threw her off a little. She probably thinks that you're not interested. Did you tell her about your recent break-up?

    Also, look at what you're doing. It's pretty much the same thing that she's doing to you. It looks like you're a little confused as to what you want at the moment and that's confusing her as well. If you like her definitely take time, it will be better for both of you in the long run.

    Lindsay
    well... get to know her and see if she says yes, you'll soon know



    dont take it to offense but if she said that then she is probably still pissed off about you not wanting to kiss her! and if she said no then she might still want to be your friend just notyour gf just yet.

    hope this helps

    x

    How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?

    It was a lot easier in the 50's when guys worked to get a girl to go out with him. but now it seems like if you want to see if they're really interested and don't JUMP at the chance to go out with them, they'll move on and find some girl who's easier.How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?
    if they are interested go for it, if not it is more of an envy thing now, (they see someone else like you and they like you)How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?
    why would I wanna wait to be with a guy I really liked?
    Well if he moves on then you know he's not the one. Keep things balanced....not too long and not jumping at the chance as soon as u get it.

    How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?

    It was a lot easier in the 50's when guys worked to get a girl to go out with him. but now it seems like if you want to see if they're really interested and don't JUMP at the chance to go out with them, they'll move on and find some girl who's easier.How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?
    then don't get too hard to get. be yourself, make a good impression that makes him keeps chasing you. but if he went away and finds an easier girl, then maybe he's just trying to get back at you by making you jealous or he's just not for you. you wouldn't wanna be called easy would you?How do you play hard to get without the other person losing interest?
    i think that in the very very beginning of a relationship there may be some 'playing' hard to get, but, after a while...yep, it is a dealbreaker when it goes on seemingly endlessly. it can be a deal breaker.
    yes! times have changed and people aren't willing to put the effort in their relationships they should.... they would rather talk to the person who is ';putting out';

    Question for female baseball fans?

    For any of you women who play/played softball and favors baseball, how does it feel to play a game that's a little less competitive and fast than the game of baseball? Don't get me wrong, I'm sure you girls play hard in softball but do ever wish you were competing with us men in the game of baseball which is much more loving many people who enjoy sports?Question for female baseball fans?
    Haha, many of you dont know this , but ive played both :)



    I've been playing softball for 3 years, but i played baseball for 6 years. i played up until i was 12, on an all boys team, (only girl.) - kinda sucked, because like, i was friends with them, but like, i couldnt talk about girl stuff, you know? . like on my softball teams, i get to be myself, talk about stuff i can around them, and not around guys , ect.



    I really love playing baseball, but i think im more suited for softball. I'm better at it, %26amp; i have more friends %26amp; i can be myself around the girls more than the guys.



    I mean, yeah, softball IS competitive. My high school team is really competitive. Practices everyday, playing the good players all the time, doing whatever it takes to win.Question for female baseball fans?
    I play school softball, so it isn't competitive at all. I wish it were though, because then people begin to not care at all. They don't really try sometimes, but I'd rather just keep it all girls. We have fun, and all the guys in my grade are show-offs so they'd probably get in the way. If it were like that, I'd be in center field about to catch a pop up and the right fielder would step in front of me :(



    It would be interesting to play it like that, but it wouldn't work at my school.



    But it would be soooo cool for women to play in the MLB. I would be so determined to get on the Red Sox :D
    I've played softball. I really wish I could have played baseball...but in my area, a lot of boys play and they start at a young age. The team they join is very good (and competitive), so I doubt they'd let me in. I used to play baseball at school with the boys, but eventually it drowned off. Yeah, I really wish I could play on a baseball team because softball doesn't interest me too much.
    I love softball. I'm good at it and it's fun:) I wouldn't necessarily say is less competitive than baseball because I am EXTREMELY competitive when it comes to my softball games, haha. But yeah, sometimes i wish i was playing with the guys in baseball because some girls just bring too much drama to the game...
    Yepp. I am female and i actually did play baseball with the boys for about 6 years. I LOVED it and i refuse to play softball. i wish more than anything i could go back and play but i know i cant. I stayed up with them too. Made all stars 4 years of the 6, was a pitcher, catcher, and 3rd basemen. Sometimes played 1st. But i just loved it. I miss it soooo much :(
    I gotta agree with EMC's answer. Some girls bring wayy to much drama to the game. but yeah i do wish i was playing baseball. i played for 3 years and it was fun. i play pickup games at least 2 times every summer.
    Well, I'm a pretty poor excuse for a ball player. Softball is fine for me. Usually I've played on teams with both men and women.
    I know i do!!!!!!!!!!!! i love competitiveness! i get a surge when i play, but i always wished to play with the boys (:

    Ques for GUYS!!!!!!!?

    Hey do guys prefer independant girls or gals dependant on them?.?

    was wondering like wen should a girl volunteer 2 pay for stuff if the guy is always taking the 1st step in paying everything an u both are students?

    How can a girl play hard 2 get without being nasty but be very sweet and adorable...



    anothat ques is that what does i mean when a guy mentions his ex a lot of times. but says hes over her and could neva go bec with her but nearly every conversation he mentions his ex wen refering to things lik ohh my ex used 2 do this and i hated it but he doesnt compare tho..





    Ques for GUYS!!!!!!!?
    If your income is about the same then it's nice for a girl to share expenses.



    If he mentions his ex all the time he is either a fool, or very insecure.



    If anything can put a guy off its a girl not being able to spell at all as this always makes them look a little young to date.Ques for GUYS!!!!!!!?
    i prefer an independent woman.



    he he mentions his ex alot then he is still in love with her.

    Playing hard to get when your already gotten...?

    So usually I am the girl who plays hard to get, and shows little intrest in guys. It truly works everytime, they end up liking me with out any work on my part.

    But recently this guy who is my best friend's boyfriend's bestfriend started texting a little. He is really cute. MY bestfriend tells me about him and he is everything im looking for and really sweet.

    Except both our bestfriends convienently dropped the bomb to each of us that we both have an intrest in one another. Heknows i might like him now its just not my style and I dont know how to move forward.

    You see he is still playing hard to get and only texts me if i ask him a question %26amp;he dosnt take it any further. I don't want to look to easy by always texting him. Im absolutly tortureing myself holding back!

    I dont know what to do. He gets really nervous if we talk in person and I dont want to seem too in to him. I'm usually on the other side of this problem, and now I'm truly lost. I really want it to work out between usPlaying hard to get when your already gotten...?
    well, you have to play harder to get. Dont text anymore. Do it every26 hours. and just text thinking of you and dont answer back. wait again. text something like. I just bought this cute tight shirt wait again do you see what I mean.Then finally when he is hunting you down. give it 2 weeks. say how about enjoying each other's company and lets both of us stop playing hard to get. It works, good luck you are just too cute, meaning liking boys is no different from when I was younger. its cute to see young girls ask for advice. gee I wish I a computers when I was younger
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  • How do you play hard to get, when really all you want is affection from your girl?

    We're 30 and love each other, but affection has been a problem with us... I always want to show affection and be close while she is always pulling back... I have told her she is so beautiful, she knows I am turned on by her, I have told her I want to be able to cuddle in bed, and we have even practiced cuddle positions that we both like. Now I feel like she does these things just becasue I have asked and not becasue she wants to. I want to see and feel her want me. I have to play hard to get but don't know where to start. What do I have to do?How do you play hard to get, when really all you want is affection from your girl?
    Just read what you mentioned in your question, that's why playing hard to get isn't such a good idea. It just gives the girl the wrong idea.



    Doing that may give mixed results, one of them may be that she may think you no longer like her and you're trying to find someone to replace her.



    I really think she likes you, but probably is shy so you might need to take full responsibilty of being the guide and escorting her through the relationship.

    Please just help... I just need some answers!?

    Me and this guy like each other. He just got out of a 3 year relationship about 5 months ago and has tried seeing other girls between meeting me and breaking up with her. He took some time to think about ';us'; and I think he may be scared to get into another serious relationship. Hes been seeming kind of distant, but still says he likes me. Do you think he might be pushing me away in a sense just to see how much I like him or how serious I am? Like, he doesn't want to get into a relationship where the girl isn't totally committed. This guy thinks about all this stuff I would say more than I do. Do you think that could be it? I have talked to him about it and he just said he needed time to think which I gave him. Plus... I cant play hard to get with him in talking to other guys because he gets WAY jealous. Like, it makes me feel bad. So I just dont. And also, occasionally he'll call or text me... but it seems like lately Im the one calling or texting him. Does that matter? My best friend that is the one that set us up said that guys like it when girls play hard to get but at the same time they do like when you text first sometimes to show you care.... is this true? Help!Please just help... I just need some answers!?
    It's just a phase of your relationship, serious guys always act like kinda distant and weird (sometimes want you to constantly make the 1st move even in texting and so on), I've been there myself.

    Once he realizes he's falling for you, he will be yours forever!Please just help... I just need some answers!?
    Well hence if he's distancing himself from you i'd say he's on the rebound and you should just back off alot or you'll more than likely be the only one hurt in the end..
    The only advice i can give is that you should be open and honest with him. Leave the ball in his court.. Makes sure he knows how you feel and tell him he needs to make his decision. After that you text him or call him if you feel you have to. But there's no sense in running after a guy... they just get sick of that in the end anyway. If he wants you, he will come running. ( i hope )
    Just stay HONEST. Let him know that the next step is up to him...and then shut UP on all fronts. Give it a couple of months!!!! Keep busy meantime...go out and have fun! You GO, Girl! Hugs, Gina C.
    I would say do not wait for him at all. One he is Jealous. That is a bad start right away. He has trust issues. I say this because if you two are not together then why is he getting so jealous? He obviously likes you but it may be hard to get back with someone so soon after a 3 year relationship. Also, if you are dating or talking with someone there is only a certain level of commitment that can be there. Serious relationships do not happen over night. Sounds like his ex cheated on him. He needs to get over whatever happened in his last relationship before he can get with anyone else. You should talk to him and let him know right now not be a good time for you two to get together. Just be a friend and if you really want to be with him you will give him more time.



    I was in a three year relationship over a year and a half ago. She cheated on me and I am still single to this day. It is not always easy to let something like that go and getting in a relationship while your still not over things will cause issues in your next relationship.

    How do i...(PLEASE i need to know NOW!) thnx?

    i know he likes me %26amp; he knows i like him, he recently broke up with me(after 4 %26amp; 1/2 months) because i didnt make him work hard enough to keep me, i told him i still love him and would do anything to get him back, he told me he still has major feelings for me %26amp; if i could make him work %26amp; want to work hed be mine again in a heart beat, he said that its because he luvs it when girls play hard to get!%26amp; that he really wants me to do that %26amp; he said if i dont then i must not really want him that bad!(ik he really has feelings for me im the longest girlfriend hes ever had by like 3 months and he said he doesnt wanna lose me or hurt me-i dont mean phisically i mean hurt my heart- he said he feels differenr about me then any other girl hes ever been with) I really love him %26amp; NEED him back please help me iv never played hard to get b4 %26amp; im not sure how i should do this PLEASE i NEED this i NEED him!!!! every second i wait is that much closer i am to loosing him for good! PLEASEHow do i...(PLEASE i need to know NOW!) thnx?
    umm.tell him u really miss him!!...and how much u need him in ur and how important he is to you and how u would do anything for him!!

    good luck!How do i...(PLEASE i need to know NOW!) thnx?
    hey i understand were he is coming from some guys have really wired turn on and his just happen to be girls playing hard to get but yeah he was in the wrong by making that comment stating he's not sure if u really like him or not because u won't play hard to get but on the other hand he's the one that's probably playing hard to get so idk what to tell u
    sometimes playing hard to get can turn him away and then he will start doing it to. sit him down talk to him. and just to let u no u don't need him. u want him back. my fiance says that too. he needs me. all u need is urself. but if u really do need him like u say, get him back
    This is a game, and could be a confusing and dangerous one in the future if you stick with him. He's trying to make you into something you don't want to be. and he'll always want to do that, as a way to challenge you for one reason or another. He is manipulating you and trying to prove he's dominating you by making you do what he wants. He thinks he's making you into the person he wants you to be...a model of what's in his mind of how every girl should act. He'll get very demanding on other things in the future once he has you do one thing, he'll ask another.
    yeah i agree but, i think u guys need a break frm eachother then, you play ';hard 2 get'; if thts wht he wants,but i do think it should be wht u want take control gurl..have fun,,good luck!

    How to play hard to get?

    What sort of things could a 16 year old girl do to play hardto get big a guy with a huge ego lol.

    I wanna tease him 4 a bit first and make him work for it =D

    thank-you xxxxxx

    ( i will choose best answer)How to play hard to get?
    flirt and give him your cellie number

    and when he calls don't answer the first time

    and then be like hey ill call you in 5min

    then wait till 15 min to call back.,

    Women are complicated.. agreed!?

    How long will a girl play hard to get.. is there a certain time or is it just when ever they feel like they dont need to...

    Or maybe its when they reach a certain action .. like a kiss..

    Share you knowledge with me!Women are complicated.. agreed!?
    yup really complicated but i learn a thing or two after each girls lolWomen are complicated.. agreed!?
    you are complicated. women are greed and men are just spoiling them with promises and words.



    read this serioulsy and come to life men
    A girl will play ';hard to get'; how ever you let it go on for.



    I find it a pretty unattractive trait. It makes no sense in ';playing'; roles if there is mutual attraction, its just a waste of time and also gives her the upper hand, which would be terrible if a relationship started afterwards.



    If she is playing hard to get, she likes you. Once she plays a ';hard to get'; card, punish her by completely rolling off. Be cool, smile and very unaffected. Make it obvious that you don't need her in your life to be happy, fulfilled and chill.



    Now she will think she has cock'd everything up and lost you. She will have to cease the hard to get charade to get you back. She will be forced to show her interest to keep you.



    When she has made her move, mirror it back. Don't you start to play hard to get.



    You will now have room to mess things up, as at this point in your relationship (the birth), you've got all ';the hand';. She will think she's got no more room to mess up because she knows how easily she can loose you.
    I have no idea they're all complicated. each ones like a riddle, it takes time to figure em' out
    I normally do not play hard to get. I like to have fun, so if I like the guy, I go for it. I try to be honest and open, if he is machista enough to think that a woman must play hard to get to be taken seriously, that's not the kind of man I like. I perfer being spontaneous and following my heart.
    well im a girl and i have to admit we like to keep testing guys to see how much they truly love us. now me i dont play hard to get but for like a couple of weeks. games are so over rated. and i have to admit we are very complicated as for me sometimes i even wonder what i was thinking or why other girls are being so complicated. all i can say is you cant live with us but well nvr mind you could live with out us but oh well.i agree with you. now as for me after the first kiss or after a couple of dates and he says for certian we're going out i stop playing hard to get. but also some guys stop trying and i know that once you have me it doesnt mean you should stop giving gifts or opening car doors or that. and so its pretty much when ever we feel like it.
    Women are highly complicated cause they are far more susceptible to allowing their feelings and emotions to alter there mood, even outside of pregnancy and that oh so special time of the month.



    Basically it makes them very hard to read because things unrelated to where you are and what you are doing can completely change their mood in a instant making whatever you say or do suddenly WRONG. Also girls dont cut guys any slack either, they dont see it as 'poor guy, he doesn't know what im feeling so I shoudl go easy on him' they see it more like 'omg guys are so stupid'
    I think when a woman ready shes ready you must be confident with yourself and she will see that to.Don't attack to hard,but let her play her game if goes on to long than just isn't meant to be.our a part of the relationship takes 2 and woman love to be chased
    yes, girls are complicated. and seriously, guys are not. You never know what a girl is thinking, and most of the time they're more scandalous than guys, I'm sorry but it's true.
    Yes, women are complicated. One key thing is to know about women is to ALWAYS listen and allllways try to meet them half way when it comes to problems. Men think women complain and thats it. Well.... most of the time we complain because a man wont open his mind and see our sides.



    Yeah youre going to find some nuts along the way who do complain for recreation. But thats not too common.

    Just remember, listen. Try to put yourself in a womens place once in a while and things will go smooth!
    Its all trial and error. If you ar not trying your chances of succeeding are less. Rejection is part of the process don't be scared of rejection and be yourself.
    yes, women are complicated. we are generally more emotional than men. or at least women are better at expressing ourselves than guys who can be just as emotional. but its just how God wired us! :}
    agreed!

    some girls like the chase. just play back, ignore her calls! reply to her text after like 2 hrs.



    i believe you have won her over when u can talk to her for hrs and it doesnt get boring.
    A girl will continue playing hard to get... meaning she likes being a player. If you don't like the game, move out of it and find someone like yourself.

    I personally like a guy who tries a little harder to approach me. Maybe try that?

    How do you play hard to get with a friend?

    Well I have this guy friend and I kinda have a crush on him. I don't know if he feels the same way or not. He likes the girls that are hard to get and i have no clue how to play hard to get. He's my friend so we are always hanging out and talking online. We never call each other but we IM all the time. We don't go to the same school but we live 5 minutes away. I need some help! How can I play Hard to get with him? I can't just tell him how I feel cause I don't want to ruin the friendship. I want him to be the one to ask me out. Also he just broke up with his girlfriend so I think right now would be the best time to start. Help!!How do you play hard to get with a friend?
    how can you play hard to get when no one is chasing, you have to get him interested in you as a girl..and not a friend... first. but why play games... once the chase is over... interest sometimes fades/ but if you have a good foundation like friendship first... you have a chance of having a better and longer lasting relationship.How do you play hard to get with a friend?
    YTou can't play hard to get either you are or you're not.

    How to deal with this? 10 easy points?

    a girl plays hard to get %26amp; where u have shown her u totally interested ,now she softens %26amp; is interested .what game do u play, what would u do to get herHow to deal with this? 10 easy points?
    no games, ask her out. But don't become a puppy, and don't always come at her call. Have a life. Show her she means a lot to you, but if she wasn't there, you would still survive.



    Hon.How to deal with this? 10 easy points?
    idk but jst tel her tht u like her %26amp; u wnt 2 go out w/ her!!!!! im a grl %26amp; i wud jst wnt a guy 2 ask me flat out cuz i hate tht game sht!!!!!!!!!

    Am i the only one not fed up with preteens and their high risk behaviours?

    i read a question on here wich was gross some 10 yearold girl wanted to toung kiss her boyfriend ,jesus christ what do u think about these kids were u toung kissing at 10 yearsold, another question i saw was do u have any tips on how to make a11 yearold girl play hard to get the mother was asking the question what do u think of these questions and the people who ask themAm i the only one not fed up with preteens and their high risk behaviours?
    They've come to the right place for help. They ask questions, we answer. I don't really mind them.



    What I do mind though, are these people who don't use proper grammar or spelling. I mean, how much can you make fun of people when you can't even spell 'tongue'? Check up on your spelling and maybe add a period here or there. The questions themselves don't bother me, it's the way they're worded.



    nicoleAm i the only one not fed up with preteens and their high risk behaviours?
    those are disturbing questions!
    I think that is ridiculous but there's also not much you can do about your own personal feelings because not everyone is going to agree with you esp. not young kids or people that approve. And please, learn how to spell.
    std's are on the rise in teens and preteens
    I think Britney Spears and Paris Hilton as role models from hell are effectively brainwashing our teenybops into thinking they should be sex objects who abuse substances.



    It's a disturbing trend where most of the population could be on Jerry Springer instead of just a few.
    well i think that they are hopfully exaderating or april fooling us other than that i really think that it is gross and they need to stop they are gonna end up getting hurt....







    -Ashley
    It is unbelievable!! We are in trouble. The next generatation has no morals. The next president might make a public address drinking a 40 and smoking a blunt. Watch.

    And they'll think nothing of it.
    I'm frankly afraid to have kids. It's absolutely disgusting how diluted the kids are now-a-days. However, a lot of it can be based on a parenting problem, so hopefully my kids will be okay! I keep hoping for there to be a drastic turn in the way society is and raises the kids of this generation. I mean, when will it get to a point where just so many people are fed up and go back to the old school method of parenting? Way back then, it was okay and expected to discipline their kids. Now? Now parents are TERRIFIED to discipline their children. It makes me ill.
    Yes. I am. Aren't the parents teaching their kids any kind of moral values these day, not to mention sex education and common sense.

    How do I play hard to get, when I already made myself look like a psycho?

    Me and this guy went out, and then I started acting like a psycho when we broke up. Then a month of e being stupid we finally decided to meet up. I was acting normal, and I guess he was fallin for me again because ever since that he's been calling me more and sending me texts. Now I'm trying to play hard to get, because I havent called him, unless I missed one of his cals. I also am busy now because I have a job and I go to school fulltime so idk. How can I make him think of me as this hard to reach girl now. Like when we met, he kept on trying to get like that with me and I told him no to sex, so I thinkthat makes him want me more.How do I play hard to get, when I already made myself look like a psycho?
    Looking to play a game with him does indeed make you look psycho. Why not try to be yourself and forget the games. If you like him then date him. If you don't then move on. As for using sex over him, that's manipulation. How would you feel if he manipulates you? Be a good person.How do I play hard to get, when I already made myself look like a psycho?
    Stop playing games. This is what messes up guys. If you like him then act like it. If not then drop him and find someone who you really care about.

    My friend is dating this girl that just might be using him...how can I help out?

    He's21 she's 17. The girl has had numerous sex partners in her young age and leads this boy on till no end. He and his friend double-dated a few days ago and she ignored him and talked to his best friend.



    He even seen her flirting but he's confused because she was drinking and doing drugs. She tells him she's falling in love with him also. Is he going to get hurt or is this girl just playing hard to get?My friend is dating this girl that just might be using him...how can I help out?
    i think he will get hurt if shes drinking and doing drugs then its likely she will end up in bed wit someone else why is he wil someone like that anyway? but i think when someone better or hotter comes along she will be gone i had a friend like that anyway tell him be careful and if theres a way u can prove shes playing him then tell him or if u just thinks she isMy friend is dating this girl that just might be using him...how can I help out?
    he is going to get hurt...but if he is in love with her nothing much you can do or ull end up losing a friend if u try to get in between it, trust me i speak from experience, instead what u need to do is tell him that u r concerned and that u care about him, and if he blows u off then u need to let him learn from experiences, but at least when it happens he'll know for future references that it was u who knew it before it happened and thus he will or rather should have more confidence and trust in u...good luck hun...oh and that girl seems like a ***** and a half...girls like her piss me off
    tell your friend what u think and what u know
    I don't really know how to say this but I would recommend sitting back and letting time tell. Hopefully he will see before its too late what is in front of him. But trying to give your two cents in only makes it worse. Just let your friend know that you are there for a ear and no judgement and hopefully he sees what is front of him. Good luck
    Obv she is a d-a-m-n hoe tell him to get rid of that crazy slut before he get aids.
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  • My friend is dating this girl that just might be using him...how can I help out?

    He's21 she's 17. The girl has had numerous sex partners in her young age and leads this boy on till no end. He and his friend double-dated a few days ago and she ignored him and talked to his best friend.



    He even seen her flirting but he's confused because she was drinking and doing drugs. She tells him she's falling in love with him also. Is he going to get hurt or is this girl just playing hard to get?My friend is dating this girl that just might be using him...how can I help out?
    i think he will get hurt if shes drinking and doing drugs then its likely she will end up in bed wit someone else why is he wil someone like that anyway? but i think when someone better or hotter comes along she will be gone i had a friend like that anyway tell him be careful and if theres a way u can prove shes playing him then tell him or if u just thinks she isMy friend is dating this girl that just might be using him...how can I help out?
    he is going to get hurt...but if he is in love with her nothing much you can do or ull end up losing a friend if u try to get in between it, trust me i speak from experience, instead what u need to do is tell him that u r concerned and that u care about him, and if he blows u off then u need to let him learn from experiences, but at least when it happens he'll know for future references that it was u who knew it before it happened and thus he will or rather should have more confidence and trust in u...good luck hun...oh and that girl seems like a ***** and a half...girls like her piss me off
    tell your friend what u think and what u know
    I don't really know how to say this but I would recommend sitting back and letting time tell. Hopefully he will see before its too late what is in front of him. But trying to give your two cents in only makes it worse. Just let your friend know that you are there for a ear and no judgement and hopefully he sees what is front of him. Good luck
    Obv she is a d-a-m-n hoe tell him to get rid of that crazy slut before he get aids.

    When is it a good idea to play hard to get?

    Ok so there is this girl I like. She already has a boyfriend but she's breaking up with him after she goes to a school banquet with him Thursday. I already know she likes me. Anyways we were talking the other night and she said something about not liking dating or relationships so I talked to her about it the next day and I told her how I liked her and wanted to be in a relationship with her after she broke up with her boyfriend and she didn't like relationships or dating so I was sad about it. So then she said she doesn't know if she likes dating or not and she likes me alot also and wouldn't be sneaking around with me behind her boyfriends back if she didn't and she said she wanted to he with me wether or not she says she doesn't like dating. So what does she mean by she wants to be with me? Should I play hard to get maybe? I don't know what to do but I want her to be in a relationship and like it lol so how would I do that? You girls love to play games so hopefully y'all can help me please :)When is it a good idea to play hard to get?
    when u kno fer sure he likes youu

    Name For Teen Girl Character?

    Okay so I posted questions about a lot of characters asking what names people thought would suit them. I got a lot of answers which were a lot of help but I'm having a lot of trouble picking the name for the following character. Below is the description and underneath is the list of names I've narrowed it down to from all the names I was given, as well as some other suggestions.



    This girl is strikingly beautiful - short %26amp; tiny with an hourglass figure, pale skin, wavy dark brown hair, big blue eyes %26amp; a small mouth. Her style resembles that of a London indie girl, although slightly different. She often wears things that catch people's eyes %26amp; are often quite skimpy, although she's not overly individual. She's half italian, half english, %26amp; lives with her parents and sibling. It sounds like a normal family, but in the past they've gone through a lot of bad rows, and her mum is suffering from something which affects her mentally. She can be clever if she tries, but somehow she just can't seem to care about education, so every lesson is a doss to her, she never does homework %26amp; always misses coursework deadlines. She hangs around with mostly guys, most of whom have fallen hard for her before, she's used to being looked at %26amp; is always getting chatted up. Everybody thinks she's mysterious, because she doesn't talk all that much and there's something about her which makes people want to figure her out. She's cripplingly shy, which is one of the reasons she's so quiet, although a lot of the time she simply doesn't want to waste her time with meaningless words. She's the kind of girl who is a mixture of sweet and mischievous. She loves reading, but she also loves partying and getting completely off her face, she loves unpredictability and ending up in random places. She always falls for bad boys who play girls around. She's hard to read, as she never lets her emotions show and keeps everything inside. She's scared of letting her guard down and showing her cards. It's like she always needs to be in control, so she doesn't trust anyone and is scared of getting close to anyone, scared to love. If something bad happens to her, she blocks the pain out because she just doesn't want to feel it anymore. She often feels like she wants to escape, to be somewhere else - she's quite lost and not always sure of what she wants. She loves big crowds of strangers, because it comforts her somehow, and she also loves being alone. Although she may seem lost and confused, she also has a lot of self-confidence, and she does what she wants (if she knows what she wants, that is) regardless of others, she's not gonna pretend to be interested in what someone's saying if she's not - she knows it's polite, but she just doesn't see the point. She is also a very sweet girl deep down, even though she tries to not to care about anything.



    Which name do you think suits her most out of:



    Alexia

    Ariana

    Tina

    Tia

    Carmen

    Josephine

    Blake

    Ava

    Lexy

    Gianna



    And what do you think about Keira or Talulah? How much do they suit her?



    Thanks, xName For Teen Girl Character?
    Out of the list I like Carmen the best. I actually know a girl pretty similar in appearance and she's got Italian ancesters, too who's called Carmen. I like Gianna, too, although it seems to be a bit too soft for such a strong personality. Tia would be my third favourite... it's got mystery but is also sweet. Ariana, Tina, Lexy and Talulah are a bit too girly in my opinion. I just don't like the names Alexia and Blake but that's just my taste. Keira is not bad, but I prefer it spelled Ciara. It has more of the Italian touch this way and it seems more mysterious. Other suggestions:



    Juliet

    Clara

    Sierra

    Willa

    Lorraine

    Lorelai

    Tessa (could be short for Teresa)

    Valerie

    Carolina (maybe Cara for short)

    Stella

    Laurel

    Jade/Jada/Jayda

    Romana (this is the name of my brother's ex girlfriend who's half Italian, could be Romy for short)



    hope this helps!Name For Teen Girl Character?
    I think that out of the names you personally suggested, that ';Gianna'; would be the best for your character. Or, for a different approach, you could use another gender-ambiguous name, like Avery or Julian.

    Hopefully this helps!
    Out of those names I think Carmen, Ava and Alexia suit her best, especially Carmen.

    I would suggest:

    Selena

    Dana (Day-nuh or Dah-nuh)

    Carmel

    Raine

    Raina

    Carmella

    Katya (Kar-tee-a)
    Ariana :)
    Jessica
    Ava
    i like lexy, ava and gianna
    Mary Sue.
    Ariana or Blake...



    keira sounds pretty cool too
    I think Lexy is a really cute name(:
    Maybe Blake?



    What about Dinah or Dana?

    How do play hard to get?

    I wouldn't have a problem with anything else becuase i'm a sweet, nice but confident and have goals and i know for a fact women like that but the problem is the 1st step and that is getting the girl. Like I want to play hard to get so the girl can be more intrested to me bascially a challenge. But the rest of the stuff i wouldn't have a problem with. So i need advice/feedback. Serious answers to by the way.How do play hard to get?
    1. Be flexible but not a pushover



    2. Create distance without going anywhere



    3. Give her what she wants but not in the way she expected



    4. Don't compete, outlast the competition



    5. Be totally open and upfront but keep raising questions in her mind and answering them: some right away, some later



    6. Be easily accessible but “out of reach”



    7. Stir the pot once in a while



    8. Work the imagination and tease all of her senses



    9. Initiate sexual contact when she least expects itHow do play hard to get?
    Guys playing hard-to-get is the worst thing to do. Women like aggressive men who know what they want. That's how you ultimately win. If you go around playing games, you'll only end up with phonies and disrespectful women. There is a way to not give too much in the beginning, but certainly don't make it a game. Give her ';teasers'; if you will. Look into her eyes, compliment her good looks, then walk away for a few minutes. Depending on the setting, offer her a drink, help with her books, or ask her something interesting, but pretty random that might apply to her. Then from there, just continue being yourself. If it's right she's gonna like you game or no game. Games just force you to wait longer to get the girl you want--if you aren't too late by then.
    even if you are interested...act like you arent interested....act like your busy when he wants to go out...if he really likes you hell like the challenge and youll keep him guessing...
    get drunk
    you shouldn't play hard to get, just don't be with anyone who just happens to walk by and finds you attractive.

    you need to see what they look like on the outside ( if they respect themselves enough to dress well) and on the inside (for their personality).
    ok if they are interested in u try to ignore them slightly if u r at a bar and a girl is next to u casually sit next to her but dont talk. and if she starts talking try like moans like hmm or yaa dont give a clear awnser then walk away for 10 mins or so and ask her some questions. dont expect this to work in 1 try though when ur persuing a chick it could take a coupple weeks just for her to want to date u



    hope it helped
    Girls really hate when guys play hard to get, but if you make yourself TOO availible, its like you are desperate. So, try to space out your dates. Dont hang out 3 days in a row... if you hung out with her one night, and the next night she calls and asks if you are doing anything, just tell her you have plans with your family or something... that will keep her interested and wanting you even more. But, dont be mean about it! If you ask for her number and she gives it to you, they always say dont call until a week later haha! DONT DO THAT! Just ask when it would be best to contact her and make a point to do so.. be dependable but not ALWAYS trying to talk to her

    GOOD LUCK!! =]
    When you play hard to get with a girl, she's going to lose interest. When a guy does that to me, I am like, screw it, I don't like playing games.



    Girls like guys that express what they want and they go for it.



    Don't play hard to get or you'll just end up loosing the girl. Trust me...

    How to Play fight With A Girl Who is My Friend?

    My Friend Play fights with me but im afraid of hitting her 2 hard and she actually gets hurt. How can I Get Over this fearHow to Play fight With A Girl Who is My Friend?
    dont hit hardHow to Play fight With A Girl Who is My Friend?
    be way more gentle then you normally would!!!!! and for pete's sake!!! dont you know not to hit girls? lol
    Sterotyping,Sexism......
    tickle her!!

    dnt punch her!!

    srry my spellin sux

    hehe

    I think i totally messed up! i'm in the friend zone and want OUT. [guys && girls help]?

    okay i always thought that when guys talked and were comfortable around one girl more than the other, then it meant they liked that girl that they could be open with.

    but recently learned that guys are more open/confident with girls that they consider ';just one of the guys';.



    so to get this one guy to be more interested in me, should i act more shy? and like not text him as much?

    i've heard that most guys hate it when girls play hard to get, %26amp;%26amp; i don't wanna cross the line between ';shy/cute/crushing'; and ';ignoring/playin hard to get';.



    so guys, would you think a girl friend of urs liked you if she suddenly started acting shy? how would you want her to act, and would you start to like her?



    girls, have you been in this situation and what did you do? how did things work out?



    please any input would help! thanks :)I think i totally messed up! i'm in the friend zone and want OUT. [guys %26amp;%26amp; girls help]?
    Honestly, what I find really attractive in a girl is when she is all over me. She wants my attention and she constantly wants to hang out with me. And that makes me feel emotionally closer to that girl and become more socially committed to her. When I discover that a girl needs my attention, I begin to yearn for hers also. Maybe your friends now, but I it doesn't seem like you're stuck in the friend zone. It's better to become friends first and get to know each other before entering into a hasty relationship. But yes, I definately think you have a chance. My preference in a girl though is this: when a girl shows devotion to me, I return the favor and find myself constantly thinking about her and just wanting to interact with her. Don't act shy, act confident, but definately don't play hard to get. Don't obsess over him openly by texting him too much, but portray your interest by texting him enough so that he realizes you would like to move your relationship up to a new level. Good luck and I hope everything works out the best for you.I think i totally messed up! i'm in the friend zone and want OUT. [guys %26amp;%26amp; girls help]?
    he prob likes it that way- and if he doesnt- he isnt for you . be yourself.. but guys dont really get it most times--- bring it to his attention soon and dont leave your feelings in the dark
    aw.. poor you, im really in the same boat and trying to wiggle out of it.



    Is there a situation that could bring about a time for the two of you to hang out alone... could you suggest it? (';hey, you know, we really connect. Would you maybe want to see a movie....there is 'such and such' that I'm dying to see.';)
    Tough, because the thing is being confident and cocky attracts girls right, and the guys who have the game figured out right will know this but guys who don't will be confident around their friends and attract them but screw up around the girls they like, so basically if you think he is the sorta guy who gets all the girls he wants he could be after you, but if he doesn't get the girls he wants your definately in the friend catagory, if you are then what you do is stop talking to him for 5-6 months, then be sexy and flirty and everything but if this screws up then you lose a friendship possibly
    I have always been aggressive when i see a guy i want i go for it. I feel i have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I have never been turned down, and a matter of fact most guys told me that it was a pleasant surprise. Girl, go get your man tell him how you feel and that you want him. Why play games?
    this is happening to me and i feel blown off like she doesnt want anything to do with me try another tactic text him even more and if he ask why you text him so much just come out with it



    (P.S) that sailor moon person is a freakshow
    okay ima guy and no you havent screwed up AT ALL!

    ok a few things.

    1.guys love the chase but dont make it too hard or hell give up.

    2.drop some hints along the way.

    3.when you feel comfortable enough ask him if he likes you.

    4.give friendly hugs WE LOVE IT!

    5.and dont be the one to end a conversation, if he likes u that will suck for him.

    6.hope this helps!
    dont nessicarily ignore him but being a little shy helps i knew this one girl kept giving me these signals and i would never catch on you know stupid but then she finally came out and said that she liked me but he could just be oblivious like i was if hes starting the text conversations than he probably likes you Good luck though
    Alright, last year around this time.. I liked this guy, and he liked me. but I was way too shy and he lost interest. don't be shy. i still like him...and he's lost interest. i'm trying hard to get over him. be yourself, i wish i would have done it from the beginning. ANYWAYS.

    you should start dropping hints to him. If he doesn't seem interested.. you need to forget it. and move on. If you dont make progress soon, you'll be right where I am. You don't want this girl.

    Good luck!
    All very excellent questions. First of all you need to be yourself before you do the shy thing. The reason is you need him to fall in love with the real deal. If you change yourself, the real deal will come along and he will leave you. Now, texting, don't!!! only text maybe once a day 2 times a week. Something like, ';hey handsome how you doing? just thinking of you, have a great day! : ) hugs Em'; that direct communication with no obligations, no confusion, non-threatening. Then if you really need to text more find some fun, good jokes, not more than twice a week. Always smile when you see him. be happy do happy things, your aura will attract him, and everyone else. If he bust the move set your boundaries, hand holding only for 2 weeks, holding 1 week more, than kissing, on and on. OK email me if you need more help. Best wishes Emerald
    You're over analyzing it. If a woman wants out of the ';friends zone'; all she has to do is flirt. There's no way you'll get a harsh, shutdown type rejection like a guy might get.
    Just be yourself. Don't change your call or text patterns because he will start to think you have a problem with you. Just tell him how you feel and see what he says. Don't put yourself out there too much though, you don't want him to think he has power over you. Don't inflate his ego.
    gee to be young again, as young as you guys, talk with your eyes first, maybe make sure you look directly into his eyes and keep him there for a few seconds more and do it with just your ordinary conversations he will take notice this way you don't have to put yourself into any uncomfortable sistuation and see was happens after you start doing that

    Girls help! Is she playing hard to get or lost interest in me?

    so i went on a date with this girl on tuesday, it was a fun date and we got to know each other and we had some flirting and teasing and she seemed to response well to it (hitting me playfully, etc.). So it seemed like she had fun. So I called her this morning (thursday), she didn't answer, but she called back 3 hrs later. so i asked her if she wanna get together again this weekend, then she went on to talk about how she want to catch the boxing game on HBO and chat with me about boxing and how she seemed him fight before for how many rounds and stuff.. casual chatting, anyway then she said her friend and she will probably catch the game on HBO(which is true, it's not like an excuse or anything) and but said ';maybe'; on sunday she can do it. so we casually chatted for 5 minutes.

    Is the girl still interested in me? or am I just thinking too much about that? What's the best way to find out?? If she doesn't call me on friday or saturday to make plans, should i call and make plans for sunday?



    i heard from people that said girls would make time/excited to make plans with you if she's truly interested instead of a maybe, but i also hear girls love playing hard to get.. im so confused.Girls help! Is she playing hard to get or lost interest in me?
    u should ask her if she wants to see the fight at ur house or if u could go over there and if she makes up another excuse she isnt interested.



    =]



    i love when girls play hard to get it makes the chase so much better..Girls help! Is she playing hard to get or lost interest in me?
    Just wait and see.

    Be Patient..
    Hard to get.

    Be patient, don't worry. Everything will be fine. Peace out man!!!! :)
    nope she wants u
    she wants you to be in charge =D she is playing hard to get just tell her staright up =D hahahaha
    i hate when girls do this just her call you from now on and if she doesnt then move onn but obviosly she is interested even a little if she called u back :)
    You are thinking about it wayyyyy to much. and if she doesnt call text her or call her and ask her whats up. Also sometimes girls flake out on plans with guys even if they like them.
    Each girl is different. I personally wouldn't play hard to get. Yes, if she's not making an excuse or anything, don't lose hope! Try and make another date with her on Sunday or something. If you are still wondering if she's in to you or not, just ask her!
    I either think she's just playing hard to get or she actually had a good time but doesn't want to be in that kind of a relationship right now. Sorry if this isn't much help.
    Sorry but I don't think she likes as much as you like her. I think you should move on.
    Even though you like this girl, you seem to be a little clingy, just wait and see what happens, its not like you guys are going out, and while your waiting it won't hurt to talk to other girls..
    she probably REALLY likes boxing. you can't blame her for that right? Anyways, there's gna be more weekends and you can still talk and stuff. If she really wasn't intereested in you, it would have been kinda obvious. Yeah, your thinking ahead to much. Just go with the flow...
    You have probably heard the saying that patience is a virtue too. Well, it really is. You are allowing yourself to jump to way too many conclusions. 1 date does not mean that you are going to get married or that she has got to be tied down to you. Give her some space, %26amp; things will work them selves out. If you smother her she will run away. Slow down, relax, %26amp; breathe. Talk to her on monday %26amp; tell her that you are interested in another date %26amp; she can choose. Let her know that she has options, so that she doesn't begin to feel smothered.

    Why do guys try to play hard to get and how do i get back at him?

    My best friend (for a few years) and I have recently fallen head over heels for each other - we were not expecting this at all - we truly care and adore each other but we decided that right now is not a good time in our lives to have that serious relationships we long from each other. He's been STRESSED with financial/schoo/work - as for me too but we're still great friends.





    I heard that SOME guys will play hard to get with the girl so that the next time the girl sees them, she'll ';miss him'; and want him more - flirtier. I notice with this guy is that he'll say ';you need to get over me'; yet he'll initiate the moves and his actions show that he REALLY wants to be with me. Then after we'll ';get close';, he'll ';limit'; himself but not completely avoid me. I'm confused - i thought he didn't want a relationship right now - i thought he wanted something serious for later? and why did he say that we needed to get over each other?





    What do i do? Play hard to get back and see wht he does?Why do guys try to play hard to get and how do i get back at him?
    Its a game, it has been since the dawn of humans. Its not a game of logic, although logic can be a weapon.





    Don't think about this too much. Also if you want to be in a relationship just do it. Theres no such thing as the right timing for a relationship.





    That ';you need to get over me'; comment- it depends the tone and context in which it is said. It sounds as if he said it without being very serious- that is just playing. Its VERY immature. But there you go, the game of love is often immature.





    Don't play anything. You will just twist yourself up. You don't sound like the game playing type. That thing about making people miss you-- I think its only wise to like give people time to think after a date for example- you know if you call the next day it takes the excitement away a little.





    Just be straight up. He is probably just insecure about you and hence the game playing. In fact if I were you I would just lay it out for him and be quite earnest. He won't want to play you then and he will take you very seriously as a possible partner. Think about it, do you want someone in the long run who plays games? No its just part of the mating ritual





    Good luckWhy do guys try to play hard to get and how do i get back at him?
    i say grow up and find a mature relationship
    This guy isn't worth your time, and you're not ready for a serious bodyfriend. Next.
    thats it you play the game to .let him have it good
    Sounds like he is scared of it. Show him it wont bite. Kidding. Really he may be a virgin. Some guys are scared.
    Not worth your hassle. If he's seriously interested in you - he'll get the message and play less hard =\
    read this: www.sosuave.com. this will give u a glimpse of his mental state. it's a site for men, hod to play games with women. after reading it any man is an open book for me. very very useful tips about those dumb men
    iv heard that too. some guys try to play the silly game ';hard to get';. most of the guys that i have liked in the past don't play the silly game. i have also heard that they look at the female a lot so then she will start liking them. and that actually does work for me. not on all guys though. but maybe he is trying to resist you with his sentience ';we need to get over each other';
    Well if it's not going anywhere now anyway, I say let him be a jerk, and if he feels like being nice then be friends. In the meantime, try finding some new BF material-- someone more MATURE. Friend lovers never seem to work out, I'm sorry this is so frustrating... Good luck!!!
    Grown ups don't play games. Real men don't play hard to get either. This guy is messing with your head. He probably likes you but I think he thinks you like him a bit more than he likes you so, he's got some control and he's loving it. He can make moves without any expectations from you because that's how he's got it set up.





    No man will put off a realtionship (ie sex!) because of work, etc. If they like you, they'll figure out a way to fit the realtionship into their life. That's just common sense. This guy doesn't want a realtionship. He wants to string you along and so far, it's working.





    Your best bet is just to keep it on a friend level. Take his advice and get over him. He's saying that for a good reason. Like I said before, he thinks your feelings are stronger for him than his are for you and he's trying to tell you that's he going to let you down. He knows exactly what he's doing so, don't think he's confused.





    If you want this stuff to continue, don't change a thing. If you want things to change, you need to put a stop to his fickleness. You can do that by stopping his little moves before they get started. Set up boundaries and keep them.





    If you really can't tell him no because you think he'll stop liking you or something, stop hanging out with him altogether. I can tell you, he's not going to wake up one day and decide he wants to be with you. He's already made up his mind and right now, he's just playing with you head. You deserve better than that. He might be a good friend but, he's a lousy person. If he cared for you, he wouldn't be confused and playing games. You either like someone or you don't. He doesn't like you enough to stop being a douchebag so, stop it for him. Find someone who is mature and doesn't play headgames. Good luck!
    for me, act normal. u know the way u treat him like a friend. coz let say if he is being sweet and u also respond more than that, its like he's making a temp check if u still like him. in some way, u r making urself too available for his comfort. probably he said that line just to confuse u more. just act normal and when he's being overly romantic or way too sweet/flirty ignore it. ignore meaning u dont have to respond on the same way. probably acknowledge the action but no need to act the same way.
    What makes you think you're ready for the hassle he's gonna be. He is obviously impressed with himself, and with you considerably less.





    Tell him to cut the crap because he knows he loves the attention. Tell him this train's getting ready to pull out of this station. So, if he's gonna get onboard, he better make up his mind before its too late.
    Tell him ';I really look forward to the day when we can have a real relationship, because I'll be able to do much more of this.'; Then grab him and kiss him. Then walk away.





    THAT will change the game ...

    How can a guy play hard to get?

    i was playing hard to get with this girl but how can i play hard to get but also make sure she knows i like herHow can a guy play hard to get?
    You can start out hard to get. But its best not to play games. Usually it's the guy that does the chasing so you can end up being TOO hard to get. Its better to just relax and see if she seems to want to be around you. if so just go with it. If not then no big deal and no big waste of energy.How can a guy play hard to get?
    ughhh no games!! just be flirty but not like uber flirty to the point where you seem like obsessive.
    umm, only girls play hard to get sry.
    and ignore her a bit

    How do I not let him get bored with me? Hard to get?

    I know some boys think it's annoying when girls try and play hard to get. But, he's such a great guy and I don't want him to get sick of me easily. and I mean from what I've heard he's a player. Should I play hard to get? I mean we've only texted and we're making plans to hang out, but he already calls me baby and flirts with me and stuff. What should I do?

    I don't want him to be done with me already!How do I not let him get bored with me? Hard to get?
    Well, flirt back! Call HIM babe or baby. You should call him and say ';Hey baybee!'; lol my friend does it and it works.

    You gotta FLIRT girl. Make eye contact with him and either wink or grin. Maybe put your arm around him, oh and don't forget to tease him a little, joke around. And show that you're confident! When you guy's hangout wear something cute, a skirt and a top would be just fine!

    Good luck!
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  • Playing hard to get by a girl?

    okay, i know this girl on msn,

    and i THOUGHT that she was interested in me

    since couple of weeks ago.



    I got her email so i added her on msn. She was the first

    one to me to talk on msn by saying ';hi who are you???';

    Then I told her that it was me from schoo and so on,

    and soon she started asking something like how are you,

    what courses do u have and those talks. Then couple of minutes after

    i logged off.

    I tried to speak to her the second day on msn when she came online

    by asking for hw in intention to start up a conversation. Her response took somethign like

    2 - max 5 min, so i concluded that i was wrong about her liking me

    and that she's probably annoyed by me.

    BUT every single time she would answer me, she would never end the convo with something like

    k, or thats cool; she responded to stuff that I didnt even ask her, and she always tried to keep the convo alive by asking ME further questions.



    Is this playing hard to get?? WOW girls are so complicated :'(Playing hard to get by a girl?
    wow you just think wayyyyyyy to much lol.Playing hard to get by a girl?
    were not complicated ;) its just hard to figure us out



    yeaah it sounds like she is playing hardd to gett



    Minee?



    http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>



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    Why do people play 'hard to get' ?

    This goes towards both guys and girls.

    Why do you play hard to get..



    Sometimes it's real easy to tell when you like someone, or if someone likes you. If you both like each other, why do you play hard to get.. (This doesn't go out to everyone, It's just what I've noticed) Like there will be a girl who likes this guy, and she'll always talk within the group with him in it, start laughing at his funny remarks, and then he'll completely ignore her. But then on other days he'll be the one to flirt, and smile with her and she'll be the one to just smile and ignore him. Even online, I've noticed it's always girls that start the convos, but then automatically reply.. it's kind of funny how this world works? Isn't it?Why do people play 'hard to get' ?
    I guess it's just human nature, we always want what we can't have.Why do people play 'hard to get' ?
    Thank you. :-)

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    yes
    yurp

    and its fun to play hard to get cuz u can see how far a guy will go

    to get to go out with u =]
    for fun
    I know I play hard to get sometimes when I want to see how much effort the guy is willing to put towards talking to me/giving me attention... haha it sounds bad when I put it that way. But its really just so I can make sure he's attracted =]
    yea its a cycle of revenge

    i ignore her cuz maybe i had a bad day

    she ignores me the next time

    in return, i ignore her the time after that

    jst goes on n on n on
    I play hard to get only when a girl plays it at me.

    This girl really confuse me. Does she like me?

    I really like this girl and I think she likes me too, because she started flirting with me and she approached to me first and sat this semester next to me when she used to seat away. When she talks to me and looks at me she seems to be interested, we do all exercises together in class and she gave me a ride the other day and it was fun. But after the weekend she now ignores me and avoids me even in class. It's confusing because girls sometimes play hard to get, test how interested we guys are or they don't want to encourage us. What do you girls think of this and what do you do when you like someone. Am I misinterpreting her actions?This girl really confuse me. Does she like me?
    HECK YA!!!!! she gave u attention but u didnt return it

    i think tat she mad at u for sum reason

    maybe she thinks tat u were going to ask her out on the ride but u didnt (very guyish) and now she thinks tat u dont care and she's probally very confused fite now

    ask her out

    now

    b4 shes taken

    jus say 'hey, i think ur mad at me and i think i no y'

    she'll probally say 'y do u think im mad at u'

    you: 'tat doesnt matter, but i really want u to go out wit me. will u?'

    or sum thing lik tat

    This girl really confuse me. Does she like me?
    She showed that she was interested in you. Did you show you were interested in her? Maybe she thought you weren't interested in her and she gave up. You have to show her you are interested in her.
    well im thinking she did like u but she likes someone else know cuz shes avoiding u.
    She showed she liked you and no reply.Show her some love.Ill bet she still has feelings.

    She likes you if

    *her pupils get larger around you

    *she points her feet towards you

    *she mimics your movement

    *doesn't move when you touch

    *blinks more

    *licks her lips more

    *(sometimes) flicks her hair

    Note:she doesn't know she's doing these and can't control them.