How do you play hard to get, when really all you want is affection from your girl?

We're 30 and love each other, but affection has been a problem with us... I always want to show affection and be close while she is always pulling back... I have told her she is so beautiful, she knows I am turned on by her, I have told her I want to be able to cuddle in bed, and we have even practiced cuddle positions that we both like. Now I feel like she does these things just becasue I have asked and not becasue she wants to. I want to see and feel her want me. I have to play hard to get but don't know where to start. What do I have to do?How do you play hard to get, when really all you want is affection from your girl?
Just read what you mentioned in your question, that's why playing hard to get isn't such a good idea. It just gives the girl the wrong idea.



Doing that may give mixed results, one of them may be that she may think you no longer like her and you're trying to find someone to replace her.



I really think she likes you, but probably is shy so you might need to take full responsibilty of being the guide and escorting her through the relationship.