Theres this girl i like, who likes me back but enjoys playing hard to get with me. We're very compatible and have gotten to know each other (about three weeks now) and are both freshman in college in a big change of scenary. Anyways, i signed up for a 5k run and another girl who seems to like me asked me to go to the 5k with her, which was fine, until, when i got there, the girl playing hard to get was behind us with her friends. As we registered, the girl i was with couldnt get a tshirt but i could and said i wanted a womens small tshirt just to give it to her. The girl playing hard to get saw this and looked really distraught, like she looked right into my eyes and kinda just stood there after being really talkative. I mean i kind of feel bad, because im not really that kind of guy, and i pretty much let her know i already like her(the girl playing hard to get). so what should i do? just talk to her like nothing happened or ask her how she liked the race or what? i hope i didnt screw things up big timeWhat to do with this girl playing hard to get? 10 points to best answer?
relax.. this probably worked in your favor
seeing you with the other girl would have made her jealous and also realize that you aren't going to sit around waiting for her to make a move, so she should do something soon, that maybe that she'll be more open to you doing something next time you see her
I'd chat to her like nothing happened, flirt with her a bit so she knows you're still into her a bit... but not too much
relax.. you'll only screw it up by being TOO interested and adding too much weight to any one event/sms/email/action etc.. just relax.. and carry on as normal and flirt a littleWhat to do with this girl playing hard to get? 10 points to best answer?
ask her out! I mean she's playing hard to get. If you ask her out she'll forget about everything and if she asks you why you went with another girl just tell her. Act like nothing happened because nothing really did happen you went to a run with a friend. No big deal. And ask her if she liked it. Play it cool and casual.
Even though this sounds cliche, and as if it wont work, just be very clear with her about what was going on. Explain yourself. If she's worth the chase (As long as is doesn't draw out. Women usually play hard to get at first to seem busy/motivated with other things-trying to be more attractive as opposed to just sitting around always there for you.) she'll listen. If she wants to hear none of your reasoning then your chances may have been eliminated.
To her it seems like you've been insensitive of her feelings by hanging out with another girl- especially when you're not dating yet. She'd expect you to have her be a priority this early on. However, that's just a generalization: I don't know her specific personality, so she could be feeling very different than how I'm guessing.
I wouldn't suggest talking to her like nothing happened. In my experience communication has served to be beneficial. I'd say you should eventually talk to her about the race, and explain in a non-defensive manner why you were there, and ask her why she seemed so distraught. You defiantly don't want her to think you feel guilty, or she'll think your intentions were bad, but you also want to be prepared to make a sincere apology for her feelings if they were hurt.
I hope it works out for you! :)
This is kind of what she gets for trying to play hard to get..
i know alot of girls are told to play hard to get to get their guy. but it doesn't work all of the time =P
you should try talking to her, unless shes like, super mad at you.. but maybe the girl that you went to the 5k with also likse you..This is a tough situation because you wouldn't want to hurt any of their feelings. You should appologize to the girl who was playing hard to get though =/ lol, tell her to stop playing hard to get, cuz it's not getting her anywhere, lol.
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go up to her and tell her that you don't like the other girl but she asked you to run with her and you said yes because you were already running anyway then ask her out
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