Friday, October 22, 2010

A male friend of mine is suddenly starting to act like a girl playing hard to get ?

I know that he always had trouble meeting women but this time he is strange. Any idea how I can deal with him. No funny answers please.A male friend of mine is suddenly starting to act like a girl playing hard to get ?
Sounds like he's been reading one of those how to pick up women books slash websites. Its called game theory and it involves acting in strange ways towards woman to create attraction. Check out The Game - Penetrating the world of pickup artists by Neil Strauss for more info.A male friend of mine is suddenly starting to act like a girl playing hard to get ?
ok.
give some more details sally
i would answer, but it would be funny, so...
Be aware...first sign of coming out of the closet!
Just have a new friend.
Tell him to stop being such an idiot.
talk to him, if hes your true friend he won't be offended by anything you may have to say and if you are his true friend you will not say anything to offend him. Just come out with it.
just tell him straight out how you feel about it. he'll appreciate your honesty, and most people like to know when others think they are acting strange. i know guys really don't like to talk about how they feel, but sometimes you just gotta put the stereotypes away and say something.
Maybe he's just shy.

If he's playing hard to get, which you already said he was, just let him chill by himself for a little while. Maybe he should do one of those things online, a ';compatibility quiz'; or something so he might know what type of girl he's looking for.

DESCRIBE YOUR FRIEND AND HOW HE'S PLAYING ';HARD TO GET'; then I can write a better answer. If it's really strange, maybe he is going through some trauma, such as a family member dying or he broke up with his girlfriend recently. It seems like maybe he thinks girls like guys who play ';hard to get'; because believe me, they don't. Maybe you should try telling him to talk to the wall, or a picture of a future girlfriend. Ask him to talk to the picture so he's not so shy in person. Maybe you should set him up on a blind date, or a double date, because if he's shy and ';hard to get'; maybe it will unravel if he is with you (his friend).



Also (do not be offended) he might be coming out of the closet, maybe he likes men? If not read above... but if he's not gay, maybe he's depressed. Open up and talk, talk, talk!!! Even though guys don't ';talk'; like girls do, talk to him... maybe have a guys night out.



Good luck!
Yep, he's shy, go talk to him.
Don't allow him to act girly, get him a female date, and threaten to beat him up if he declines a goodnight kiss...from the female date...Not you.

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