Is this a case of girl playing hard to get?

How would you interpret this situation. I'll make a very long story, short. Boy meets girl, asks her out, she accepts but cancels at last moment. Boy keeps in touch with girl, calls again to ask, again she declines, boy asks if persistance is good and she said in his case, yes. She tried to call boy on a few occasions, expect he missed them, calls back and texts but no response. Boy moves on and keeps distance but still misses thinking what could have should have been. Girl runs into boy's coworker at her job and asks about boy?



Is she interested? How should I reconnect with her? Thanks. I thought maybe she wasn't into me but why would she ask about me, then?Is this a case of girl playing hard to get?
There are a couple of different explanations that I can think of in this case. I really don't see why she would have asked about you if she didn't still think about you, so that tells me that she's probably interested in you still.

What makes me wonder is that she kept canceling dates and then saying no. She might have had valid reasons that had nothing to do with you, but only you can know what kind of vibe you got from her on those occasions. Then she told you that, in your case, persistence was good. That does sound like what I'd call ';playing hard to get.'; But I haven't actually known any women who intentionally did that. When we like a guy, we generally don't want to scare him away by being over-eager but most of us are also aware that if we act like we don't want you around, you'll move on. So why did she say no to an actual date while encouraging you to keep on trying? I don't know. Maybe she wasn't quite sure herself what she wanted? Meaning that she just didn't know how to proceed but didn't want to lose you while she decided. Which, by the way, would not be a very nice thing to do. Another option is that she had lost interest and found it easier to make excuses instead of just telling you the truth. So when you confronted her with it she still didn't feel comfortable saying that it wasn't going to happen and instead told you what she thought you wanted to hear. Without committing to anything.

The part about her first trying halfheartedly to call you back and then just not calling you after that is what leads me to believe that, at that point in time at least, she wasn't interested.

But then she went and asked about you later! She is definitely NOT making this easy for you! All in all, my guess would be that she is not that clear on what she wants herself. Everything she does points in different directions, and you're right to be confused. If you care about her a lot I'd consider it worth a shot to look her up again, as long as you remember to not get too attached until you figure it out.Is this a case of girl playing hard to get?
Oh she's interested !
This could really go either way. She may really only be into you as a friend, or she might like you %26amp; is just too shy once it comes to actually dating.



Sounds like you've still got a chance.



Good luck %26lt;3
She is not interested. If she were, she would have accepted the past four times.
hmm, maybe she's just being friendly? or maybe she knew your co-worker would tell you to start up this big roller coaster again? only you can find out!
%26gt; Girl runs into boy's coworker at her job and asks about boy? %26lt;



%26gt; Is she interested? %26lt; '@@' ! (more than likely then ....if she 'asked')



%26gt; How should I reconnect with her? %26lt; How many options have you?



Use them.

Sash.
I'd say she is interested... It's definitely worth atleast giving her another call and leave a message if she does not pick up. If she doesn't return your call... Then that's just rude and she is probably not worth it or she is seeing someone else.
i dont think shes playing hard to get. Girls sometimes want what they cant have, and when its there, they dont want it. She cares but i think she just wants what she cant have, make your self seem more unavailable and if she doesnt act upon that, shes probaly not worth your time and just screwing with your mind. Dont let girls do that to you, be smarter and coach the game, dont play it.
yup i agree

start texting her again? ask her show she has been doing an that
Maybe she was choosing between you and someone else, and chose the other person at first, then when things didn't work out became more interested in you. She doesn't really sound like she's worth the effort anyhow.
she seems to be a bit confused in the beginning, girl trouble, maybe..

but anyway, if she asks about you, it's worth another try, if you really like her..!

you should contact her, in any way you can..! go for it, what have you got to loose..!?

good luck!
she's a hoe!!!!!cancelling at the last minute? That's the oldest trick in the book. She might f'uck u but she might also b ***** other guys