What do you do when a girl is playing hard to get big time?? play back or go with it?

i think this girl i like at school is playin hard to get with me big time! but im not sure if she is playin or really doesnt like me. here are the signs or behaviors



-sometimes she gives me a long romantic hug, and pays attention to me. other times she will literally walk away with her friends while im right there without saying bye.



-i txt her and we talk for awhile then she doesnt txt back



-she puts smiley faces when i compliment her or sometimes just talk to her



-she always says yes when i ask her to hang out and once even suggested i go with her somewhere but always blows me off or doesnt answer my txts/calls at last minute(same day as plans)



-my friend told her i had a thing with her weeks before. he said she just smiled and said i guess ill txt him, but never did..



-walks bye me alot, but never says hi. even when i check her out as shes walking by



ok i really want to know what to do here. if shes playin hard to get. do i play back? or do i go with it? and how do i do it? what signs do i look for that can tell me if she wants me to play back or she doesnt like me or what? plz help me. thanksWhat do you do when a girl is playing hard to get big time?? play back or go with it?
That isn't just playing hard to get. Sounds like she is playing with you and being a b. i. t. c. h!

Leave her behind and find someone better.

I'm a girl, I know the difference.What do you do when a girl is playing hard to get big time?? play back or go with it?
she is being stuck up. it can go both ways.
look, im not gonna lie, i do this too. i flirt without even knowing. like we're trying to be nice. but mayb she does have intrest in you. dont text her and see if she ever texts you. if not, then idk dont stress it too much, youll be fine :)
she's just not that into you
I was in the exact same situation several months ago.

She is acting like a ***** and isn't worth your time. I know it is hard to but you have to move on and hope that she realizes what could have been.
grow up

she owns youj

there are a million nice girls out in the world one is looking for you to find her
Games are best left to the X-box, dear. Don't play these games unless of course, you like it.



If not, then just ignore her and find a nicer girl who will give you the time of day. Trust me,you don't want to waste precious weeks or months on a tease you'll never have
haha im a girl and i find it really fun to tease guys... whenever you get a chance, keep her to where you can see her out of the corner of your eye. if she appears to be looking at you, look over, and and give a wussup nod. if you catch her looking at you excessively, she wants you, but wants to have fun, so dont like ask her out or anyhting.. just play back.. keep flirting, and tell her she's hot. if she doesn't look at you though, you probably mean just as much as any other dude that walks by.. OH AND DONT BE ANNOYING!!!!
Girls hug longer than boys a lot of times, and if your friends, it depends on what you think is ';romantic'; against her opinion.



If you just put ';lol'; ';yeah'; before she quit texting you, then you killed the conversation. She might have been busy, hanging with friends, homework, or another guy, you can never be too careful.



She sounds like she's totally blowing you off, if she cancels and ignores you, that's not very nice at all. It sounds like she knows you like her, and now she's scared to hang out because she feels like you're better off as friends.



I put smileys in a lot of text messages, sometimes just cause I'm in a good mood. That doesn't mean anything.



If she walked away not in a rush or anything and didn't tell you bye, it's because, either she didn't want to be embarrassed in front of her friends, or she doesn't like you.



First of all, you can't check a girl out and expect her to fall in love. You have to use your voice. Girls fall in love through what they hear. It could be embarrassing to her if you're checking her out at school.



Just ask her in person how she feels about you, that you feel like she has been flirting, and you just want to straighten things out. Don't ruin a friendship!!!! Also, don't tell your friend to go ask her, or ask her friend, this is between you and her. If you're wrong it's better for it to be a trust thing between you two, then the whole world. Hope this helped.
I think she doesn't like you, she ignores you because she doesn't know how to react and doesn't want it to be akward. Girls like giving hugs, i still dont understand why though, but they do it a lot. She responded to your friend like that because she didn't want to say something to hurt your feelings or something that would make you like her more.