Thursday, October 28, 2010

How do you play ';hard-to-get'; with a girl. 10 points!?

How do you play hard-to-get with a girl and keep the interested. I want to do it to the point to keep her interested (as I said) but not too much to look like a jerk.How do you play ';hard-to-get'; with a girl. 10 points!?
Sit near her in class, stike a conversation, but don't sound to eager about it. Make sure she notices you, but don't give too much about your self away. Try and let her do the question asking.

Glance around the room. Then continue what you were doing. Maybe she will ask you what you were looking for. Then try to come up with a witty response.

Start talking to her and try to be laid back and cool when around her. Try not to get nervous or fidgety. Show her that you feel comfortable around her.

Don't fall for someone who has a boyfreind! That is 100% off limits to you. Unless they broke up, back off.

Don't hug her. Instead, be smiley---a quick smile in the hallway or somewhere, but that's it. Say ';hi'; to her occasionally, but not every time you see her!

Talk about general things. Like homework, school, etc. And when you get to know each other you can move on to thing about her. Like ask what she likes to do on weekends. Wait a bit before answering.

Remember to always be yourself, and have confidence in yourself. Don't try too hard.

If she doesn't ask you out, then ask her out yourself! Remember, confidence is key. Maybe sit by her on the bus or catch up with her on the walk home, and ask her what she is doing this weekend. Then maybe ask if she wants to see a movie or something.

If you think it's a bit awkward to be alone with her, or you are too nervous to go there, then invite some friends, and her friends, bowling or something, and invite her too! When you get more comfortable with her then you two could go on a date together, alone.

Take these things slowly, don't go telling your friends right away, after all, publicity can ruin relationships.

Have patience, when things go too fast they could end up... well, ended.

If she asks you to hang out, say no the first few times. If she stops asking, then approach her.How do you play ';hard-to-get'; with a girl. 10 points!?
Don't do that. That's mean. She'll think you're giving her mixed signals and then eventually move on to someone who won't waste her time.



Shame on you! :/

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