How should I play hard to get with this girl?

This girl likes me a lot (has said it and acts like it). But I ask her to be my girlfriend and she says she's not ready for that kind of relationship (I don't think she wants to be tied down like that yet). We talk often, but lately it seems like I have to be the one to start the conversation. Should I wait for her to start the conversation? And should I not be as close as we were before so that she'll realize what she's missing?How should I play hard to get with this girl?
no don't play hard to get that will make the girl mad. and i think you should just lay off and stuff and when she is ready for the commitment then she will come to you and tell you.How should I play hard to get with this girl?
well he shudnt. thats a really girly thing to do.
just go up and talk with her on occasion so that way you to be not ignoring her. let her be the one to come up to you the most. please answer mine:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
dont call as much (once a week)....when you see her start a conversation but if she starts giving one word answers then jus stop talking and if you jus pass her in the hallway speak to her and keep it moving. let her see you talking to other girls, not flirting but jus friendly conversation...playing hard to get is girly in some situations but sometimes guys have to, girls lose interest if you show them you like them too much...they feel like your feelings arent genuine
keep talking and be close and nice to her! goodluck!
Actually, she's the one playing hard to get.



That said, why do you want her? She sounds like she can't make a decision - or else she's a sadistic mind-assassin (someone who plays with people's heads just for fun).



I'd move on to a nicer, sweeter, more open gal than this one. Toss her to the curb.
dont play hard to get just keep talking she may not be a talker. you should wait fore her to say something or just tell her how you feel.
No. I'm a girl and hate it when people do that. She won't know if you're ready or not, and will think you're messing with her feelings. Let me just establish something: If she says she's not ready, she's not ready! You can't change that! Don't wait for her to start the conversation, because she might not bother. Talk about things you're BOTH interested in, not just things you like or she likes. Because you might not know anything about what she likes. Stay like you were before.

Hope I helped!

Beenie :)
If this female has said that she likes you and acts like it but doesn't want to actually BE your girlfriend, then she's either too young to be dating or is suffering from some kind of emotionally stunted growth.



So, depending on her age, either wait for her to grow up, or dump her.
Don't call her and don't text her, try to talk to her as little as possible. when she calls you, be busy and tell her that.