A question for guys who can play a girl? girls can answer too.?

i started talking to this guy online and on the phone that i knew thru a friend. he would call constantly and go online more than he ever did to talk to me. we spoke for hours at a time everyday. i thought he really liked me. when we finally went out we had a great time and he said how he liked me soo much and was doing things like kissing my forehead and holding my hand. we were getting along great and talked alot. by the end of the night he was kissing me and started touching and stuff but i kept moving his hand away. after that night he seemed distant and didnt wanna talk to me. he finally told me that he didnt want a relationship bc he had **** to deal with and he had no time for a girl. did he dump me bc i didnt go that far with him? if he was a real player, wouldnt he have tried a little harder to get into my pants? perhaps see me again and not blow me off the way he did? if he had no time why did he go out with me in the first place?A question for guys who can play a girl? girls can answer too.?
You know what, we don't know whether or not he was trying to get in your pants. We do know, because you told us, that you were discouraging whatever it was that he was trying to do. That is a game not many men want to waste their time playing. He didn't dump you, you made what ever he thought you might be too difficult to attain. He did not get the feedback from you that would make whatever relationship he was looking for worthwhile. It is ok for you to set rules for touching, but just shoving his hand away or ';playing'; hard to get without also letting him know where you stand--i.e. that you do have an interest in him, will lead him to conclude that a relationship with you will always be a struggle to have a relationship. I don't think he dumped you because you didn't go as far as he wanted, I think he dumped you because you sent mixed messages that were too damn hard to figure out. No man wants to work hard when he feels rejection is in the works.A question for guys who can play a girl? girls can answer too.?
He just cant stand the fact you rejected his advances.



A true player(like myself for instance) knows when to advance and when to hold back....trust me on this one...the stallion knows this all too well:) The guy is pissed off and this happened for a reason. Move on and dont worry about it
he might have been embarrassed or something...



or it could have been that he thought you were easy and then wasnt interested when you were more than that...





the best way to know would be to ask him..



best of luck
If he isn't as pretty as you he was probably shocked and thought no way I would ever get this chic in real life. So he tried to charm and see if he could get the goods. When he failed it affirmed his suspicions. He'll move on and find someone else to play.
He's a player alright . . . a quicktime player. He knows he's not all that . . . in person. He's able to wax philosophical through the safety of his keyboard, but when it comes to one on one he's lost, or worse only has one thing on his mind. If he doesn't get what he want quick and easy, he's movin on to the next. Playin the numbers game. sooner or later he'll get what he's after . . . . trust me . . . he will
maybe youre ugly and werent worth wasting too much time with
Sadly, you found out that the only thing he wanted from you was sex. It wouldn't have mattered if you would have had sex with him or not, he would have been done with you and on to the next girl. Be happy you are done with him. This happens many times with internet relationships. Stick to dating guys that live in your city.
he tried to get in your pants and when he saw that u wrent having it he stoped , trust ,me he is a player , a real player views it like this i try u say no ,thats ur loss i will try wit someone else later no big deal,why put time in if u are not gonna get anywhere thats how its viewed , remember what u wont do someone else will mayb faster,sorry u had to get gased up by the guy, atleast u found out he was not what he tried to be.
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Many of your own questions you already knew the answers. You were lucky you were not humped and dumped like many girls before you. Sadly many people see all the signs, they just hope they are not seeing what they are seeing, or try to convince themselves it is something different. He has time to call you up ALL THE TIME, before the date, and even have time to take you out. Then when he gets no nookie, he all of a sudden has no time and don't want a relationship? He was playing you had. After you rebuffed him, he was trying to play like he really did not want you to make you feel as if YOU were being rejected as not good enough and beg for the chance to prove you are worthy(and hopefully by hopping on your back naked like many others) He did not put in more effort because there are a whole city of stupid gullible girls who would be on their back and out of their clothes if he said the 3 majic words; ';I love you'; What IS there to be cionfused over? He was just trying to make you that night's booty call.
sorry u got played. good for you though!!!
Yes he was just trying to get some. But it's cool. Better to find out now rather than in some other sleazy way.