Sunday, December 11, 2011

How to tell if a girl likes you, but is playing hard to get?

This girl I know, and like seems to be driving up my street a lot, prank calling me using *67, but the thing is, she wants to insist Im stalking her, but she's the only one doing any pursuing.



This girl knows I like her, and I did try to hook up with her back last fall, but she wouldnt go anywhere. I didnt see this girl for months because she was at college, but she showed back up as soon as the summer hit and she was back in town.



She wont admit to liking be, and insist that she doesnt, but she acts immature when around me.



What are the signs of playing hard to get?How to tell if a girl likes you, but is playing hard to get?
If a person is really that into you, he or she will move a mountain if that is what is standing between them and a phone. I have had perfect strangers borrow my cell phone to call and let someone know that they can鈥檛 call or talk as they鈥檇 promised.



So how do you tell common ';playing hard to get'; behaviours from 鈥渘ot interested'; behaviours. These are just five major differences in behaviours:



1. The person 鈥減laying hard to get'; often has many other men or women interested in him or her but while it hard for you to get him or her, it even harder for your competition. You get a clear message that he or she likes you more and is willing to be 鈥渃aught';. With the person 鈥渘ot interested'; on the other hand, you are not even sure they like you.



2. While a person 鈥減laying hard to get'; will continue to be very open and approachable and available he or she will be hard to nail down. The person 鈥渘ot interested'; on the other hand though he or she may have been very open and approachable and available initially will suddenly seem distant and unreachable.



3. A person playing hard to get will call when or she says they will call mainly because they care about how you feel and are careful not to hurt your feelings and consequently drive you away. The one 鈥渘ot interested'; just thinks of him or herself. Period.



4. A person 鈥減laying hard to get'; will cancel a date and usually has plausible reasons. S/he also makes sure to reschedule and already has a date, place and time in mind. The person 鈥渘ot interested'; if s/he calls at all will leave you unsure when you will next speak or see him or her.



5. A person 鈥減laying hard to get'; makes a real effort to get to know you as a person: asks personal questions about you, your work, your family or your day. He or she remembers things you say and let you know that they do. A person 鈥渘ot interested'; may keep in contact but asks no personal questions about you and avoids any personal questions about themselves. If he or she is lonely and just enjoying the attention, you find yourself in the role of adviser, counsellor, coach or purely social support. Once they find someone else to lean on, they move on without any guilt or shame about using you.

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