i like a girl and we only know each other from a class last semester but now we see each other around campus a lot and are always really friendly and she always asks how i am and i always try to make small talk with her. the other day i asked her to lunch and she said ';maybe'; but without hesitation and no tone in her voice like ';uhhh'; it was just a straight forward maybe.Could this girl be playing hard to get?
um dude i hate to break to you.. but she might just see you as a friend. but then again i might just be wrong. try giving her hints that you like her and see how she responds.. if she flirts back then theres a chance she might like you. Good Luck. hope i helped
Thursday, October 28, 2010
How do you play hard to get? -a girl who needs help with guys...her first time dating?
hey...i thought...how do you play hard to get? and does it work? i need help! i have only had a bf in 5th grade....please help me!How do you play hard to get? -a girl who needs help with guys...her first time dating?
dont do hard to get, it just makes them think that ur not interested, and they lose hopeHow do you play hard to get? -a girl who needs help with guys...her first time dating?
You are too little to be worrying about such things.
No, it does not work and it's not appreciated.
playing games is stupid.
OMG! DON'T PLAY HARD TO GET! no one will like you except players
The only way to have a ';real'; relationship, is to be yourself, ';games'; always end, with a winner and a loser, don't they?
only works with extremely good looking guys who can get any girl they want but want a challenge and get turned on by pursuing a girl who is hard to get.
someone flirts with you dont flirt backkids hair
dont do hard to get, it just makes them think that ur not interested, and they lose hopeHow do you play hard to get? -a girl who needs help with guys...her first time dating?
You are too little to be worrying about such things.
No, it does not work and it's not appreciated.
playing games is stupid.
OMG! DON'T PLAY HARD TO GET! no one will like you except players
The only way to have a ';real'; relationship, is to be yourself, ';games'; always end, with a winner and a loser, don't they?
only works with extremely good looking guys who can get any girl they want but want a challenge and get turned on by pursuing a girl who is hard to get.
someone flirts with you dont flirt back
Girl playing hard to gett????????????/?
Thers this girl at my school..same grade same grade.....
She works at TARGET. I go by her coutner she goes away..No one was in line.I was like yooo..she turns around and says hey how are you? i'm like good you? shes like good. She goes to my school, but i never had any classes with her. I was liek dunt u go to my school. She had this attitudy yes. I was like woah what a ***** in my mind. Then she asks if i'm older then her? I said uhh nooo;...Then she asked if I was gonna donate 1 dollar to red cross? I was liek uhh sure. Then finally she asked if I worked at walmart. I said ';naa'; She smiled and said oh and then said bye..
Last week at school....as me and my bud walked by her at her locker....ma bud told me she looked at me while i walked by...i didn't look at her.... I then add her on facebook...she accepts and i msg her sayin hey hows life? she kept on sayin lol and was playing dumb to all my responses...Then yesterday i see her after school walking with her friend to parking lot...she turns around seez me and then quickly turns around says and somthing quiet to her friend. I cudn't hear them...I parked beside her and i see her i say hi she says heyy and then quickly gets in car and starts texting a good minute ...i was putin ma bag in trunk ...she didnt start her car and was in there jus texting? I feels she's avoiding me...is she?
Then today i was my bud who was takin pix ofr the year book ...her friends suv came and he asked if they wanted to be in yearbook..they like sure...the girl then drives in and gets out of her car with her friend....her friend keeps a distance...but she came closer to me i was wathcin my buddy takin pix and so was she ...she was liek 14 inches away from me...she came so close seh was almsot touching my car...
Whats her msg? I liek her does she like me? Is she shy?
Also , she walked out of guidance and she turned left ...she saw me and turned the other way and walked...i walked up and said hey wud up she said nothin much...then goes to her friend and talks to her and then she starts lookin at me...
Apprently my friend said she saw the girl roll eyes and I said wuudupGirl playing hard to gett????????????/?
.She'a aware of your attention.She waiting on you making a move.lnvite her for a coffee.See what happens
Girls, what is the best way to play hard to get when talking with a girl?
If there is a girl that I like and we are talking and flirting, how do I play it like I don't like at all when in fact, I'm in love! I want to play hard to get!Girls, what is the best way to play hard to get when talking with a girl?
What will you accomplish by playing hard to get? Be confident about your feelings and treat her like you love her. If she feels the same way you'll be on your way to a successful relationship. Focus on the goal. If you want to lose her, then play games, but if you want to be with her, be genuine.Girls, what is the best way to play hard to get when talking with a girl?
Playing hard to get is for children. Are you a child?
The simple answer is ';DON'T.'; She has to know you're interested.
If you ignore her and seems not to be interested, you might only push her away. I'm sure you don't want that
well u needn't gush....but playing hard to get doesn't help either....show her that u really like her at the same time without losing ur self respect
the girls play hard to get the GUYS do the chasing. not the other way round
What will you accomplish by playing hard to get? Be confident about your feelings and treat her like you love her. If she feels the same way you'll be on your way to a successful relationship. Focus on the goal. If you want to lose her, then play games, but if you want to be with her, be genuine.Girls, what is the best way to play hard to get when talking with a girl?
Playing hard to get is for children. Are you a child?
The simple answer is ';DON'T.'; She has to know you're interested.
If you ignore her and seems not to be interested, you might only push her away. I'm sure you don't want that
well u needn't gush....but playing hard to get doesn't help either....show her that u really like her at the same time without losing ur self respect
the girls play hard to get the GUYS do the chasing. not the other way round
Do guys really like it when a girl plays hard to get? or when she tells you how she feels?
I kinda asked this earlier but i only got two answers.. i. need more advice!!
My boyfriend and i are taking a break.. and i feel like he wants to talk to me more when i ignore him and say im out having fun even if im really not.. When i tell him how i feel it seems like he gets annoyed... so should i act like im fine and just not tell him how i feel? Or should i tell him i love him and i wanna be with him.. and that i would like a future with him even after i said i couldnt take the break..? And i wouldnt wait for him.. im not doing this on purpose to mess with him.. im just confused on what to do...Do guys really like it when a girl plays hard to get? or when she tells you how she feels?
Well, I dunno how old you are, but hard-to-get annoys me more than anything. You should get out and do something with your life if you're really on break. The whole point is to have more to bring back into the relationship if and when it resumes.
My boyfriend and i are taking a break.. and i feel like he wants to talk to me more when i ignore him and say im out having fun even if im really not.. When i tell him how i feel it seems like he gets annoyed... so should i act like im fine and just not tell him how i feel? Or should i tell him i love him and i wanna be with him.. and that i would like a future with him even after i said i couldnt take the break..? And i wouldnt wait for him.. im not doing this on purpose to mess with him.. im just confused on what to do...Do guys really like it when a girl plays hard to get? or when she tells you how she feels?
Well, I dunno how old you are, but hard-to-get annoys me more than anything. You should get out and do something with your life if you're really on break. The whole point is to have more to bring back into the relationship if and when it resumes.
Do girls ever play hard to get?
Do girls ever play hard to get with a guy and how would they do it?Do girls ever play hard to get?
The simple answer is yes, girls do play hard to get. They do this by
- Teasing/fighting
- Deliberately turning up a few minutes late to a date.
- Deliberately taking their time when returning calls or texts
- Deliberately claiming to be unavailable to meet up when they are available
- Flirting with other men in front of you
However, you need to be careful not to mistake a girl who is genuinely not interested in you for a girl who is interested and just playing hard to get. If she does any of the following, it usually means she is simply not interested.
- She looks ANNOYED when teasing/fighting, as opposed to PLAYFUL
- She stands you up for a date without explanation and does not apologise sincerely afterwards or suggest another date.
- She ignores your all your calls and texts entirely (not just one or two)
- Always claiming to be unavailable, and not suggesting an alternative day for when she will be available. (Or suggesting an alternative day but then claiming to be unavailable when the day arrives)
- Flirting with other men behind your back, or dating other men.
The best way to test if a woman is playing hard to get is to play hard to get too (without being mean or annoying, and still flirt occasionally). If she seems to start chasing you or show more interest in you than she did before, it means she was playing hard to get and is infact interested after all.
If she doesn't change her manner at all and continues ignoring/avoiding/fighting you, then she was not playing hard to get, and she is simply not interested in you at all.
Don't try to make her jealous, though. It always always always backfires.Do girls ever play hard to get?
I just do it sometimes
Yes.
Gosh yeh all the time!
Guys like the chase , and if i play hard to get it will make them want me more haha :P
I act like they don't exsits somedays , and then somedays i always take notice of them. It confuseses them haha :P
x
yes, they act like they dont want you but they really do =P
Heh... cute Starlett_x. Just one problem; you're wrong.
Let's all thank Starlett_x for giving us an insight into the way some women tend to think.
Now let's look at everything she did wrong.
1. Guys like the chase.
No we don't. Guys want things to be easy. We are very lazy, and if we get a shot at some easy action we're going to take it over something we have to work for.
2. It makes them want me more.
Lemme say this again : Guys are lazy. When we have to work for something, we want it even less. Guys like things when they're easy, or when the girl makes the first move.
3. It confuses them.
We don't like being confused either. Here's a little secret... we make fun of the girls that try to confuse us. The more confusing you try to be, the more you are labeled as a ';whacko'; and the harder it is for you to find a guy who will even remain slightly interested in you.
But here's the thing, I bet I can tell you something that I bet no one else has been able to tell you without talking to you... I bet that you have been in a countless number of relationships that always proved too clingy, or possessive, or abusive, but never a good relationship. Never an equal one.
But that's okay. When you can try to play mind-games with guys all day, why would you want a relationship?
Yes i have but most guys never figure it out
yes,some girls do that because she is testing you if you can really be good and honest to her.
The simple answer is yes, girls do play hard to get. They do this by
- Teasing/fighting
- Deliberately turning up a few minutes late to a date.
- Deliberately taking their time when returning calls or texts
- Deliberately claiming to be unavailable to meet up when they are available
- Flirting with other men in front of you
However, you need to be careful not to mistake a girl who is genuinely not interested in you for a girl who is interested and just playing hard to get. If she does any of the following, it usually means she is simply not interested.
- She looks ANNOYED when teasing/fighting, as opposed to PLAYFUL
- She stands you up for a date without explanation and does not apologise sincerely afterwards or suggest another date.
- She ignores your all your calls and texts entirely (not just one or two)
- Always claiming to be unavailable, and not suggesting an alternative day for when she will be available. (Or suggesting an alternative day but then claiming to be unavailable when the day arrives)
- Flirting with other men behind your back, or dating other men.
The best way to test if a woman is playing hard to get is to play hard to get too (without being mean or annoying, and still flirt occasionally). If she seems to start chasing you or show more interest in you than she did before, it means she was playing hard to get and is infact interested after all.
If she doesn't change her manner at all and continues ignoring/avoiding/fighting you, then she was not playing hard to get, and she is simply not interested in you at all.
Don't try to make her jealous, though. It always always always backfires.Do girls ever play hard to get?
I just do it sometimes
Yes.
Gosh yeh all the time!
Guys like the chase , and if i play hard to get it will make them want me more haha :P
I act like they don't exsits somedays , and then somedays i always take notice of them. It confuseses them haha :P
x
yes, they act like they dont want you but they really do =P
Heh... cute Starlett_x. Just one problem; you're wrong.
Let's all thank Starlett_x for giving us an insight into the way some women tend to think.
Now let's look at everything she did wrong.
1. Guys like the chase.
No we don't. Guys want things to be easy. We are very lazy, and if we get a shot at some easy action we're going to take it over something we have to work for.
2. It makes them want me more.
Lemme say this again : Guys are lazy. When we have to work for something, we want it even less. Guys like things when they're easy, or when the girl makes the first move.
3. It confuses them.
We don't like being confused either. Here's a little secret... we make fun of the girls that try to confuse us. The more confusing you try to be, the more you are labeled as a ';whacko'; and the harder it is for you to find a guy who will even remain slightly interested in you.
But here's the thing, I bet I can tell you something that I bet no one else has been able to tell you without talking to you... I bet that you have been in a countless number of relationships that always proved too clingy, or possessive, or abusive, but never a good relationship. Never an equal one.
But that's okay. When you can try to play mind-games with guys all day, why would you want a relationship?
Yes i have but most guys never figure it out
yes,some girls do that because she is testing you if you can really be good and honest to her.
Do all girls play hard to get, like chase me?
Im having a problem with two girls at the moment, they both know about each other and are not contacting me and i am deliberatly ignoring them because i dont like to chase, its rude! what should i do? i am meeting one this sunday. I did this to one before and she got upset i wasnt playng her game then she said she will call me and never did and now we havnt spoken for 2 days, she wanted me to chase her for not calling. How long can they last until they chase me lolDo all girls play hard to get, like chase me?
oh they won't chase you. They just want you to chase them. Pick you favourite of the girls and chase her - its what she wants and you'll get her straight awayDo all girls play hard to get, like chase me?
Ive never chased a girl unless you count pre school. I make them chase me and then I jump on them
you just gotta have that vibe dude....sounds like you dont have it...........its a gift i guesse :)
Uhm,
your playing a game dude. CHoose one girl focus on her .. wtf seriously.. If you want something to come out of it like a relationship be front about it.. Otherwise, don't complain your screwing over two girls at the same time..
Girls play hard to get because their insecure. They want to add value to themselves.
For example: (Diamonds) their rare thus valuable.
Its the same concept. If I were you I would go with the other girl because the girl who wants you to chase her is immature. Hope this helps you out.
not all girls do, but listen to your heart!
me? I usually am the one doing the chasing....so I don't know what its like for a guy to chase after me, I hear its fun, romantic, and all kinds of stuff but Idk I just don't like playing games... =/
it seems like we have the same problem almost...I'm trying to chase after the guy I love but Idk if he will accept me back or not..cause some reason he likes this other girl he has been friends with...Idk whats going on in his head, he won't even tell me why he likes her and why he is with her..
never talk a girl into being with you.. that's a huge huge mistake. rather make some friends.. be yourself.. do things you enjoy especially with friends. People .. girls.. who like you .. will demonstrate this by choosing to spend time with you. If you chase a girl.. she would only be settling for you for the moment.. you werent the object of her desire.. .. but .. if she is always there when you turn around.. if she wants to be with you.. then that's gold. Spending time together doing things you both like to do.. having fun.. becoming close friends.. i think is the way to go.. keep sex out of it.. cus that ruins everthing. sex is like glue.. sticks you in a bad relationship.. or a good one.. make sure it's a DAMN good one first. Never chase a girl tho.. cus even if u get her .. marry her.. u end up in divorce.. .. make sure.. your the one SHE wants.. (without you doing any convincing .. begging.. pleading.. acting like something your not etc.. ) before u give her the power to hurt you.
Choose one or you'll end up hurting both.
oh they won't chase you. They just want you to chase them. Pick you favourite of the girls and chase her - its what she wants and you'll get her straight awayDo all girls play hard to get, like chase me?
Ive never chased a girl unless you count pre school. I make them chase me and then I jump on them
you just gotta have that vibe dude....sounds like you dont have it...........its a gift i guesse :)
Uhm,
your playing a game dude. CHoose one girl focus on her .. wtf seriously.. If you want something to come out of it like a relationship be front about it.. Otherwise, don't complain your screwing over two girls at the same time..
Girls play hard to get because their insecure. They want to add value to themselves.
For example: (Diamonds) their rare thus valuable.
Its the same concept. If I were you I would go with the other girl because the girl who wants you to chase her is immature. Hope this helps you out.
not all girls do, but listen to your heart!
me? I usually am the one doing the chasing....so I don't know what its like for a guy to chase after me, I hear its fun, romantic, and all kinds of stuff but Idk I just don't like playing games... =/
it seems like we have the same problem almost...I'm trying to chase after the guy I love but Idk if he will accept me back or not..cause some reason he likes this other girl he has been friends with...Idk whats going on in his head, he won't even tell me why he likes her and why he is with her..
never talk a girl into being with you.. that's a huge huge mistake. rather make some friends.. be yourself.. do things you enjoy especially with friends. People .. girls.. who like you .. will demonstrate this by choosing to spend time with you. If you chase a girl.. she would only be settling for you for the moment.. you werent the object of her desire.. .. but .. if she is always there when you turn around.. if she wants to be with you.. then that's gold. Spending time together doing things you both like to do.. having fun.. becoming close friends.. i think is the way to go.. keep sex out of it.. cus that ruins everthing. sex is like glue.. sticks you in a bad relationship.. or a good one.. make sure it's a DAMN good one first. Never chase a girl tho.. cus even if u get her .. marry her.. u end up in divorce.. .. make sure.. your the one SHE wants.. (without you doing any convincing .. begging.. pleading.. acting like something your not etc.. ) before u give her the power to hurt you.
Choose one or you'll end up hurting both.
How can you tell if a girl is playing hard to get or playing you?
how can you tell if a girl in class is playing hard to get or playing with your feelings?How can you tell if a girl is playing hard to get or playing you?
the way she looks at youHow can you tell if a girl is playing hard to get or playing you?
If she makes you spend money then she is playing you.
If you ask her to hang out, a girl who's playing you will say ';Maybe...'; or hang out with you one day but not the next for no reason. Wheras a genuine girl who's playing hard to get may react positively. Just try asking the girl out and see what her reaction is. You'll be able to tell from there. =]
haha my girlfriend did that to guys b-4 i asked her out. they'd buy her ice cream and all that everyday and she's jus say,';thank you, your soo sweet!'; she'd ask them to buy her stuff all the time. they never said no... till i asked her out. she actually wanted me
the way she looks at youHow can you tell if a girl is playing hard to get or playing you?
If she makes you spend money then she is playing you.
If you ask her to hang out, a girl who's playing you will say ';Maybe...'; or hang out with you one day but not the next for no reason. Wheras a genuine girl who's playing hard to get may react positively. Just try asking the girl out and see what her reaction is. You'll be able to tell from there. =]
haha my girlfriend did that to guys b-4 i asked her out. they'd buy her ice cream and all that everyday and she's jus say,';thank you, your soo sweet!'; she'd ask them to buy her stuff all the time. they never said no... till i asked her out. she actually wanted me
Will i be single forever? serious advice please :(?
im just really really bad with boys. even just as friends..
to be fair there aren't many cute ones at my school but even the ones that are there just don't want to notice me. i really try hard to dress well and everything im just positive there is something with my personality.. maybe i'm just less approachable. i dont know.
i'm really shy. and it totally eats at me every day as i constantly play the role of the sidekick best friend to my friends who basically have guys drooling all over them - the one that always gives advice to the hot girl and fuels her ego while subtracting from my own. its really hard to talk about and i hate it when people ask you questions like 'do you even talk to ANY guys? have you ever even had a boyfriend?' i know at my age its really stupid to have a bf and all but i can't even remember a time EVER when a guy has liked me. seriously, i've always been the girl who pushes for people and then gets rejected(not like upfront but the people just stopped talking/awkward). i just don't understand or know what to do. i mean i try so hard to get ready in the morning and its just like who am i even trying to impress, right? :( i think sometimes people can even think im a bimbo with no personality because im so shy.
this seriously made me reach a new low, and it doesn't help that 99% of the songs on the radio have something to do with it all.. and also when you watch movies(or in real life too) and you see the guy raving about how awesome the girl is.. will anyone ever have anything like that to say about me. you know?
i was just wondering if anyone could give me some advice on how to combat this? or if anyone has been in the situation and would like to share + tell me how they got out of it?
i want to leave highschool being a changed person. someone who is totally confident and ready to take the world.. and that includes being able to talk to guys. everyones always like 'one day you'll find the one' but i dont think i ever will if i don't do something now and change.. if people don't like me now than how can i expect someone to in a few years. i dunno.
im really sorry if this was a lot. its just been on my mind.
lengthy answers would be really really appreciated. thanks xx
im in highschool btw.Will i be single forever? serious advice please :(?
Oh my gosh I know exactly how you feel no joke!
I'm in high school also and my school is small but the guys don't go after me, they go for my friends. It is the most annoying/frustrating thing when all guys go after one girl. I'm not confident at all and I'm the shy one out of my friends. I can be loud but I don't feel confident with guys so I'm quiet. Just me and another friend of mine have never had a boyfriend and we feel depressedd and we talk about it, I would talk to someone and not let it be bottled up inside of you because days I want to do nothing except lay around and think about how I want a boyfriend so bad. But I have hope that someday a guy will come and will think that I'm beautiful just the way I am. I also agree with everyone who says confidence is the key because it really is. We both have to be strong even though you just want to get away somedays. I want to leave my school too because maybe there is a guy out there and I'm just not in the right place. I always give my friends advise which lowers my confidence and I learned that the girls I was doing that to wasn't a true friend because your friends are supposed to build you up too. This probably didn't help at all but I had to reply cause this related to me so much. I hope that you find a guy one day that will make you feel on top of the world!Will i be single forever? serious advice please :(?
stop trying so hard, ur gonna just fluster urself and feel burned out..
dress for confidence, not for guys. make urself feel good, and as soon as u know it, guys will be coming to you.. don't go after guys, they'll approach you. just be patient ur still a kid lol
you might wanna hear this clip in this sermon, something concerning relationships comes up and i think a lot of people are unaware of this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGFHxOlm0dk
You know there have been different times when I felt like this. Once though a guy liked me but he's a jerk so I didn't go out with him or whatever. All I know is I'm going to change schools next year. That way it will be a whole new year, a whole new setting, a whole new start, and a whole new group of people. The people there won't know I'm often quiet at the school I'm at now. THey don't even know my name. I'm going to be totally changed in a good way! I'm going to go by middle name, I'm not going to be shy or held back at all, and I'm going to be super confident on my first day! I would highly suggest switching schools for next year and simply starting over with your life. A new school will give you the opportunity to get rid of all those ';flaws'; you think you have and also gain would you think you lack. :) I hope I helped!
hey, i'm a freshman in highschool and i know how you feel!
but i go to a really teeny weeny school so i dont feel bad that i dont have a boyfriend every five seconds because most are like brothers. but i've only had 2 boyfriends before. and like you i'm quite shy.
trust me when i say this.
1) its not you. if your looking for a boyfriend then you would want to be with someone you enjoy hanging out with. So you want someone compatible with. I guess you just haven't found someone your compatible with.
2) even if you are spending hours getting ready in the morning maybe its just not the right look for you. ask your girlfriends what they think about your hair and maybe somehow get a boys opinion.
3) i can not stress this enough. CONFIDENCE. boys are attracted to people who are confident. if you aren't confident then people are going to walk all over you and not see you as a compatible person.
i hope this has helped!
~good luck!
to be fair there aren't many cute ones at my school but even the ones that are there just don't want to notice me. i really try hard to dress well and everything im just positive there is something with my personality.. maybe i'm just less approachable. i dont know.
i'm really shy. and it totally eats at me every day as i constantly play the role of the sidekick best friend to my friends who basically have guys drooling all over them - the one that always gives advice to the hot girl and fuels her ego while subtracting from my own. its really hard to talk about and i hate it when people ask you questions like 'do you even talk to ANY guys? have you ever even had a boyfriend?' i know at my age its really stupid to have a bf and all but i can't even remember a time EVER when a guy has liked me. seriously, i've always been the girl who pushes for people and then gets rejected(not like upfront but the people just stopped talking/awkward). i just don't understand or know what to do. i mean i try so hard to get ready in the morning and its just like who am i even trying to impress, right? :( i think sometimes people can even think im a bimbo with no personality because im so shy.
this seriously made me reach a new low, and it doesn't help that 99% of the songs on the radio have something to do with it all.. and also when you watch movies(or in real life too) and you see the guy raving about how awesome the girl is.. will anyone ever have anything like that to say about me. you know?
i was just wondering if anyone could give me some advice on how to combat this? or if anyone has been in the situation and would like to share + tell me how they got out of it?
i want to leave highschool being a changed person. someone who is totally confident and ready to take the world.. and that includes being able to talk to guys. everyones always like 'one day you'll find the one' but i dont think i ever will if i don't do something now and change.. if people don't like me now than how can i expect someone to in a few years. i dunno.
im really sorry if this was a lot. its just been on my mind.
lengthy answers would be really really appreciated. thanks xx
im in highschool btw.Will i be single forever? serious advice please :(?
Oh my gosh I know exactly how you feel no joke!
I'm in high school also and my school is small but the guys don't go after me, they go for my friends. It is the most annoying/frustrating thing when all guys go after one girl. I'm not confident at all and I'm the shy one out of my friends. I can be loud but I don't feel confident with guys so I'm quiet. Just me and another friend of mine have never had a boyfriend and we feel depressedd and we talk about it, I would talk to someone and not let it be bottled up inside of you because days I want to do nothing except lay around and think about how I want a boyfriend so bad. But I have hope that someday a guy will come and will think that I'm beautiful just the way I am. I also agree with everyone who says confidence is the key because it really is. We both have to be strong even though you just want to get away somedays. I want to leave my school too because maybe there is a guy out there and I'm just not in the right place. I always give my friends advise which lowers my confidence and I learned that the girls I was doing that to wasn't a true friend because your friends are supposed to build you up too. This probably didn't help at all but I had to reply cause this related to me so much. I hope that you find a guy one day that will make you feel on top of the world!Will i be single forever? serious advice please :(?
stop trying so hard, ur gonna just fluster urself and feel burned out..
dress for confidence, not for guys. make urself feel good, and as soon as u know it, guys will be coming to you.. don't go after guys, they'll approach you. just be patient ur still a kid lol
you might wanna hear this clip in this sermon, something concerning relationships comes up and i think a lot of people are unaware of this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGFHxOlm0dk
You know there have been different times when I felt like this. Once though a guy liked me but he's a jerk so I didn't go out with him or whatever. All I know is I'm going to change schools next year. That way it will be a whole new year, a whole new setting, a whole new start, and a whole new group of people. The people there won't know I'm often quiet at the school I'm at now. THey don't even know my name. I'm going to be totally changed in a good way! I'm going to go by middle name, I'm not going to be shy or held back at all, and I'm going to be super confident on my first day! I would highly suggest switching schools for next year and simply starting over with your life. A new school will give you the opportunity to get rid of all those ';flaws'; you think you have and also gain would you think you lack. :) I hope I helped!
hey, i'm a freshman in highschool and i know how you feel!
but i go to a really teeny weeny school so i dont feel bad that i dont have a boyfriend every five seconds because most are like brothers. but i've only had 2 boyfriends before. and like you i'm quite shy.
trust me when i say this.
1) its not you. if your looking for a boyfriend then you would want to be with someone you enjoy hanging out with. So you want someone compatible with. I guess you just haven't found someone your compatible with.
2) even if you are spending hours getting ready in the morning maybe its just not the right look for you. ask your girlfriends what they think about your hair and maybe somehow get a boys opinion.
3) i can not stress this enough. CONFIDENCE. boys are attracted to people who are confident. if you aren't confident then people are going to walk all over you and not see you as a compatible person.
i hope this has helped!
~good luck!
How do you play ';hard-to-get'; with a girl. 10 points!?
How do you play hard-to-get with a girl and keep the interested. I want to do it to the point to keep her interested (as I said) but not too much to look like a jerk.How do you play ';hard-to-get'; with a girl. 10 points!?
Sit near her in class, stike a conversation, but don't sound to eager about it. Make sure she notices you, but don't give too much about your self away. Try and let her do the question asking.
Glance around the room. Then continue what you were doing. Maybe she will ask you what you were looking for. Then try to come up with a witty response.
Start talking to her and try to be laid back and cool when around her. Try not to get nervous or fidgety. Show her that you feel comfortable around her.
Don't fall for someone who has a boyfreind! That is 100% off limits to you. Unless they broke up, back off.
Don't hug her. Instead, be smiley---a quick smile in the hallway or somewhere, but that's it. Say ';hi'; to her occasionally, but not every time you see her!
Talk about general things. Like homework, school, etc. And when you get to know each other you can move on to thing about her. Like ask what she likes to do on weekends. Wait a bit before answering.
Remember to always be yourself, and have confidence in yourself. Don't try too hard.
If she doesn't ask you out, then ask her out yourself! Remember, confidence is key. Maybe sit by her on the bus or catch up with her on the walk home, and ask her what she is doing this weekend. Then maybe ask if she wants to see a movie or something.
If you think it's a bit awkward to be alone with her, or you are too nervous to go there, then invite some friends, and her friends, bowling or something, and invite her too! When you get more comfortable with her then you two could go on a date together, alone.
Take these things slowly, don't go telling your friends right away, after all, publicity can ruin relationships.
Have patience, when things go too fast they could end up... well, ended.
If she asks you to hang out, say no the first few times. If she stops asking, then approach her.How do you play ';hard-to-get'; with a girl. 10 points!?
Don't do that. That's mean. She'll think you're giving her mixed signals and then eventually move on to someone who won't waste her time.
Shame on you! :/
Sit near her in class, stike a conversation, but don't sound to eager about it. Make sure she notices you, but don't give too much about your self away. Try and let her do the question asking.
Glance around the room. Then continue what you were doing. Maybe she will ask you what you were looking for. Then try to come up with a witty response.
Start talking to her and try to be laid back and cool when around her. Try not to get nervous or fidgety. Show her that you feel comfortable around her.
Don't fall for someone who has a boyfreind! That is 100% off limits to you. Unless they broke up, back off.
Don't hug her. Instead, be smiley---a quick smile in the hallway or somewhere, but that's it. Say ';hi'; to her occasionally, but not every time you see her!
Talk about general things. Like homework, school, etc. And when you get to know each other you can move on to thing about her. Like ask what she likes to do on weekends. Wait a bit before answering.
Remember to always be yourself, and have confidence in yourself. Don't try too hard.
If she doesn't ask you out, then ask her out yourself! Remember, confidence is key. Maybe sit by her on the bus or catch up with her on the walk home, and ask her what she is doing this weekend. Then maybe ask if she wants to see a movie or something.
If you think it's a bit awkward to be alone with her, or you are too nervous to go there, then invite some friends, and her friends, bowling or something, and invite her too! When you get more comfortable with her then you two could go on a date together, alone.
Take these things slowly, don't go telling your friends right away, after all, publicity can ruin relationships.
Have patience, when things go too fast they could end up... well, ended.
If she asks you to hang out, say no the first few times. If she stops asking, then approach her.How do you play ';hard-to-get'; with a girl. 10 points!?
Don't do that. That's mean. She'll think you're giving her mixed signals and then eventually move on to someone who won't waste her time.
Shame on you! :/
Girl Problem.. How do you know if a girl is into you and is this girl playing hard to get...?
Ok. so it has been a year or more and the girl i love can never leave my mind. Im sure about half of you right now are reading this and saying ';just another love scene'; or typical teenage love, get over it or Im exaggerating. But on my life, on my very existence, that I am about to tell everything that is happening to me. It is all literal (exact), not metaphorical or exaggerated or ****** poetic. I have been in love with a girl in my highschool for my entire four years. She gave me some signs of interest during the year and everytime I was with her or she was with me, we were both excited, really happy and we both had the goosebumps. At least i did. We graduated about two weeks ago and she left with saying goodbye. I loved this girl, but the problem is that i know her and her family are not the type for asking her out unless she likes me. Its weird but true. So the only way I can be with her is for her to like me. But thats the problem. EVERY DAY I think of her. When I watch tv, and see shows with families and relationships and so forth, I fantasize me and her being in that relationship. But i thought on graduation she would tell me something since she showed me signs during the year, but all she said was goodbye. But then she texts me a week after graduation to tell me that we were both in a grad picture in the papers. Im going to California Berkely and she is going to a community college in the fall. I cant stop thinking of her since day one. And this is like the 10th post on yahoo answers. People keep telling me move on, your young, and all that bullcrap. But I cant. Its not in my control. I want to be this girls shining armor. I would give up a lot for her.Girl Problem.. How do you know if a girl is into you and is this girl playing hard to get...?
Dear Billy Bubin,
Please, I have been through this. Get your education. Forget that girl for six years and then look her up if you still love her. You have a great opportunity at UCB in the biology field and you should take advantage of it.
Fred JGirl Problem.. How do you know if a girl is into you and is this girl playing hard to get...?
The only real way is to ask her out. You might have to start hanging out with her more first but I would suggest just asking her now.
ha! *points and laughs*
I dont think you are obsessing over this because you are young, or whatever. I think you are obsessing over this cause you don't want some other dude to get a chance to do the dirty with your girl. HaHa, she's probably on her back this instant...
Haha you're funny. Thanks for making me laugh.
Zivah.
Don't give up anything until you know things are going to work out. If she really liked you as much as you feel for her, don't you think she would have said something to you? In order for you to move on you need to have closure. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Don't sound desperate or stalkerish... just be true to your feelings. If she doesn't feel the same, you will be able to move on... you are young, and you will be able to find someone who cares for you as you are capable of feeling for them. I hope everything works out for you....good luck!
I aint readin all that!
She don't like u. girls are obvious. trust.
Go out romantic dinner at fancy restaurant tell her you have feelings for her and if she does not if you could stay friends.
PS make sure she does not like any other guy if she ever talk about another guy you enter friend zone.
Honestly, you should just let he know how you feel. I know that you have thought about that and never had the guts to tell her how you feel, but at the end, its the best thing to do.
Not only will your answer be answered, but all your stress may go away.
The worst thing that could happen is that she will say she just sees you as a friend. From reading what you said, I think that may be the case.
And if she is interested then you will be so so happy.
Just take My advice, Tell HER.
this is typical even if you don't believe it trust me i was obsessed before too, now if you just ask her out and find out where you stand you will get closure, and you will move on although it will hurt at first. Just text her ask her to hang out. harmless rejection.
Aww!
That's freakin' adorable. I actually cried reading it.
I suggest, that considering she texts you and stuff that instead of texting, call her.
Just have a normal conversation about every day things. Then say somthing about how you guys don't get to see eachother so often so you two should hang out soon. Set a date.
Obvioiusly, when you go on a date. You talk. Get to know eachother and all that great stuff.
When you're on this date, you need to flirt with her. Touch her gently. Laugh. Joke around.
Then just start talking the school days. Talk about the memories you had and all that great stuff. Then comes the difficult part.
Start talking about the child hood crushes that you guys' had. Joke around about them. Laugh. Giggle. All that great stuff. Then if you want, say somthing like ';there's this girl, she always had the great personality, beautiful smile....'; (anything about her) and then say somthing like, she's sitting right across from me.
If she does seem interested in you, she'll definetly start blushing.
If you're to scared to do that. Then just flirt. And hopefully you'll get signs from her. If it ends well, maybe you'll get a kiss but if she's not that kind of girl then set another date. This will show her that you're interested and really want to get to know her.
Make the first date a social enviroment. Maybe a double date. Movies. Fair. Restaurant. Anything.
Good luck!!!! She definetly needs to know that you're interested. (she doesn't sound like she really knows that) Once she does, she'll realize what she's been missing.
Could you possibly answer my question? Thank you so much in advance!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
UCB is the best place to be at. You anyway already blew it, by not asking her out. Just go to college and be successful. Someone else will come along.
im a teenage girl myself and i love this guy in high skool and ive been loving him since the 8th grade i truly and honestly kno how you feel.
And in my opinion you should tell her ';everything'; you should tell her how much you feel for her, how long have you been feeling this way...you will never kno how she feels about you if you don';t take a risk....love is all about risk. and ofcource she is out've high school and she woodnt be listening to her parents....tell her the truth.
dude man....you have to tell her!
Dont go on with life thinking what could of been.
well first of all maybe try asking her out, since you's have graduated you text her and say hey I miss you haven't caught up in a while wanna do something? not exactly in those words but you know what I mean. if she txt back and says is anyone else coming just say if you wanna invite some other people sure. secondly you need to make sure that it's not a case of you always want what you can't have. if it makes you feel bad when she's with another guy it's probably not that then. if it doesn't work out just move on. girls also like a little mystery so you don't have to tell her everything.
goodluck babe :)
Dear Billy Bubin,
Please, I have been through this. Get your education. Forget that girl for six years and then look her up if you still love her. You have a great opportunity at UCB in the biology field and you should take advantage of it.
Fred JGirl Problem.. How do you know if a girl is into you and is this girl playing hard to get...?
The only real way is to ask her out. You might have to start hanging out with her more first but I would suggest just asking her now.
ha! *points and laughs*
I dont think you are obsessing over this because you are young, or whatever. I think you are obsessing over this cause you don't want some other dude to get a chance to do the dirty with your girl. HaHa, she's probably on her back this instant...
Haha you're funny. Thanks for making me laugh.
Zivah.
Don't give up anything until you know things are going to work out. If she really liked you as much as you feel for her, don't you think she would have said something to you? In order for you to move on you need to have closure. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Don't sound desperate or stalkerish... just be true to your feelings. If she doesn't feel the same, you will be able to move on... you are young, and you will be able to find someone who cares for you as you are capable of feeling for them. I hope everything works out for you....good luck!
I aint readin all that!
She don't like u. girls are obvious. trust.
Go out romantic dinner at fancy restaurant tell her you have feelings for her and if she does not if you could stay friends.
PS make sure she does not like any other guy if she ever talk about another guy you enter friend zone.
Honestly, you should just let he know how you feel. I know that you have thought about that and never had the guts to tell her how you feel, but at the end, its the best thing to do.
Not only will your answer be answered, but all your stress may go away.
The worst thing that could happen is that she will say she just sees you as a friend. From reading what you said, I think that may be the case.
And if she is interested then you will be so so happy.
Just take My advice, Tell HER.
this is typical even if you don't believe it trust me i was obsessed before too, now if you just ask her out and find out where you stand you will get closure, and you will move on although it will hurt at first. Just text her ask her to hang out. harmless rejection.
Aww!
That's freakin' adorable. I actually cried reading it.
I suggest, that considering she texts you and stuff that instead of texting, call her.
Just have a normal conversation about every day things. Then say somthing about how you guys don't get to see eachother so often so you two should hang out soon. Set a date.
Obvioiusly, when you go on a date. You talk. Get to know eachother and all that great stuff.
When you're on this date, you need to flirt with her. Touch her gently. Laugh. Joke around.
Then just start talking the school days. Talk about the memories you had and all that great stuff. Then comes the difficult part.
Start talking about the child hood crushes that you guys' had. Joke around about them. Laugh. Giggle. All that great stuff. Then if you want, say somthing like ';there's this girl, she always had the great personality, beautiful smile....'; (anything about her) and then say somthing like, she's sitting right across from me.
If she does seem interested in you, she'll definetly start blushing.
If you're to scared to do that. Then just flirt. And hopefully you'll get signs from her. If it ends well, maybe you'll get a kiss but if she's not that kind of girl then set another date. This will show her that you're interested and really want to get to know her.
Make the first date a social enviroment. Maybe a double date. Movies. Fair. Restaurant. Anything.
Good luck!!!! She definetly needs to know that you're interested. (she doesn't sound like she really knows that) Once she does, she'll realize what she's been missing.
Could you possibly answer my question? Thank you so much in advance!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
UCB is the best place to be at. You anyway already blew it, by not asking her out. Just go to college and be successful. Someone else will come along.
im a teenage girl myself and i love this guy in high skool and ive been loving him since the 8th grade i truly and honestly kno how you feel.
And in my opinion you should tell her ';everything'; you should tell her how much you feel for her, how long have you been feeling this way...you will never kno how she feels about you if you don';t take a risk....love is all about risk. and ofcource she is out've high school and she woodnt be listening to her parents....tell her the truth.
dude man....you have to tell her!
Dont go on with life thinking what could of been.
well first of all maybe try asking her out, since you's have graduated you text her and say hey I miss you haven't caught up in a while wanna do something? not exactly in those words but you know what I mean. if she txt back and says is anyone else coming just say if you wanna invite some other people sure. secondly you need to make sure that it's not a case of you always want what you can't have. if it makes you feel bad when she's with another guy it's probably not that then. if it doesn't work out just move on. girls also like a little mystery so you don't have to tell her everything.
goodluck babe :)
How to get in touch with a girl playing hard to get?
Hey Guys,
I sent message to this girl from Online Dating website and she passed me her MSN. We once talked over MSN and I don't see her on MSN that often. Even on Online Dating website, she doesn't appear on regular basis, once in a week. She is really cute girl and I don't wanna portray myself as desperate guy.
I want to get out of this online thing and meet her in person. I had some obvious ways of doing so but just wanna see if others can give some innovative ways of doing so. Any constructive comment is appreciated. Please support your suggestion with your experience/logic, if possible
Thanks in advance!
ps. I am comfortable with talking to girls and stuff. Just trying to make it little different than usual.How to get in touch with a girl playing hard to get?
You have to give her your credit card number, and pay her full price.connect laptop to a tv
I sent message to this girl from Online Dating website and she passed me her MSN. We once talked over MSN and I don't see her on MSN that often. Even on Online Dating website, she doesn't appear on regular basis, once in a week. She is really cute girl and I don't wanna portray myself as desperate guy.
I want to get out of this online thing and meet her in person. I had some obvious ways of doing so but just wanna see if others can give some innovative ways of doing so. Any constructive comment is appreciated. Please support your suggestion with your experience/logic, if possible
Thanks in advance!
ps. I am comfortable with talking to girls and stuff. Just trying to make it little different than usual.How to get in touch with a girl playing hard to get?
You have to give her your credit card number, and pay her full price.
Is this a case of girl playing hard to get?
How would you interpret this situation. I'll make a very long story, short. Boy meets girl, asks her out, she accepts but cancels at last moment. Boy keeps in touch with girl, calls again to ask, again she declines, boy asks if persistance is good and she said in his case, yes. She tried to call boy on a few occasions, expect he missed them, calls back and texts but no response. Boy moves on and keeps distance but still misses thinking what could have should have been. Girl runs into boy's coworker at her job and asks about boy?
Is she interested? How should I reconnect with her? Thanks. I thought maybe she wasn't into me but why would she ask about me, then?Is this a case of girl playing hard to get?
There are a couple of different explanations that I can think of in this case. I really don't see why she would have asked about you if she didn't still think about you, so that tells me that she's probably interested in you still.
What makes me wonder is that she kept canceling dates and then saying no. She might have had valid reasons that had nothing to do with you, but only you can know what kind of vibe you got from her on those occasions. Then she told you that, in your case, persistence was good. That does sound like what I'd call ';playing hard to get.'; But I haven't actually known any women who intentionally did that. When we like a guy, we generally don't want to scare him away by being over-eager but most of us are also aware that if we act like we don't want you around, you'll move on. So why did she say no to an actual date while encouraging you to keep on trying? I don't know. Maybe she wasn't quite sure herself what she wanted? Meaning that she just didn't know how to proceed but didn't want to lose you while she decided. Which, by the way, would not be a very nice thing to do. Another option is that she had lost interest and found it easier to make excuses instead of just telling you the truth. So when you confronted her with it she still didn't feel comfortable saying that it wasn't going to happen and instead told you what she thought you wanted to hear. Without committing to anything.
The part about her first trying halfheartedly to call you back and then just not calling you after that is what leads me to believe that, at that point in time at least, she wasn't interested.
But then she went and asked about you later! She is definitely NOT making this easy for you! All in all, my guess would be that she is not that clear on what she wants herself. Everything she does points in different directions, and you're right to be confused. If you care about her a lot I'd consider it worth a shot to look her up again, as long as you remember to not get too attached until you figure it out.Is this a case of girl playing hard to get?
Oh she's interested !
This could really go either way. She may really only be into you as a friend, or she might like you %26amp; is just too shy once it comes to actually dating.
Sounds like you've still got a chance.
Good luck %26lt;3
She is not interested. If she were, she would have accepted the past four times.
hmm, maybe she's just being friendly? or maybe she knew your co-worker would tell you to start up this big roller coaster again? only you can find out!
%26gt; Girl runs into boy's coworker at her job and asks about boy? %26lt;
%26gt; Is she interested? %26lt; '@@' ! (more than likely then ....if she 'asked')
%26gt; How should I reconnect with her? %26lt; How many options have you?
Use them.
Sash.
I'd say she is interested... It's definitely worth atleast giving her another call and leave a message if she does not pick up. If she doesn't return your call... Then that's just rude and she is probably not worth it or she is seeing someone else.
i dont think shes playing hard to get. Girls sometimes want what they cant have, and when its there, they dont want it. She cares but i think she just wants what she cant have, make your self seem more unavailable and if she doesnt act upon that, shes probaly not worth your time and just screwing with your mind. Dont let girls do that to you, be smarter and coach the game, dont play it.
yup i agree
start texting her again? ask her show she has been doing an that
Maybe she was choosing between you and someone else, and chose the other person at first, then when things didn't work out became more interested in you. She doesn't really sound like she's worth the effort anyhow.
she seems to be a bit confused in the beginning, girl trouble, maybe..
but anyway, if she asks about you, it's worth another try, if you really like her..!
you should contact her, in any way you can..! go for it, what have you got to loose..!?
good luck!
she's a hoe!!!!!cancelling at the last minute? That's the oldest trick in the book. She might f'uck u but she might also b ***** other guys
Is she interested? How should I reconnect with her? Thanks. I thought maybe she wasn't into me but why would she ask about me, then?Is this a case of girl playing hard to get?
There are a couple of different explanations that I can think of in this case. I really don't see why she would have asked about you if she didn't still think about you, so that tells me that she's probably interested in you still.
What makes me wonder is that she kept canceling dates and then saying no. She might have had valid reasons that had nothing to do with you, but only you can know what kind of vibe you got from her on those occasions. Then she told you that, in your case, persistence was good. That does sound like what I'd call ';playing hard to get.'; But I haven't actually known any women who intentionally did that. When we like a guy, we generally don't want to scare him away by being over-eager but most of us are also aware that if we act like we don't want you around, you'll move on. So why did she say no to an actual date while encouraging you to keep on trying? I don't know. Maybe she wasn't quite sure herself what she wanted? Meaning that she just didn't know how to proceed but didn't want to lose you while she decided. Which, by the way, would not be a very nice thing to do. Another option is that she had lost interest and found it easier to make excuses instead of just telling you the truth. So when you confronted her with it she still didn't feel comfortable saying that it wasn't going to happen and instead told you what she thought you wanted to hear. Without committing to anything.
The part about her first trying halfheartedly to call you back and then just not calling you after that is what leads me to believe that, at that point in time at least, she wasn't interested.
But then she went and asked about you later! She is definitely NOT making this easy for you! All in all, my guess would be that she is not that clear on what she wants herself. Everything she does points in different directions, and you're right to be confused. If you care about her a lot I'd consider it worth a shot to look her up again, as long as you remember to not get too attached until you figure it out.Is this a case of girl playing hard to get?
Oh she's interested !
This could really go either way. She may really only be into you as a friend, or she might like you %26amp; is just too shy once it comes to actually dating.
Sounds like you've still got a chance.
Good luck %26lt;3
She is not interested. If she were, she would have accepted the past four times.
hmm, maybe she's just being friendly? or maybe she knew your co-worker would tell you to start up this big roller coaster again? only you can find out!
%26gt; Girl runs into boy's coworker at her job and asks about boy? %26lt;
%26gt; Is she interested? %26lt; '@@' ! (more than likely then ....if she 'asked')
%26gt; How should I reconnect with her? %26lt; How many options have you?
Use them.
Sash.
I'd say she is interested... It's definitely worth atleast giving her another call and leave a message if she does not pick up. If she doesn't return your call... Then that's just rude and she is probably not worth it or she is seeing someone else.
i dont think shes playing hard to get. Girls sometimes want what they cant have, and when its there, they dont want it. She cares but i think she just wants what she cant have, make your self seem more unavailable and if she doesnt act upon that, shes probaly not worth your time and just screwing with your mind. Dont let girls do that to you, be smarter and coach the game, dont play it.
yup i agree
start texting her again? ask her show she has been doing an that
Maybe she was choosing between you and someone else, and chose the other person at first, then when things didn't work out became more interested in you. She doesn't really sound like she's worth the effort anyhow.
she seems to be a bit confused in the beginning, girl trouble, maybe..
but anyway, if she asks about you, it's worth another try, if you really like her..!
you should contact her, in any way you can..! go for it, what have you got to loose..!?
good luck!
she's a hoe!!!!!cancelling at the last minute? That's the oldest trick in the book. She might f'uck u but she might also b ***** other guys
Is this girl playing hard to get, not interested or just really shy?
Throughout class there was a girl that would smile and stare and laugh at the jokes that I told the class. She would purposely arrive late to class and sit near me. One day she decided to sit in front of me and just look back at me every 5 seconds. There was days, where she would just wait until the end of class and tap her feet and wait for something to happen even though her boyfriend was outside waiting for her. At the end of class, there were days where she just stood up and just stood there smiling at me so l stood up and gave her a little smile and left. The moment I first asked her for a question, she turned back and invaded my personal space and looked into my eyes and put her hands on my desk. I confronted her about her staring because it was a little to much as she spent an 1 hour 30 min three days a week for 5 months staring. She completely denied her actions and asked me to stop bothering her. I ignored her after she screamed at me. One week after I started ignoring her, she stared crying next to me wiping her tears. On the last day, she left with boyfriend with her head down after I ignored her that day. Later that day, I passed by her and her boyfriend and she looked down so I looked at her so she looked up and smiled. She never ever bothered to talk to me first and remained very mysterious.
A year later, I saw her pass by but she walked half across the hall and she stopped there and approached me but I didn't bother to talk to her or glance at her. A week later, I said Hi, how are you doing and she ignored me and walked passed me so I approached her and I sat next to her on a bench and she looked into my eyes and I just kept saying to her, Can you tell me what's going on repeatedly. I felt I made a mistake. Sometime later, I went up to her and asked May we talk and responded by saying no and just walked away. She recently glanced inside the class I was in to see if I was in class.Is this girl playing hard to get, not interested or just really shy?
i think at the beginning of your story she wanted to be friends... (but possibly later evolve into something more) but after a whole year... i think she's gotten over you buddy and shes afraid that if she talks to you the past year will replay itself....
she's definitely not playing hard to get .. or shy.. but she may just be trying to get back at you for ignoring her last year,Is this girl playing hard to get, not interested or just really shy?
wow, that's a little confusing. Well, do you even like her? and if you do, why would you tell her to stop looking at you? She has a boyfriend so that might be why she's avoiding you, but if she's not happy in her relationship you should just ask her about it. Just be like ';how are things going with ur boyfriend?'; or something like that. If you know her boyfriend maybe you can ask him about it.
A year later, I saw her pass by but she walked half across the hall and she stopped there and approached me but I didn't bother to talk to her or glance at her. A week later, I said Hi, how are you doing and she ignored me and walked passed me so I approached her and I sat next to her on a bench and she looked into my eyes and I just kept saying to her, Can you tell me what's going on repeatedly. I felt I made a mistake. Sometime later, I went up to her and asked May we talk and responded by saying no and just walked away. She recently glanced inside the class I was in to see if I was in class.Is this girl playing hard to get, not interested or just really shy?
i think at the beginning of your story she wanted to be friends... (but possibly later evolve into something more) but after a whole year... i think she's gotten over you buddy and shes afraid that if she talks to you the past year will replay itself....
she's definitely not playing hard to get .. or shy.. but she may just be trying to get back at you for ignoring her last year,Is this girl playing hard to get, not interested or just really shy?
wow, that's a little confusing. Well, do you even like her? and if you do, why would you tell her to stop looking at you? She has a boyfriend so that might be why she's avoiding you, but if she's not happy in her relationship you should just ask her about it. Just be like ';how are things going with ur boyfriend?'; or something like that. If you know her boyfriend maybe you can ask him about it.
This girl playing hard to get, games, or seeking my attention only?
So I tell this girl I like her, and she says she doesn't feel the same way.
I say okay, well I move on. I hear from her friend about how she talks about me now, and I'm like whatever with it. So I talk to her, and she gives me all these signs she's interested, eye contact, flicking her hair, smiling at me, laughing, etc. Then I ask for her number which she smiles at me and tells me to call/text her, gives me a hug, waves me goobye. So I call her up, and she doesn't answer... So 3 days later same, no answer, and I call her a week later, and she picks up saying something I can't understand and hangs up. So I text her, and she tells me she's doing something right now, and that she'll call me back in 2 hours cause she has to do something for her mom/This girl playing hard to get, games, or seeking my attention only?
She probably liked the attention and once you moved on she got jealous and wanted you to keep liking her because she prolly likes the fact that someone likes her and so she is trying to get you to like her again
i would say not interested though cause if she liked you she would text u ALOT!This girl playing hard to get, games, or seeking my attention only?
Smile and leave her alone. She is what is called a ';tease.'; She flirts with you and makes you think she likes you. Then when you make a move to call her, she's never available. Find a new girl to pursue and don't tell her you ever figured her out.
She's immature, and doesn't know what she wants. Forget her, she's no good for you or anyone until she grows up a bit.
Seeking attention but not interested. Just being a tease; stop calling her...get someone more mature. It is whats best :)
I say okay, well I move on. I hear from her friend about how she talks about me now, and I'm like whatever with it. So I talk to her, and she gives me all these signs she's interested, eye contact, flicking her hair, smiling at me, laughing, etc. Then I ask for her number which she smiles at me and tells me to call/text her, gives me a hug, waves me goobye. So I call her up, and she doesn't answer... So 3 days later same, no answer, and I call her a week later, and she picks up saying something I can't understand and hangs up. So I text her, and she tells me she's doing something right now, and that she'll call me back in 2 hours cause she has to do something for her mom/This girl playing hard to get, games, or seeking my attention only?
She probably liked the attention and once you moved on she got jealous and wanted you to keep liking her because she prolly likes the fact that someone likes her and so she is trying to get you to like her again
i would say not interested though cause if she liked you she would text u ALOT!This girl playing hard to get, games, or seeking my attention only?
Smile and leave her alone. She is what is called a ';tease.'; She flirts with you and makes you think she likes you. Then when you make a move to call her, she's never available. Find a new girl to pursue and don't tell her you ever figured her out.
She's immature, and doesn't know what she wants. Forget her, she's no good for you or anyone until she grows up a bit.
Seeking attention but not interested. Just being a tease; stop calling her...get someone more mature. It is whats best :)
Is this girl playing hard to get? and if she is why is she?
so i like this girl in school and i was talking to her on aim and i told her i think she's a really cool girl and is she willing to give me a chance and she says ';a chance for what'; and i said to get closer and she says ';I am good with that but you better stop bothering me.'; because i bother her Alot in school because when she gets mad she'll give me the biggest smile in the world. Also, when she walks past me i would be on the side of her and she would look straight ahead and her eyes would look to the side but her head would be straight ahead. so then yesterday i see her in school and i ask her '; are you going to let me get closer'; and she gives me the stupidest answer lol. she says '; For what? '; lol i don't know how i could have made that any clearer.Is this girl playing hard to get? and if she is why is she?
maybe she just dont want you around her all the time, give her some space and when she looks somewhere dont let you be the first person she see's otherwise shes gonna get sick of it and shes going to be thinkin hes hangin around me way too much, give her some space and get to know her when your together and stuff, i think shes saying 'for what' because your kind of crampin her style a little bit by hangin around her like a shadow. chill out dude.Is this girl playing hard to get? and if she is why is she?
';Get closer'; is pretty vague. Depending on your age she may be afraid of what you mean by that. Her asking ';For what?'; should tell you that she needs to know exactly what you want from her. Take it slow as in get to know each other.
You have asked her indirectly and directly.... now just leave her alone. If she is interested, she will give you direct or indirect signal. Don't push her...
i guess you should tell her like that you like her and ask her if she likes you or does she just wanna be friends
emm...im sorry but it sounds like she just doesnt like you.
....not worthy..AT ALL!!
maybe she just dont want you around her all the time, give her some space and when she looks somewhere dont let you be the first person she see's otherwise shes gonna get sick of it and shes going to be thinkin hes hangin around me way too much, give her some space and get to know her when your together and stuff, i think shes saying 'for what' because your kind of crampin her style a little bit by hangin around her like a shadow. chill out dude.Is this girl playing hard to get? and if she is why is she?
';Get closer'; is pretty vague. Depending on your age she may be afraid of what you mean by that. Her asking ';For what?'; should tell you that she needs to know exactly what you want from her. Take it slow as in get to know each other.
You have asked her indirectly and directly.... now just leave her alone. If she is interested, she will give you direct or indirect signal. Don't push her...
i guess you should tell her like that you like her and ask her if she likes you or does she just wanna be friends
emm...im sorry but it sounds like she just doesnt like you.
....not worthy..AT ALL!!
Is this girl playing hard to get or doesn't like me ?
ok so basicly im in high school , I was friends with this girl and she thought I was really hot at the beginning of the year thing is I already had a crush so I never asked her out , now its about 4 months later and I starting to dig this chick, but because shes attractive and popular instead of asking her out infront of her friends I asked for her phone.
Later I text her saying if she wants to go as friends to the movies , she says sorry but shes busy, so then I talk to her on facebook and she says ,(idk if this is a joke ) that her alex (her best friend who is in a relationship ) boyfriend will beat me if I touch her ( thing is shes single) I tell her bluntly I dont know what shes talking about and she replies I know the way you lok at me , so then I bring up how she looked at me before and that shuts her up.
After this conversation Idk if shes just playing bitchy or what , this is really confusingIs this girl playing hard to get or doesn't like me ?
Just go for it! instead of being low key about everything, just tell her EXACTLY how you feel! Don't lie to her and don't use any ';buts'; In your explanation. Girls love to hear how they are admired and they especially love to hear about their beauty. I know it will be hard but you can't hide it forever and if she says no, just pretend like nothing ever happened and just be her friend. I no that I can't stand it when a me and a guy don't work out and it ruins everything. I told a guy that I really liked him, but he told me he didn't like me back. I was afraid that he wouldn't be my friend anymore. He was my BEST friend. But he acted as if nothing happened and I went on liking him and he went on not liking me, but we still hung out and hugged and everything was cool. By him doing that made it sooo much easier for me to get over it. Dating relationships won't last forever and you can't ever know for sure that will, but you can make sure that you never loose a friend. Tell her how important she is and how much you love her. And just be COMPLETELY honest with her. Relationships won't work out if they are centered around lies. GOOD LUCK!
Oh and tell her in person! Not on the phone or texting! Texting and email is like the worst way to express your feelings and it will NEVER work! And all you people just telling him to get over it are rude bitches!!Is this girl playing hard to get or doesn't like me ?
In my country weetabix in your arms is a sign of true love.
Take a clue and move on.
Ugh, guys are so hard-headed.
Look, she does not want to go out with you. If she did, she would have said yes the first time you asked her.
why would you want to be with someone who treats you like that? its hard to tell, but either she is just immature or is a stupid ....., so why waste your time? surely you can find better things to occupy your time with..
She's playing hard to get, and she's not very good at it.
i might be wrong,the surest way to find out is to ask her out as more than just friends
I think she just doesnt like you very much
She isnt playing hard to get
Shes just acting PMS
Try to avoid these people
I reckon... if you start ignoring her more.. thatll knock her out of her bitchy self
You can't hear emotions over text. Talk to her in person! You'll be able to tell a lot easier. Just say hi to her, and if she makes a disgusted look and turns away, she was being bitchy, and if she gives you a coy smile, she's playing hard to get.
I think your just playing creepy or she knows she's the sloppy seconds.
well she isn't playing hard to get that's for sure. she probably isn't interested anymore..
dude i think she is playin u so not interested sorry.... i wish she was u seem like a good kid but this is the honest truth
just say that you really like her and don't call her bitchy or anything cause that in my opinion is just pushing her away it's either that or you are in love
She sounds VERY immature. You sound more mature about a relationship. Move on, move on, move on. You don't need this kind of drama in your life right now. There are many, many girls out there that don't have her issues. Go find them.
Shes just a ***** ; forget about her an move on !
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I honestly don't think she's interested. She probably would have jumped at the opportunity to go to the movies.
This girl seems really immature. I know it's easier said than done, but forget her.
She is not playing hard too get...just forget her she seems like a bit8ch anyway.
hmmm it doesnt look like she likes you too much... sorry...
She likes you but she doesn't want to. Maybe she has had a crush on this other guy you speak of and is afraid of hurting him if she goes with you. Give it time, man. You got awhile. I'm not saying don't try for her, just don't rush her.
Another possibility: maybe her parents don't want her to date and she is too embarrassed to tell you. Some parents are like that.
Good luck! ;)
Talk to her when you're both alone. It sounds like a big NO to me.
you should not have said anything about the friends things. if you like her don't give up to a ( whatever the hell kind of answer she gave you), and if not you can probably take her friend anyways.
Later I text her saying if she wants to go as friends to the movies , she says sorry but shes busy, so then I talk to her on facebook and she says ,(idk if this is a joke ) that her alex (her best friend who is in a relationship ) boyfriend will beat me if I touch her ( thing is shes single) I tell her bluntly I dont know what shes talking about and she replies I know the way you lok at me , so then I bring up how she looked at me before and that shuts her up.
After this conversation Idk if shes just playing bitchy or what , this is really confusingIs this girl playing hard to get or doesn't like me ?
Just go for it! instead of being low key about everything, just tell her EXACTLY how you feel! Don't lie to her and don't use any ';buts'; In your explanation. Girls love to hear how they are admired and they especially love to hear about their beauty. I know it will be hard but you can't hide it forever and if she says no, just pretend like nothing ever happened and just be her friend. I no that I can't stand it when a me and a guy don't work out and it ruins everything. I told a guy that I really liked him, but he told me he didn't like me back. I was afraid that he wouldn't be my friend anymore. He was my BEST friend. But he acted as if nothing happened and I went on liking him and he went on not liking me, but we still hung out and hugged and everything was cool. By him doing that made it sooo much easier for me to get over it. Dating relationships won't last forever and you can't ever know for sure that will, but you can make sure that you never loose a friend. Tell her how important she is and how much you love her. And just be COMPLETELY honest with her. Relationships won't work out if they are centered around lies. GOOD LUCK!
Oh and tell her in person! Not on the phone or texting! Texting and email is like the worst way to express your feelings and it will NEVER work! And all you people just telling him to get over it are rude bitches!!Is this girl playing hard to get or doesn't like me ?
In my country weetabix in your arms is a sign of true love.
Take a clue and move on.
Ugh, guys are so hard-headed.
Look, she does not want to go out with you. If she did, she would have said yes the first time you asked her.
why would you want to be with someone who treats you like that? its hard to tell, but either she is just immature or is a stupid ....., so why waste your time? surely you can find better things to occupy your time with..
She's playing hard to get, and she's not very good at it.
i might be wrong,the surest way to find out is to ask her out as more than just friends
I think she just doesnt like you very much
She isnt playing hard to get
Shes just acting PMS
Try to avoid these people
I reckon... if you start ignoring her more.. thatll knock her out of her bitchy self
You can't hear emotions over text. Talk to her in person! You'll be able to tell a lot easier. Just say hi to her, and if she makes a disgusted look and turns away, she was being bitchy, and if she gives you a coy smile, she's playing hard to get.
I think your just playing creepy or she knows she's the sloppy seconds.
well she isn't playing hard to get that's for sure. she probably isn't interested anymore..
dude i think she is playin u so not interested sorry.... i wish she was u seem like a good kid but this is the honest truth
just say that you really like her and don't call her bitchy or anything cause that in my opinion is just pushing her away it's either that or you are in love
She sounds VERY immature. You sound more mature about a relationship. Move on, move on, move on. You don't need this kind of drama in your life right now. There are many, many girls out there that don't have her issues. Go find them.
Shes just a ***** ; forget about her an move on !
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I honestly don't think she's interested. She probably would have jumped at the opportunity to go to the movies.
This girl seems really immature. I know it's easier said than done, but forget her.
She is not playing hard too get...just forget her she seems like a bit8ch anyway.
hmmm it doesnt look like she likes you too much... sorry...
She likes you but she doesn't want to. Maybe she has had a crush on this other guy you speak of and is afraid of hurting him if she goes with you. Give it time, man. You got awhile. I'm not saying don't try for her, just don't rush her.
Another possibility: maybe her parents don't want her to date and she is too embarrassed to tell you. Some parents are like that.
Good luck! ;)
Talk to her when you're both alone. It sounds like a big NO to me.
you should not have said anything about the friends things. if you like her don't give up to a ( whatever the hell kind of answer she gave you), and if not you can probably take her friend anyways.
Easy points ...shy girl playing hard to get?
Thers this girl at my school..same grade same grade.....
She works at TARGET. I go by her coutner she goes away..No one was in line.I was like yooo..she turns around and says hey how are you? i'm like good you? shes like good. She goes to my school, but i never had any classes with her. I was liek dunt u go to my school. She had this attitudy yes. I was like woah what a ***** in my mind. Then she asks if i'm older then her? I said uhh nooo;...Then she asked if I was gonna donate 1 dollar to red cross? I was liek uhh sure. Then finally she asked if I worked at walmart. I said ';naa'; She smiled and said oh and then said bye..
Last week at school....as me and my bud walked by her at her locker....ma bud told me she looked at me while i walked by...i didn't look at her.... I then add her on facebook...she accepts and i msg her sayin hey hows life? she kept on sayin lol and was playing dumb to all my responses...Then yesterday i see her after school walking with her friend to parking lot...she turns around seez me and then quickly turns around says and somthing quiet to her friend. I cudn't hear them...I parked beside her and i see her i say hi she says heyy and then quickly gets in car and starts texting a good minute ...i was putin ma bag in trunk ...she didnt start her car and was in there jus texting? I feels she's avoiding me...is she?
Then today i was my bud who was takin pix ofr the year book ...her friends suv came and he asked if they wanted to be in yearbook..they like sure...the girl then drives in and gets out of her car with her friend....her friend keeps a distance...but she came closer to me i was wathcin my buddy takin pix and so was she ...she was liek 14 inches away from me...she came so close seh was almsot touching my car...
Whats her msg? I liek her does she like me? Is she shy?
Also , she walked out of guidance and she turned left ...she saw me and turned the other way and walked...i walked up and said hey wud up she said nothin much...then goes to her friend and talks to her and then she starts lookin at me...
Apprently my friend said she saw the girl roll eyes when I said wut upEasy points ...shy girl playing hard to get?
Doesn't sound like she's a fan of you at all. But it sounds like she'd be willing to talk to you from time to time. But overall, she's not interested friendwise or datewiseEasy points ...shy girl playing hard to get?
she likes you but she's shy. she's not avoiding you, she's just embarrassed because she doesn't want you to know she likes you. make the first move because she definitely isn't going to.
If shes shy, shes not playing hard to get. Shes just being shy.
OMG you posted this like last week. troll!
lol yes she is shy. she may like you, but she's not gonna show it until you make her more comfortable around you.
1) never talk to someone at work about personal matters or chit-chat. they have to act professional at all times.
she just seems nervous around you. yeah, she probably does like you, but you haven't really tried to get to know her have you?
This girl sounds like she's messing around and is playing hard to get. I wouldn't go after her if I were you. She probably was just talking to her friends about you because of your little nuances with her and adding her on facebook and talking at the store. You are just acquaintances. A girl who likes you who is worth your time would talk to you normally like a person, say hi to you unannounced and smile at you. If you catch a girl doing that, and without attitude, then you're good man.
Yeah she's just shy.
You know the best way to earn points with a shy girl? Blather on and on about where she works and how she acts towards you on a public internet forum. But seriously, grow a pair and ask her for yourself. Because guess what, nobody here knows what she thinks, none of your dopey friends or her dopey friends know what she thinks. Only she does.
it sounds like one of two things:
either she thinks you're a weird creep and she has no feelings for you whatsoever.....orrrrrr
she likes you but she doesn't want to get to get caught up in anything right now cuz of a recent heartbreak.....but theres no way to know for sure...so just see how it works out;]
Girl playing hard to get...?
I mentioned there was a girl I've been trying to ask out, and since I only know to find her at work, thats where I hafta to do it.
I asked her once and she said she was taking a break from dating, but ask again in a few months. She was very nice about it and we've had a casual conversation so there's friendly enough waters.
Yesterday, I managed to get her as she was getting a DVD checked out for me, I slyly asked if I still had a chance of asking her out. She replied not yet, with a smile. I asked if that meant I still had a chance but she just kept smiling and saying not yet. Finally, she smiled and laughed and cautioned me that I was 'picking' or something.
I backed off and finally got her to admit that I might have a chance if I tried again somewhere in the near future. I said I'd do just that. I love this girl, she's beautiful and I'm totally taken with her. I wondering how I should go from here. Give her room, send some flowers, or just keep lightly pushing the subject..?Girl playing hard to get...?
You need to ask her out a good 3 days in advance. So, stop beating around the bush and say, ';Hey, I'd like us to get together this Saturday. How 'bout it? I can pick you up around 5 ish, and we can go to this restaurant and have Steak or Seafood. How does that sound to you? Blah, blah, blah... use your own terms of course, make your own plans. But try to pin her down one way or the other. How 'bout Sunday? Or would Friday be better? No more wishey-washey...
If she still stalls you, then try again one more time in a coupla weeks. If she turns you down again, then move on.
I asked her once and she said she was taking a break from dating, but ask again in a few months. She was very nice about it and we've had a casual conversation so there's friendly enough waters.
Yesterday, I managed to get her as she was getting a DVD checked out for me, I slyly asked if I still had a chance of asking her out. She replied not yet, with a smile. I asked if that meant I still had a chance but she just kept smiling and saying not yet. Finally, she smiled and laughed and cautioned me that I was 'picking' or something.
I backed off and finally got her to admit that I might have a chance if I tried again somewhere in the near future. I said I'd do just that. I love this girl, she's beautiful and I'm totally taken with her. I wondering how I should go from here. Give her room, send some flowers, or just keep lightly pushing the subject..?Girl playing hard to get...?
You need to ask her out a good 3 days in advance. So, stop beating around the bush and say, ';Hey, I'd like us to get together this Saturday. How 'bout it? I can pick you up around 5 ish, and we can go to this restaurant and have Steak or Seafood. How does that sound to you? Blah, blah, blah... use your own terms of course, make your own plans. But try to pin her down one way or the other. How 'bout Sunday? Or would Friday be better? No more wishey-washey...
If she still stalls you, then try again one more time in a coupla weeks. If she turns you down again, then move on.
How do u play hard to get with a guy who knows u like them?
i know he likes me %26amp; he knows i like him, he recently broke up with me(after 4 months) because i didnt make him work hard enough to keep me, i told him i still love him and would do anything to get him back, he told me he still has major feelings for me %26amp; if i could make him work %26amp; want to work hed be mine again in a heart beat, he said that its because he luvs it when girls play hard to get!%26amp; that he really wants me to do that %26amp; he said if i dont then i must not really want him that bad! I really love him %26amp; NEED him back please help me iv never played hard to get b4 %26amp; im not sure how i should do this PLEASE i NEED this i NEED him!!!! every second i wait is that much closer i am to loosing him for good! PLEASEHow do u play hard to get with a guy who knows u like them?
first of all you don't NEED anybody to live. That makes you sound really desperate and thats wat hes talkin about. He doesnt want you to be so clingy.
heres wat u need 2 do
when he looks at you in the hallway, instead of giving him a dead on smile and wave, just glance from the side and and give him a sexy kinda smirk
u might wanna practice this in the mirror so u dont look consitpated.
also, hang out with guys more. I mean dont completely ignore u regular friends but if u hang out with guys he'll be like ';oh lemme go after her so i can keep her and make sure no one else gets her';
also u can like tease him by smirkin like i said but then like not really paying attention 2 him
BUT REMEMBER THIS: if a guy ever makes u uncomfortable with wat u r doing or he makes u change or do something u dont want to he is not the girl for uHow do u play hard to get with a guy who knows u like them?
first off, wear somethinhg KINDA skimmpy, not sluttish, but show off ore than usual...then, when he talks to you, give one words answers, and in the middle of the convo, just walk away and do something else ( but DONT talk to some other guy ) act like you not interested, and then make him chase you...
act intrested.. but also like if things dont work out// u wont care.
first of all you don't NEED anybody to live. That makes you sound really desperate and thats wat hes talkin about. He doesnt want you to be so clingy.
heres wat u need 2 do
when he looks at you in the hallway, instead of giving him a dead on smile and wave, just glance from the side and and give him a sexy kinda smirk
u might wanna practice this in the mirror so u dont look consitpated.
also, hang out with guys more. I mean dont completely ignore u regular friends but if u hang out with guys he'll be like ';oh lemme go after her so i can keep her and make sure no one else gets her';
also u can like tease him by smirkin like i said but then like not really paying attention 2 him
BUT REMEMBER THIS: if a guy ever makes u uncomfortable with wat u r doing or he makes u change or do something u dont want to he is not the girl for uHow do u play hard to get with a guy who knows u like them?
first off, wear somethinhg KINDA skimmpy, not sluttish, but show off ore than usual...then, when he talks to you, give one words answers, and in the middle of the convo, just walk away and do something else ( but DONT talk to some other guy ) act like you not interested, and then make him chase you...
act intrested.. but also like if things dont work out// u wont care.
How do you play hard to get with ex BF?still BFF & still majorlly LOVE him!ill take any advice i can get! thnx
i know he likes me %26amp; he knows i like him, he recently broke up with me(after 4 months) because i didnt make him work hard enough to keep me, i told him i still love him and would do anything to get him back, he told me he still has major feelings for me%26amp;if i could make him work%26amp;want to work hed be mine again in a heart beat, he said that its because he luvs it when girls play hard to get!%26amp;that he really wants me to do that %26amp; he said if i dont then i must not really want him that bad! I really love him%26amp;NEED him back please help me iv never played hard to get b4 %26amp; im not sure how i should do this PLEASE i NEED this i NEED him!!!!every second i wait is that much closer i am to loosing him for good!PLEASE,he is DEFINETLY worth it w/o a doubt, he makes me happier then any1 else in the whole world%26amp;he treated me like a diamond when we were 2gether, we are still best friends!any advice on how to get him back%26amp;how 2 play hard 2 get would b greatly appretiated,ill take as much as i can get! thnxHow do you play hard to get with ex BF?still BFF %26amp; still majorlly LOVE him!ill take any advice i can get! thnx
I am finding it very hard to understand why you want to be with someone who is playing mind games with you. How is that treating you like a ';diamond?';How do you play hard to get with ex BF?still BFF %26amp; still majorlly LOVE him!ill take any advice i can get! thnx
I don't think he wants a gf, is he looking for a lap dog. if he thought anything of you he wouldn't be making you do anything. To play hard to get knock him into touch and do not have him back, move onto someone new.
This is really weird! I can't stand it when someone plays hard to get, but I can understand how it could drive someone else wild.
Sorry , I might not be very helpful but there is soething wrong here; you are not supposed to play any thing hard here!
boys are supposed to play it hard and not girls.
get away from him.
No offence but what kind of a guy would break up with you because you didn't make him 'work hard enough'. That is just sad. I suggest you don't go back to him
im interested to know this to, and how u can tell if girl is acting hard 2 get or if the girl just isnt interested. PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION?!!!!!
I am finding it very hard to understand why you want to be with someone who is playing mind games with you. How is that treating you like a ';diamond?';How do you play hard to get with ex BF?still BFF %26amp; still majorlly LOVE him!ill take any advice i can get! thnx
I don't think he wants a gf, is he looking for a lap dog. if he thought anything of you he wouldn't be making you do anything. To play hard to get knock him into touch and do not have him back, move onto someone new.
This is really weird! I can't stand it when someone plays hard to get, but I can understand how it could drive someone else wild.
Sorry , I might not be very helpful but there is soething wrong here; you are not supposed to play any thing hard here!
boys are supposed to play it hard and not girls.
get away from him.
No offence but what kind of a guy would break up with you because you didn't make him 'work hard enough'. That is just sad. I suggest you don't go back to him
im interested to know this to, and how u can tell if girl is acting hard 2 get or if the girl just isnt interested. PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION?!!!!!
How to get a girl who plays hard to get?
She acts like she doesn't like me when i flirt with her. But she still talks to and texts me. We're not good friends and she knows im interested. Soooooo
any adviceee?
p.s. she gives me nothing to work with when were talking, and yet i still spit some game.
sooooo
any advice ?
(you devious girls) haha
This is highschool. yesHow to get a girl who plays hard to get?
Maybe she's not playing anything. Maybe she feels bad for you, or just wants to be nice to you. I almost had to deck a guy that kept trying to get with my girlfriend even after she told him she wasn't interested.How to get a girl who plays hard to get?
I hate those kinda bitches
play hard to get, back at her...you'll see how it ends up my friend...you'll see...its good =]
Smack her on the azz. She'll loosen up then
She's trying to act too cool to make you more attracted to her. I do it pretty much every day. And it works. (you silly, stupid boys) =)
Honestly... Be a prick.
Stop paying attention to her,
be really vague and boring with your replies back on your texts...
And watch her go ';Hey where have you been?';
Women are so stupid man, once you master them, you've got it made.
Just ignore her. She'll either come around, or leave you alone. I've never wasted my time with chicks like that.
Maybe she doesn't actually like you.
About the only thing you can try is ignoring her. If she's interested she'll start initiating the conversations %26amp; texts.
well why not ask her when texting maybe her freinds dont like you so she only sms you and ignores you are with her friends .
Get another girl... There's a thin line between playing hard to get and just playing games. You don't want a chick like that.
Either be straight forward with her and stop BSing or chase after someone else and talk to her about it. Ask her what she thinks you should do to get ';this other girl'; who doesn't really exist, maybe someone you work with or go to school with...you know, whoever. She'll get jealous and then it'll happen!
Darling, she is probably terrified of you! I say that in the most complimentary way possible. I say this because I recently dated a man who knocked me off of my feet! I never called him and I ';played it cool'; when he invited me to get together. I didn't talk much, because I had serious ';butterflies'; when I was around him. Take notice of when you are with her, does she blush...appear nervous...smile a lot? Then I am more then likely right. Good luck, you stud you :)
i would be careful with this girl. my mom, and my bestfriend are like her. only they really aren't interested in the guys they always talk to... they use them to make them feel better about themselves. they love being chased but will never commit.
start ignorin her. us women HATTTTEEE THAT. we will chase after you trust me
Play ';Are you nervous yet?';.
Just kidding!
Play hard to get right back. Start giving her less attention. When you guys are talking in school and another girl friend of yours walks by say ';Hey gorgeous';. Do that to all the girls except her. Make her just a little jealous. When you text, be really vague and subtle.
If this doesn't hook her, then she's just not interested. If she's interested, then this will hook her.
hey! No! don't be a jerk! girls hate that... she's tryin to have fun an probably thinks it turns you on... ima chick in highschool an i do that do this guy i like cuz idk when he really likes/wants me an i am so afraid of letting him in if he's gonna trash it. just tell her. i really like you but i don't know if you feel the same an i dont want you to lead me on. . and either she will break down and let you in, or just say i wanna be friends! :D
Good luckk!
tell her straight that you like her.
Have you ever thought that she just doesn't like you? She could just talk to you because she's a nice person.I'm like that, I'm nice to everyone.To be honest, it just sounds like she's being polite.Usually if a guy flirts with me and i'm not interested, i'll just pretend that i didn't notice and be polite.Let it go before you make a fool out of yourself.
any adviceee?
p.s. she gives me nothing to work with when were talking, and yet i still spit some game.
sooooo
any advice ?
(you devious girls) haha
This is highschool. yesHow to get a girl who plays hard to get?
Maybe she's not playing anything. Maybe she feels bad for you, or just wants to be nice to you. I almost had to deck a guy that kept trying to get with my girlfriend even after she told him she wasn't interested.How to get a girl who plays hard to get?
I hate those kinda bitches
play hard to get, back at her...you'll see how it ends up my friend...you'll see...its good =]
Smack her on the azz. She'll loosen up then
She's trying to act too cool to make you more attracted to her. I do it pretty much every day. And it works. (you silly, stupid boys) =)
Honestly... Be a prick.
Stop paying attention to her,
be really vague and boring with your replies back on your texts...
And watch her go ';Hey where have you been?';
Women are so stupid man, once you master them, you've got it made.
Just ignore her. She'll either come around, or leave you alone. I've never wasted my time with chicks like that.
Maybe she doesn't actually like you.
About the only thing you can try is ignoring her. If she's interested she'll start initiating the conversations %26amp; texts.
well why not ask her when texting maybe her freinds dont like you so she only sms you and ignores you are with her friends .
Get another girl... There's a thin line between playing hard to get and just playing games. You don't want a chick like that.
Either be straight forward with her and stop BSing or chase after someone else and talk to her about it. Ask her what she thinks you should do to get ';this other girl'; who doesn't really exist, maybe someone you work with or go to school with...you know, whoever. She'll get jealous and then it'll happen!
Darling, she is probably terrified of you! I say that in the most complimentary way possible. I say this because I recently dated a man who knocked me off of my feet! I never called him and I ';played it cool'; when he invited me to get together. I didn't talk much, because I had serious ';butterflies'; when I was around him. Take notice of when you are with her, does she blush...appear nervous...smile a lot? Then I am more then likely right. Good luck, you stud you :)
i would be careful with this girl. my mom, and my bestfriend are like her. only they really aren't interested in the guys they always talk to... they use them to make them feel better about themselves. they love being chased but will never commit.
start ignorin her. us women HATTTTEEE THAT. we will chase after you trust me
Play ';Are you nervous yet?';.
Just kidding!
Play hard to get right back. Start giving her less attention. When you guys are talking in school and another girl friend of yours walks by say ';Hey gorgeous';. Do that to all the girls except her. Make her just a little jealous. When you text, be really vague and subtle.
If this doesn't hook her, then she's just not interested. If she's interested, then this will hook her.
hey! No! don't be a jerk! girls hate that... she's tryin to have fun an probably thinks it turns you on... ima chick in highschool an i do that do this guy i like cuz idk when he really likes/wants me an i am so afraid of letting him in if he's gonna trash it. just tell her. i really like you but i don't know if you feel the same an i dont want you to lead me on. . and either she will break down and let you in, or just say i wanna be friends! :D
Good luckk!
tell her straight that you like her.
Have you ever thought that she just doesn't like you? She could just talk to you because she's a nice person.I'm like that, I'm nice to everyone.To be honest, it just sounds like she's being polite.Usually if a guy flirts with me and i'm not interested, i'll just pretend that i didn't notice and be polite.Let it go before you make a fool out of yourself.
Is this an example of a girl playing hard to get?
I met this girl clubbing last night, who has told me earlier she liked me and we've held hands before etc
So we met last night and when we first met she hugged me really hard for like 20 seconds telling me how she had missed me so much and she even bought me drinks lol and we were like touching each other and she was pretty much grinding my leg but then all of a sudden she started hitting on her male friends in front of me (who have girlfriends so are only friends) and kinda ignoring me but not. She then left the club without me while i was talking to a friend without telling me.
When i met up with her again at the new club she did the half ignoring thing to me again so i just got fed up and left with my friends.
Later on she msged me and was telling me to come back etc. Does this mean she is playing me or not? Even though she has genuinely liked me before, whats going on?Is this an example of a girl playing hard to get?
This is an example of a girl being immature. Do you really want the kind of on-again off-again relationship she's promising you?Is this an example of a girl playing hard to get?
she likes you. she's just being silly or she's not comfortable with liking you are something,
if you like her, be upfront and just say you wanna hang out, go on a real date. forget this club crap. then see what she has to say. she might be shocked that you're being upfront and mature about wanting to get to know her better.
Whatever game she's playing you can do without it..... I'd steer clear if i were you.
Dude you could play along with her or ask her whats going on
She's treating you like a puppet on a string. Get rid!
she wants attention-plain and simple-she wants you to make the move and is trying to make you jealous-how about instead of going to a club with everyone you ask her out to dinner (the two of u only) and c where it leads. Or u could always go to club and mess around in front of her to c how she reacts cuz thts the only reason shes doing it is to get u to act on it
bambiluvsg@aol.com
So we met last night and when we first met she hugged me really hard for like 20 seconds telling me how she had missed me so much and she even bought me drinks lol and we were like touching each other and she was pretty much grinding my leg but then all of a sudden she started hitting on her male friends in front of me (who have girlfriends so are only friends) and kinda ignoring me but not. She then left the club without me while i was talking to a friend without telling me.
When i met up with her again at the new club she did the half ignoring thing to me again so i just got fed up and left with my friends.
Later on she msged me and was telling me to come back etc. Does this mean she is playing me or not? Even though she has genuinely liked me before, whats going on?Is this an example of a girl playing hard to get?
This is an example of a girl being immature. Do you really want the kind of on-again off-again relationship she's promising you?Is this an example of a girl playing hard to get?
she likes you. she's just being silly or she's not comfortable with liking you are something,
if you like her, be upfront and just say you wanna hang out, go on a real date. forget this club crap. then see what she has to say. she might be shocked that you're being upfront and mature about wanting to get to know her better.
Whatever game she's playing you can do without it..... I'd steer clear if i were you.
Dude you could play along with her or ask her whats going on
She's treating you like a puppet on a string. Get rid!
she wants attention-plain and simple-she wants you to make the move and is trying to make you jealous-how about instead of going to a club with everyone you ask her out to dinner (the two of u only) and c where it leads. Or u could always go to club and mess around in front of her to c how she reacts cuz thts the only reason shes doing it is to get u to act on it
bambiluvsg@aol.com
HELP!! How do I deal with a girl playing hard to get?
Im 21. I met a girl a month ago. We've been on four dates and have hung out a few times. When we're together everything is great and she has a great time but she plays hard to get so bad when were not together and Im so confused. We'll have a great night and she'll tell me to call her tomorrow then she won't answer and she won't answer texts sometimes. Ive wanted to kiss her for so long but I just can't figure out if it will scare her off. She seems to like me so much when we're together but then she plays hard to get. She has accepted every date and hang out invitation and alwasy says we should hang out again. I'll talk to her on the phone and ill say ';I'll call u tomorrow'; and she will say ';ok, tty tomorrow'; and then not answer and return it two days later. I also overheard her telling her roommate that she should be getting chased not chasing someone else. Its really annoying me. What should I do? HELP!! How do I deal with a girl playing hard to get?
THis is what you've gotta do, in theory. ';I like you';
THis is what you've gotta do, in theory. ';I like you';
How do girls play hard to get?
This guy and I have been talking for a little less that two weeks and have really hit it off, we have really connected about what we wanted in a relationship and what kind of people we were (above the influence). We had been talking through only text messaging though, no actual phone calls, although they had be lengthy and had lots of opinions and such in them. We went on a date the following Sunday which turned out really great. We ended up kissing during the movie and had a great time with each other. A day or two afterward, he couldn't stop talking about how great the date was and how much he really liked me. Two days ago, we had been texting and he had stopped responding fairly early, which was fine, but he did the same thing the next day. Also, it's almost as if the texts are short and bland. I don't really know what's happened, and I'm not sure what I should do. Help? I want to play hard to get and seem as a ';prize'; in his eyes, but how exactly should I do that?
Please and thank you. How do girls play hard to get?
well when you and a bimch of your friends go out talk to everyone EXCEPT him and when u finally do talk to him point soemthing embarasing out like say your nose wiggles when u talk and put him outta place and then flirt a bunch but keep it under controllHow do girls play hard to get?
answerer one= bad approach
Openly admit you like him, talk about your problems, if your beingopen and hes not then hes not your type. plain and simple.
Please and thank you. How do girls play hard to get?
well when you and a bimch of your friends go out talk to everyone EXCEPT him and when u finally do talk to him point soemthing embarasing out like say your nose wiggles when u talk and put him outta place and then flirt a bunch but keep it under controllHow do girls play hard to get?
answerer one= bad approach
Openly admit you like him, talk about your problems, if your beingopen and hes not then hes not your type. plain and simple.
Is this girl playing hard to get or what?
Ok there is this girl that my friend said I should talk to her cause she was saying how cute I was and stuff so I talk to her and she doesnt seem real interested she had me on speaker phone almost the whole conversation and would be silly but she didnt really ignore me and I was getting confused cause Idk which way this girl would go she is also preppy turning emo and she has some issues but admits them she is also nice not mean but its also like she likes a little bad in her life and I would ask her do you like talking to me and she was like yeah but she would tease me and txted me your gay and then her name and I was your jk right and she was like yeah and she also denied the fact her and my friend talked about me and she never said she didnt like me so Idk what should I do I tlked to her last night but I didnt call her today neither has she so Im confused and shes hard to keep up with I need some answers lolIs this girl playing hard to get or what?
She hates you.Is this girl playing hard to get or what?
Stop spending time on this girl... She sounds way too complicated. If she's interested, let her come to you. You've made the first steps, don't do anything more.
yes, she's just playing hard to get.. .
.challenging.. .hehehe.. .
^ _ ^
Why dont you ask her to call you sometime and see if she calls you, maybe she needs to be lead a little. If she calls then you can tell if she is interested in you.
She hates you.Is this girl playing hard to get or what?
Stop spending time on this girl... She sounds way too complicated. If she's interested, let her come to you. You've made the first steps, don't do anything more.
yes, she's just playing hard to get.. .
.challenging.. .hehehe.. .
^ _ ^
Why dont you ask her to call you sometime and see if she calls you, maybe she needs to be lead a little. If she calls then you can tell if she is interested in you.
Is this girl playing hard to get or genuinely not interested.?
So I started talking to this girl about two weeks ago. I've known her for a while, although not terribly well. It started when I saw her checking me out at an event, so the next day I commented on her photo, and we had a comment convo for about 3 hours resulting in almost 30 comments. Since then she comments on my statuses now and then and we have had around 3 or 4 IM convos running late into the night. The convos are difficult to gage because she teeters between friendly and obviously flirtatious. I finally was able to get her number, but it was just because she wanted me to text her when I pulled this prank I was planning. I've texted her once after i pulled the harmless prank, and we again texted til like 1 AM. She said, teasingly, that she would have alot to tease me about if i was with her in person; to which i replied that we would have to hang out and see. She said maybe we will with a little haha at the end. I then replied that a yes would be just fine. She then said: how about a certain next time i see you, we'll for sure talk :). Idk if this is a cute way of saying yes or a polite no. Anyways, she hasn't texted me in two days, and i haven't texted her in two days. As far as the IM convos go, Im not a real guy friend of hers, so I doubt she would talk to me for so long so many times just as friends, and if she really wasn't interested, I doubt she would continue the convos for so long, but idk. She is incredibly difficult to gage. So what do you all think: playing hard to get or not interested in that way?Is this girl playing hard to get or genuinely not interested.?
This girl sounds like she likes you, since she has bothered talking to you, and she gave you her number for a reason.
3 or 4 im conversations, running into the night, isn't a friendly no.
'how about a certain next time i see you, we'll for sure talk :).'
From this, I get the impression, she does like you, but she'd rather hang out with you in person, until she makes the decision as to whether she actually likes you or not.
She probably wont talk first on MSN, or whatever messenger you use, and it's more than likely that she is sitting there, waiting for you to talk first, because girls just don't start the conversations, when they like someone.Is this girl playing hard to get or genuinely not interested.?
She obviously has some interest towards getting to know you. If she had no intention of wanting to get ot know you, she would probably ingore your text and IMs for the most part. Yet she doesn't. Get some kind of get together going on, maybe with some friends like to play pool or see a movie and ask if she wants to come along. Don't poke at the idea that it;s a date, just hanging out as friends, that's all. Be sure to flirt with her and tease her often, since girls love it when guys pick on them in a playful way. Check out this site for some more info on dealing with women, it may come in handy.
This girl sounds like she likes you, since she has bothered talking to you, and she gave you her number for a reason.
3 or 4 im conversations, running into the night, isn't a friendly no.
'how about a certain next time i see you, we'll for sure talk :).'
From this, I get the impression, she does like you, but she'd rather hang out with you in person, until she makes the decision as to whether she actually likes you or not.
She probably wont talk first on MSN, or whatever messenger you use, and it's more than likely that she is sitting there, waiting for you to talk first, because girls just don't start the conversations, when they like someone.Is this girl playing hard to get or genuinely not interested.?
She obviously has some interest towards getting to know you. If she had no intention of wanting to get ot know you, she would probably ingore your text and IMs for the most part. Yet she doesn't. Get some kind of get together going on, maybe with some friends like to play pool or see a movie and ask if she wants to come along. Don't poke at the idea that it;s a date, just hanging out as friends, that's all. Be sure to flirt with her and tease her often, since girls love it when guys pick on them in a playful way. Check out this site for some more info on dealing with women, it may come in handy.
Why is this girl playing hard to get?
ok, so their is this girl that I always catch glancing at me and checking me out and she does it a lot. I know that this means she is interested and I have also responded to her glancing and I think she knows I am interested as well. But for some reason she tries to avoid me and I can't have a conversation with her because she turns her back on me and starts talking with her girlfriends. Anyways this has been going on around a year. I think she is scared to talk to me since she is a little shy or maybe she is not ready to handle a relationship (we are both 19). I think I should move move on since she is making this seem harder than what it should be.So ladies do you have an opinion on why she is playing hard to get and how should I handle this situation?Why is this girl playing hard to get?
Yeah she likes you but isn't purposely playing hard to get...it sounds like she is just shy. You need to ask to speak to her alone and see if she wants to go out for lunch or something casual like that. Give her the chance of at least talking to her and if she blows it then I would move on if I were you because there is no point in wasting anymore of your time on her.
To be honest, as soon as she starts to see you with other girls or she starts to think you aren't interested and you are playing hard to get then she will probably buck her ideas up and want you even more!! :) xWhy is this girl playing hard to get?
im in this exact position the other way round obv. im the girl.......just go up to her and talk to her. Thats what she is waiting for
she wants to see how long you'll last. u should ask her out. if she rejects..move on. because then obviously she's not that into you
Let me get this strait you have been ';trying'; to talk to her for almost a year. You either have no game or you鈥檙e really not trying that hard.
Maybe you should try not to approach her individually but when she's with her friends in a group approach the whole group and start a convo. See what they are doing that weekend and show up. Be a friend and then go in for the kill. That is if you have the skills.
You are not going to get anywhere with girls that play hard to get if you quit at the starting line.
You are exhibiting too much insecurities that are clouding your better judgment.
If a girl looks at you from across the room, ignoring all others, you apparently caught her eye about something....that's an invite for you to come to her.
Her first reaction, even adult women will do this, will be a fake-surprise reaction of ';were you looking at me?'; or they will turn their back towards you so you can go around her and get her attention...girls do these little things because they like being chased and wanted.
She may not be scared at all, she may not be shy, but you are definitely giving off messages to her that you are shy and scared of her, since she gave you opportunities that has been dropped over and over again for an entire year.
If she plays hard to get, you need to pick up the cues and respond to them accordingly.
Best that you drop your excessive presumptions of people, drop the insecurities, and learn from guys that have dealt with mind-games like ';hard to get';
Dating is one giant game to her.
Do not quit before you get to the playground.
I did the same thing when I was in sixth grade. I had a crush whom I kept staring at only to look away when our eyes met!
Now on to your predicament... I guess she's a little diffident due to various reasons (i.e. rejection, etc.), and chances are she finds you equally evasive as well. Try to talk to her first, I'm sure you'll find an opportunity to do so? If you have mutual friends then use it as a tool; excuse her from her posse if you must, but do it politely. Another option is to add her on any online networking site where she has registered and leave a casual message (then maybe proceed to meet in person if the feeling, in fact, is mutual). Although, personally, I think that's a bit stalker-ish.
If all else fails then you probably have to move on. I have absolutely no idea why ladies play hard to get; some bitches do it on purpose and sometimes they do it unknowingly. It has a lot of complicacies, really, like it depends on how experienced they are and stuff. We're merely humans and are prone to mistakes. Plus, every single man (yes, women included) have differing sets of values so to speak.
Yeah she likes you but isn't purposely playing hard to get...it sounds like she is just shy. You need to ask to speak to her alone and see if she wants to go out for lunch or something casual like that. Give her the chance of at least talking to her and if she blows it then I would move on if I were you because there is no point in wasting anymore of your time on her.
To be honest, as soon as she starts to see you with other girls or she starts to think you aren't interested and you are playing hard to get then she will probably buck her ideas up and want you even more!! :) xWhy is this girl playing hard to get?
im in this exact position the other way round obv. im the girl.......just go up to her and talk to her. Thats what she is waiting for
she wants to see how long you'll last. u should ask her out. if she rejects..move on. because then obviously she's not that into you
Let me get this strait you have been ';trying'; to talk to her for almost a year. You either have no game or you鈥檙e really not trying that hard.
Maybe you should try not to approach her individually but when she's with her friends in a group approach the whole group and start a convo. See what they are doing that weekend and show up. Be a friend and then go in for the kill. That is if you have the skills.
You are not going to get anywhere with girls that play hard to get if you quit at the starting line.
You are exhibiting too much insecurities that are clouding your better judgment.
If a girl looks at you from across the room, ignoring all others, you apparently caught her eye about something....that's an invite for you to come to her.
Her first reaction, even adult women will do this, will be a fake-surprise reaction of ';were you looking at me?'; or they will turn their back towards you so you can go around her and get her attention...girls do these little things because they like being chased and wanted.
She may not be scared at all, she may not be shy, but you are definitely giving off messages to her that you are shy and scared of her, since she gave you opportunities that has been dropped over and over again for an entire year.
If she plays hard to get, you need to pick up the cues and respond to them accordingly.
Best that you drop your excessive presumptions of people, drop the insecurities, and learn from guys that have dealt with mind-games like ';hard to get';
Dating is one giant game to her.
Do not quit before you get to the playground.
I did the same thing when I was in sixth grade. I had a crush whom I kept staring at only to look away when our eyes met!
Now on to your predicament... I guess she's a little diffident due to various reasons (i.e. rejection, etc.), and chances are she finds you equally evasive as well. Try to talk to her first, I'm sure you'll find an opportunity to do so? If you have mutual friends then use it as a tool; excuse her from her posse if you must, but do it politely. Another option is to add her on any online networking site where she has registered and leave a casual message (then maybe proceed to meet in person if the feeling, in fact, is mutual). Although, personally, I think that's a bit stalker-ish.
If all else fails then you probably have to move on. I have absolutely no idea why ladies play hard to get; some bitches do it on purpose and sometimes they do it unknowingly. It has a lot of complicacies, really, like it depends on how experienced they are and stuff. We're merely humans and are prone to mistakes. Plus, every single man (yes, women included) have differing sets of values so to speak.
Is this girl playing hard to get or is she not intrested in me?
I know this girl at school and she asked me to go to a school dance with her. In class she talks to me sometimes also when we change seats we were far apart and sometimes I see her looking at me. We also hang out at lunch with some other people too and when I was talking to my friend I glanced at her and she was looking at me. We also txt almost everyday but when I asked her to the movies she said she had to pull up her grades but I know there all are Bs or As. Also her friend said she likes me. how do I know if she likes me, she's playing hard to get or she wants to be just friends .Is this girl playing hard to get or is she not intrested in me?
Well shes not avoiding you. Just let her be she said she needs to study so let her study.Studying is more inportant right now then having a boyfriend and you should know that. Don't let her pick relationship over education. Education is way more important. You guys will probably be able to hangout whenever she is free. So don't be worried at least you guys text and hangout at lunch its better than nothing right?
Well shes not avoiding you. Just let her be she said she needs to study so let her study.Studying is more inportant right now then having a boyfriend and you should know that. Don't let her pick relationship over education. Education is way more important. You guys will probably be able to hangout whenever she is free. So don't be worried at least you guys text and hangout at lunch its better than nothing right?
Girl playing hard to get? any advice?
yea, everyones gotta ask right?
so theres this girl, i've talked to her for a while, and i really like her. we text every night, but she seems to shy away from me at school. we always make eye contact but never really talk. i cant tell if shes shy cuz she likes me, or something, because she really doesn't make it obvious. the question is how could i get her to talk to me more? when i try to approach her it kinda seems awkward, so i need a good way to approach her. also she hangs out with alot of different people. this same thing happened a while ago, same person, she would do hard to get, so i'd do it back, then instead of coming around she got even worse, until she sounded like she never wanted to talk. any tips to avoid that?
thanks in advance:)Girl playing hard to get? any advice?
shes exactly how i am! shes not really playing hard to get shes probably just not sure if you like her back so shes shy and scared to show it in fear that you dont feel the same. talk to her alot look at her and smile. try to make her feel comfortable and eventually shell open up but give her time! it can be hard for some people, i know it is for me.
so theres this girl, i've talked to her for a while, and i really like her. we text every night, but she seems to shy away from me at school. we always make eye contact but never really talk. i cant tell if shes shy cuz she likes me, or something, because she really doesn't make it obvious. the question is how could i get her to talk to me more? when i try to approach her it kinda seems awkward, so i need a good way to approach her. also she hangs out with alot of different people. this same thing happened a while ago, same person, she would do hard to get, so i'd do it back, then instead of coming around she got even worse, until she sounded like she never wanted to talk. any tips to avoid that?
thanks in advance:)Girl playing hard to get? any advice?
shes exactly how i am! shes not really playing hard to get shes probably just not sure if you like her back so shes shy and scared to show it in fear that you dont feel the same. talk to her alot look at her and smile. try to make her feel comfortable and eventually shell open up but give her time! it can be hard for some people, i know it is for me.
Help..Is this girl playing hard to get?
I use to talk to this girl back in july.. we went out about 2x and everything went good and then she just stoped talking to me for 2 months.. So when i saw her last month she actually spoke and started flirting with me like hitting me pushin me and stuff like that so i decided to try to talk back to her...so last week we went to a car show and she was all up on me holding my hand and tellin me how good i looked and all...we been communicating a little bit more...and when other girls come tak to me she just stares at me from a distance...So at the end of the day she asked me to come spend the night wid her but i didnt cuz she didnt kno when her parents would be commin back home so i tried to kiss her good night and she wouldnt she was like maybe next time...so i asked her if she thinks there could be a us in the future and she was like maybe and then she said she likes the fact that i dont give up like wtf does that mean....Now ive herd from ppl that shes a user and all this and she just likes to have fun but idk cuz she has invited me over and stuff before so idk...So is she playing hard to get or whatHelp..Is this girl playing hard to get?
Yeah, just stay away from her. I honestly hate chicks who can't let you know what is going on and to me, that's just a waste of my time. If you're going to be on it make sure you are getting yours on the side because it is perfectly good under these circumstances where it's not a defined relationship.
Yeah, just stay away from her. I honestly hate chicks who can't let you know what is going on and to me, that's just a waste of my time. If you're going to be on it make sure you are getting yours on the side because it is perfectly good under these circumstances where it's not a defined relationship.
Is this girl playing hard to get?
I know a girl who works with a friend of mine,who seems attracted to me,I see her everyday when i pick my friend up at work.she always waves and flirts a bit.however i dont know her.I heard she has a second job at a racetrac so i decided to check to find out if im right.she always says things like hi baby or honey,flirty,but now when i see her at my friends job she doesnt wave as much...does this seem like shes playing hard to get or not interested?how should i test it?Is this girl playing hard to get?
It sounds like she likes you. She probably doesn't wave as much because she figures you're not interested, as you never made a move.Is this girl playing hard to get?
';She's just not that into you'; she's playing around, ignore her
Hard to say, she either likes you or is a big flirt.
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What kind of people do I attract?
slap her in the *** and see if you get slapped
I'm not a big fan of games so I think you should just ask her out and that will tell you if she likes you or not
You must of not seemed interested in her, and that is why she quit.
Think.. What did you say back? Make sure she is not involved with someone, and then make your move.
It's simple just ask what when is her next day off like when does she have free time, and ask if she would like to hang out with you maybe see a movie.
Good luck!
well from a girls point of view she like lured you in by getting you used to having her talk to u but know she suddenly stoped to see if you even cared so you make the next move by talking to her or askin if she wants to hang out its most likely what she wants And make shure she is single
im gueesing she naturally flirty and if she cslls you names like that, she probably says it to other guys...but hey, why not check with your friend?!
Just talk to her some more why not?
does she not wave when your friend is there? it will probably mean shes shy.pet friendly rentalss
It sounds like she likes you. She probably doesn't wave as much because she figures you're not interested, as you never made a move.Is this girl playing hard to get?
';She's just not that into you'; she's playing around, ignore her
Hard to say, she either likes you or is a big flirt.
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What kind of people do I attract?
slap her in the *** and see if you get slapped
I'm not a big fan of games so I think you should just ask her out and that will tell you if she likes you or not
You must of not seemed interested in her, and that is why she quit.
Think.. What did you say back? Make sure she is not involved with someone, and then make your move.
It's simple just ask what when is her next day off like when does she have free time, and ask if she would like to hang out with you maybe see a movie.
Good luck!
well from a girls point of view she like lured you in by getting you used to having her talk to u but know she suddenly stoped to see if you even cared so you make the next move by talking to her or askin if she wants to hang out its most likely what she wants And make shure she is single
im gueesing she naturally flirty and if she cslls you names like that, she probably says it to other guys...but hey, why not check with your friend?!
Just talk to her some more why not?
does she not wave when your friend is there? it will probably mean shes shy.
How Do You Play Hard To Get?
If a girl plays that with me does that mean she likes me or does she not really care? How do you play it exactly?How Do You Play Hard To Get?
Keep playing if you like to play.How Do You Play Hard To Get?
Depends on the girl. *shrugs*
Like, how to play hard to get is comment them or smile at them, but then walk away with looking back or seeming persistent or desperate.
Hope that helps! =)
I guess the difficult thing to decipher is whether or not she's ';playing hard to get'; as flirtation or if she's just trying to avoid you and/or is indifferent to you.
if the ';playing'; can be sexually related, then she likes you but if its just messing arround, i wouldnt take a chance
She likes you just testin you
Well, if you're flirting with her and she is kinda pushing away then she may just think you're a little weird. but if you're popular and attractive then she could really like you but is being shy.
if a girl plays hard to get, she wants you to try extra hard, because the harder you try to make some girl happy the more she will like you. she deffenitly likes you
if she plays it then yes she likes you. she plays it by pretending she doesnt like you and pretending that she cant go out with you. all you need to do is make it really hard for her to turn you down if you ask her out.
Chances are, she digs you and wants your cock.
Haha. Okay there's maybe a better way to say that...
But playing hard to get is a type of flirting. It's like she's teasing you, waving her womanly assets in your face and saying, ';Want 'em? Too bad, cuz you can't have 'em. Unless you try really hard.';
Keep playin,' dude. If she keeps it up for long, then be like, ';Woah *****, are you gonna come to or not?';
Too hard to get is no fun at all.
Couldn't tell you without watching you two react together. I'm over playing games, too lazy. Plus it's soooo much more rewarding just being real. If you really want to play hard to get make sure she gets the googoo eyes for you then ignore her for a couple days. Repeat
First you got make sure she is playing.
You can usually tell when she gives you certain looks but still tries to act like she doens't care.
Best way to win them is by being confident and sort of cocky but don't overdue it.
Think James Bond. You have to keep on hitting on them and when she makes a move at you kind of deny her and she'll want you more.
it depends on if she is always like that around guys or some one but if you watch enough you will probably find out
a lot of girls at my school do that with guys they like just to test them on how theyreactt when others do it to boys they think areannoyingg so keepwatchingn her
Keep playing if you like to play.How Do You Play Hard To Get?
Depends on the girl. *shrugs*
Like, how to play hard to get is comment them or smile at them, but then walk away with looking back or seeming persistent or desperate.
Hope that helps! =)
I guess the difficult thing to decipher is whether or not she's ';playing hard to get'; as flirtation or if she's just trying to avoid you and/or is indifferent to you.
if the ';playing'; can be sexually related, then she likes you but if its just messing arround, i wouldnt take a chance
She likes you just testin you
Well, if you're flirting with her and she is kinda pushing away then she may just think you're a little weird. but if you're popular and attractive then she could really like you but is being shy.
if a girl plays hard to get, she wants you to try extra hard, because the harder you try to make some girl happy the more she will like you. she deffenitly likes you
if she plays it then yes she likes you. she plays it by pretending she doesnt like you and pretending that she cant go out with you. all you need to do is make it really hard for her to turn you down if you ask her out.
Chances are, she digs you and wants your cock.
Haha. Okay there's maybe a better way to say that...
But playing hard to get is a type of flirting. It's like she's teasing you, waving her womanly assets in your face and saying, ';Want 'em? Too bad, cuz you can't have 'em. Unless you try really hard.';
Keep playin,' dude. If she keeps it up for long, then be like, ';Woah *****, are you gonna come to or not?';
Too hard to get is no fun at all.
Couldn't tell you without watching you two react together. I'm over playing games, too lazy. Plus it's soooo much more rewarding just being real. If you really want to play hard to get make sure she gets the googoo eyes for you then ignore her for a couple days. Repeat
First you got make sure she is playing.
You can usually tell when she gives you certain looks but still tries to act like she doens't care.
Best way to win them is by being confident and sort of cocky but don't overdue it.
Think James Bond. You have to keep on hitting on them and when she makes a move at you kind of deny her and she'll want you more.
it depends on if she is always like that around guys or some one but if you watch enough you will probably find out
a lot of girls at my school do that with guys they like just to test them on how theyreactt when others do it to boys they think areannoyingg so keepwatchingn her
How should I ask a girl out who is playing hard to get?
She caught me looking at her butt and she smile! She seems to like me looking at her butt, she jumped in front of the door of a classroom and wiggle her a s s, it was obvious!
She is always flirting with other less attractive guys when I am around!!!
I have ignored her now she is mean to me and when other girls talk to me, she gives me a mean look!
Do you think she still likes me???????
Why would she be mean to me though???
Once, when I talked to a guy across the room, She just said his
name really loud!!! What does it mean!
Do you think I still have a chance with this girl???
She is compeletely ignoring me now so I don't know what to do!
She sometimes still smiles when we make eye contact!
She ignored my friend request on FACEBOOK so does it mean that she is not interested or is she getting back at me for ignoring her?
The Facebook part is ?
1. payback
2. playing hard to get
3. not interested!
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Now school started and I found out that she still stares at me and looks away!
Is this girl playing hard to get or what???
I got her jealous and now she wants me even more! Is this girl not worth it or what?
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She is desperate right now and started to dressed up all the time and I could see that!
I don't like this girl anymore so how should I give her a mean payback?
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I really need tips on getting this girl to stop liking me, the more I ignore her it seems like the more she wants to chase me and its making me sick!!!How should I ask a girl out who is playing hard to get?
Jason, your question/scenario totally bamboozles me.
I don't know if you want answers to all the questions you have posed within it or just an idea for retaliation because of her ignorance.
I will not give you ideas for being mean.
You are both game-players and you are in a situation of both your doing.
Tough it out honey, eventually this girl will tire of you ignoring her.
My only suggestion is NOT to give her any further attention, no more games, no mean looks, no comments to her or to others about her, no exasperated sighs. NOTHING.
Girl playing hard to get help?
right i like this girl and its so abvious that she likes me aswell.we harly never speak at school but all the time on msn.so on msn shes always asking me who i love but i never normal tell her but i did this time so i asked her after who do u love all she answers with is a lol. so i say what year is he in she says my year.i list every boys name down eccept for mine so she says no to them all.so it is me and how she talks to me u can tell shes likes me.(look at my last question) so shes either very shy or playing hard to get so how would u try and get it out of her because i dont wonna say oh its me.i want her to say its you so any help thanksGirl playing hard to get help?
oh .. all u can do is... stop talking to her... just ignore her... if she is worried she will 100% send u 1000000s of messages...cuz that where we make mistake.. don t show her any love till... she shows it.. and if this doent work..... ask her.. if she likes sum1 like u.. .. and if she sayd.. that it is not anyone u decribed.. then she is leing.. any gal would get angry or shocked .. if u say that she is lieing about her crush... u 'll see. or just be kul and frank.. and simply ask her out forgetting everything she saidGirl playing hard to get help?
The only answer for this is to ignore her, even on MSN, because she thinks that you are putty in her hands, and then she'll come crawling to you
Why dont you just be frank to her... rather playing this kinda game of hide %26amp; seek....
If both love one another when you both are unattached..., its better you grab her immediately before another party came in between...
You feel really worsen than...
Grab her if you really likes her...
All the best to you then...
shes playing hard to get and is dropping signals that she likes u, and shes waiting for u, to ask her out. she puts a 'lol' becoz shes shy, and she doesnt want to admit it and becoz shes afraid of being turned down. u'd be a moron if u said me, coz she'll deny it. girls like the guys to ask them out.
see how shes telling u that she likes u in a different way?? by not admitting it, but making it obivous, so she just wants u to ask her out. and if u like her and she likes u, then the best option is to ask her out. :D
oh .. all u can do is... stop talking to her... just ignore her... if she is worried she will 100% send u 1000000s of messages...cuz that where we make mistake.. don t show her any love till... she shows it.. and if this doent work..... ask her.. if she likes sum1 like u.. .. and if she sayd.. that it is not anyone u decribed.. then she is leing.. any gal would get angry or shocked .. if u say that she is lieing about her crush... u 'll see. or just be kul and frank.. and simply ask her out forgetting everything she saidGirl playing hard to get help?
The only answer for this is to ignore her, even on MSN, because she thinks that you are putty in her hands, and then she'll come crawling to you
Why dont you just be frank to her... rather playing this kinda game of hide %26amp; seek....
If both love one another when you both are unattached..., its better you grab her immediately before another party came in between...
You feel really worsen than...
Grab her if you really likes her...
All the best to you then...
shes playing hard to get and is dropping signals that she likes u, and shes waiting for u, to ask her out. she puts a 'lol' becoz shes shy, and she doesnt want to admit it and becoz shes afraid of being turned down. u'd be a moron if u said me, coz she'll deny it. girls like the guys to ask them out.
see how shes telling u that she likes u in a different way?? by not admitting it, but making it obivous, so she just wants u to ask her out. and if u like her and she likes u, then the best option is to ask her out. :D
Girl playing hard to get, how do I respond?
I have recently been smitten after this girl in my neighborhood. She's 12, and I'm 54. I've sent her flowers, written her love poems in the mail, IMed her, picked her up from school for ice cream (albeit a little against her will) and even sneaked into her bedroom to snuggle with her at night. But she's been playing hard to get; yesterday she called me a ';stalker'; and a ';creep'; and told me never to come over to her house again. She even refused a kiss. Her father seems to also be weighing my determination; he has knocked on my door and threatened to shoot me if I come near his house again, and yesterday, he posted a restraining order on my door. What do I do to up my game with this chick?Girl playing hard to get, how do I respond?
are you freaking insane you pedophile get someone your age grandpa... so not funny if you are doing this to get attention. get a lifeGirl playing hard to get, how do I respond?
let her taste her own med
haha.
rufies
are you freaking insane you pedophile get someone your age grandpa... so not funny if you are doing this to get attention. get a lifeGirl playing hard to get, how do I respond?
let her taste her own med
haha.
rufies
Do guys sometimes play games with an really attractive girl or play hard to get because shes beautiful?
I have been told that i am really attractive im and i usually have guys that are athletes hit on me so i have been dating someone for a few years and i think that he plays games with me on purpose like not telling me how he feels and sending mixed signals he has also told me im not gonna call you because all those other guys do that but i like him and don't want him to be intimidated by how i look but it seems that he is he will not just flat out say i want to be with you or i like you he plays lotsof gamesDo guys sometimes play games with an really attractive girl or play hard to get because shes beautiful?
Like it or not, most guys are intimidated by an attractive woman.
His mixed signals may result from you not giving him clear signals. And sometimes, guys just have a hard time expressing their emotions.
Don't push or he may leave.
Good luck.
Like it or not, most guys are intimidated by an attractive woman.
His mixed signals may result from you not giving him clear signals. And sometimes, guys just have a hard time expressing their emotions.
Don't push or he may leave.
Good luck.
How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?
Alright. There's this guy and I never noticed him B4. My two closest friends come up to me all happy and told me OMG! theres this guy and he asked us for your number. They say hes really popular ( they go to school with him) and he is interested in you. The next time I see them at an event we go to once a week, he is there and the loud-mouth friend 1 points him directly out, and automaticly he knows whats going on. I watched a while (he didn't know I was) to see whats he like, he knew everyone and was cool with them too. He even came over to Friend2 and shook her hand like they were cool and friend2 said they were'nt even that close. And with Loud-mouth friend1 he played with her almost flirting with her and grabbed her by the arm that she had brocken and tryed to hug her. She pulled away though. He flirted with all these older girls and stuff right in front of me.He already knows how to play hard 2get OBVIOUSLY or trying to be a player. What should I do or tecniques that I should use to let him know I'm not easy to get with or that I'm despereate and I'll take what I can get.Any rules or guideleines I can use.How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?
flirt with his friends! great fun ;) lol
or get your friends (make sure the loud mouth one doesnt give the game away) to talk about the other guy 'brad' (example lol) who has been really sweet, who is also good looking and it really interested in you.
flirt with the hard to get guy, then ten seconds later brush him off. but when things get serious, stop playing hard to get, because he will think that you arent interested
have fun :)How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?
'Playing hard to get' with someone 'Playing hard to get', can really screw the head up.
Answer: ''STOP''. Stop playing silly bloody games.
Sash.
flirt with his friends! great fun ;) lol
or get your friends (make sure the loud mouth one doesnt give the game away) to talk about the other guy 'brad' (example lol) who has been really sweet, who is also good looking and it really interested in you.
flirt with the hard to get guy, then ten seconds later brush him off. but when things get serious, stop playing hard to get, because he will think that you arent interested
have fun :)How do girls play hard to get toward a boy that is already playing hard to get?
'Playing hard to get' with someone 'Playing hard to get', can really screw the head up.
Answer: ''STOP''. Stop playing silly bloody games.
Sash.
Girl playing hard to get? How do I get her?
If a girl keeps telling you how much she wants to see you again, and making plans with you, but then breaking them at the last minute because of stuff like homework, work schedule, family obligations, not feeling well, etc., but then is adamant about seeing you again and talks to you online every day, often initiating conversation or sending text messages - is she just playing hard to get?
Every time I make plans to go out with this girl she ends up canceling at the last minute, but then tells me how much she really wants to see me again, apologizing over and over for having to cancel. I don't know what her angle is. She knows I like her a lot and am interested in her, and she continues to talk to me all the time so it doesn't seem like she is trying to avoid me. Help?
P.S. I just turned 20, she's 18.Girl playing hard to get? How do I get her?
She is definitely playing hard to get. You gotta turn the table around man. Keep your emotions, cause it seems your emotions are getting a better part of you, and trust me a lady can easily see that. It empowers ladies. Turn around and show her you can also be busy. Cancel plans before she does and have something legitimate to say. Don't initiate a new schedule with her, and see her reactions. From there, you can use your brain to take the next step.Girl playing hard to get? How do I get her?
ignore her and she'll get desperate
well, thats simple, il give you an example of what happend with me.
Me:
aright bbz, you fancy coming out tomoro night, to my house :P
Jody:
well,thats depends on what im doing, i might be going out with loads of boys to there house
Me:
Ok then, never mind, hope you have a good time :), il go with sara
Jody:
wait! im only jokin, :) ye sure, 2moro defenetly, love you, cant wait!!
There, just act like you dont wanna see them, or you dont need them, thats how girls think, they think they can treat men or boys how they want, just use it against them, lol, :), no offense to the girl by the way, im just sayin, most of them, not all of them :)
Every time I make plans to go out with this girl she ends up canceling at the last minute, but then tells me how much she really wants to see me again, apologizing over and over for having to cancel. I don't know what her angle is. She knows I like her a lot and am interested in her, and she continues to talk to me all the time so it doesn't seem like she is trying to avoid me. Help?
P.S. I just turned 20, she's 18.Girl playing hard to get? How do I get her?
She is definitely playing hard to get. You gotta turn the table around man. Keep your emotions, cause it seems your emotions are getting a better part of you, and trust me a lady can easily see that. It empowers ladies. Turn around and show her you can also be busy. Cancel plans before she does and have something legitimate to say. Don't initiate a new schedule with her, and see her reactions. From there, you can use your brain to take the next step.Girl playing hard to get? How do I get her?
ignore her and she'll get desperate
well, thats simple, il give you an example of what happend with me.
Me:
aright bbz, you fancy coming out tomoro night, to my house :P
Jody:
well,thats depends on what im doing, i might be going out with loads of boys to there house
Me:
Ok then, never mind, hope you have a good time :), il go with sara
Jody:
wait! im only jokin, :) ye sure, 2moro defenetly, love you, cant wait!!
There, just act like you dont wanna see them, or you dont need them, thats how girls think, they think they can treat men or boys how they want, just use it against them, lol, :), no offense to the girl by the way, im just sayin, most of them, not all of them :)
Girl playing hard to get with me? What can I do?
There's a girl I see once a week (I'll see her again in about an hour with a group meeting). She's playing hard to get with me, and we both like each other. She's been flirty for a few months. If we're only around people our own age her body language will be really obvious and she'll get close to me and talk really quietly to me. If we're around adults she doesn't talk much. But she's playing hard-to-get by the book practically, and I really like her a lot. I want to get to know her more and ask her out soon, but how should I do it?Girl playing hard to get with me? What can I do?
if you don't want to marry her, you shouldn't do it at all.Girl playing hard to get with me? What can I do?
when you two are alone ask her out man. please answer mine:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
ITS A TRICK SHE IS SHE PLAYING WITH YOUR HEAD AND YOUR FEELINGS!!! IF SHE REALLY LIKES YOU SHE WOULD ACT THE SAME 24/7 365 DAYS!!!
You can organise a group bowling session!
Great for many reason:
-shows you are a leader
-you can get to a low pressure environment with her
-you will have plenty of time to get to know her better
-she will disappointed NOT to go...as she will be left out
So organise this event and invite her along, if she cant come you can still have a great time...trust me though, she will make the time
if you don't want to marry her, you shouldn't do it at all.Girl playing hard to get with me? What can I do?
when you two are alone ask her out man. please answer mine:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
ITS A TRICK SHE IS SHE PLAYING WITH YOUR HEAD AND YOUR FEELINGS!!! IF SHE REALLY LIKES YOU SHE WOULD ACT THE SAME 24/7 365 DAYS!!!
You can organise a group bowling session!
Great for many reason:
-shows you are a leader
-you can get to a low pressure environment with her
-you will have plenty of time to get to know her better
-she will disappointed NOT to go...as she will be left out
So organise this event and invite her along, if she cant come you can still have a great time...trust me though, she will make the time
Girl playing hard to get or not interested?
I am interested in this girl in college, she's expressed interest several times through the semester (studying with me), random emails for advice, and last week she even said she wanted to talk to be about life next week when I am free. I have expressed interest in her as well but she seems to be playing hard-to-get. I ask her to get dinner, but at first she refuses. I then invite her to a nicer restaurant and she immediately says yes, and reveals to me that she was going to talk to me about dating/relationships, how she's always had trouble accepting those who were interested in her... at the end of her email she says she highly doubts she would be a dating candidate due to her psychological deficiencies, but she would be glad for me to continue being her ';life mentor';.
Does this mean the girl is just testing me or is she really not interested in dating? Does she want to gauge how much I care about her? I've heard from friends that if she's not interested, she usually rejects guys outright, so the fact that I've successfully invited her for dinner is a good step I guess? But I want some feedback on whether this girl is just playing games or really not into me. If she is not, I don't want to waste time being some ';life coach';.
Thanks,Girl playing hard to get or not interested?
lol i think by the sounds of this she wants itGirl playing hard to get or not interested?
Sounds like she is a headcase and not ready for any real relationship. Be confident and tell her you want to take her out that night. If she pussyfoots around and gives another excuse, take her off your to do list.
i think you need to express what you are thinking to her more clearly and a lot faster before it morphs into a brother-sister thing which it is kind of sounding like when you mentioned she said you were her life coach. i also do not like that you had to change venues, where did you invite her the first time that she said no? why did you have to change it? you also must be more direct in asking what she thinks of you and why she has certain defenses up, just to see if it really is your fault she is acting this way.( i know easier said than done) i do feel that she would like a date prospect, maybe she has no idea shes giving you vibes that say shes playing, maybe shes not playing at all and cannot express herself, or this is just her way of expressing herself. it will go better for you if you do it face to face so you get her reaction, if its a text or IM or email she has time to think about it and you get olny a bit of her response not the whole general idea, anyways good luck.
i think she is intersted but is kind of confused and doesnt know how to accept it
Sounds like she really wants a boyfriend, but then she doesn't want you, then again she thinks that you are going to be her boyfriend. I think more of playing hard to get. I think she's kinda interested in you, but just not that much. You can still try to change her mind. Your situation here is a lot better than the ones I have experienced.
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Does this mean the girl is just testing me or is she really not interested in dating? Does she want to gauge how much I care about her? I've heard from friends that if she's not interested, she usually rejects guys outright, so the fact that I've successfully invited her for dinner is a good step I guess? But I want some feedback on whether this girl is just playing games or really not into me. If she is not, I don't want to waste time being some ';life coach';.
Thanks,Girl playing hard to get or not interested?
lol i think by the sounds of this she wants itGirl playing hard to get or not interested?
Sounds like she is a headcase and not ready for any real relationship. Be confident and tell her you want to take her out that night. If she pussyfoots around and gives another excuse, take her off your to do list.
i think you need to express what you are thinking to her more clearly and a lot faster before it morphs into a brother-sister thing which it is kind of sounding like when you mentioned she said you were her life coach. i also do not like that you had to change venues, where did you invite her the first time that she said no? why did you have to change it? you also must be more direct in asking what she thinks of you and why she has certain defenses up, just to see if it really is your fault she is acting this way.( i know easier said than done) i do feel that she would like a date prospect, maybe she has no idea shes giving you vibes that say shes playing, maybe shes not playing at all and cannot express herself, or this is just her way of expressing herself. it will go better for you if you do it face to face so you get her reaction, if its a text or IM or email she has time to think about it and you get olny a bit of her response not the whole general idea, anyways good luck.
i think she is intersted but is kind of confused and doesnt know how to accept it
Sounds like she really wants a boyfriend, but then she doesn't want you, then again she thinks that you are going to be her boyfriend. I think more of playing hard to get. I think she's kinda interested in you, but just not that much. You can still try to change her mind. Your situation here is a lot better than the ones I have experienced.
answer mines please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
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